im a pretty average looking female

but i find that random people come up to me Alot

most of the time its to give them directions, watch their belongings, or help them some kind of way

my mother said i look trustworthy .. but people always ask me "whats wrong?" or "are you

ok?" because they say i look sad

kinda makes me wonder if people think i look pathetic

Stop wearing see through clothes

Ha I'm sure its because you look friendly.

I always get people coming up to me and asking about my tattoos.

I had it three times today actually. Which I don't mind, I find it quite a nice thing.

Daily ~ and ALL the time when out in public

I'm approachable ~ friendly ~ kind

Usually a smile on my face and direct eye contact to those that come my way ~ a nod or word hello and so on

I dont mind it overall BUT when i am having a "humans are nasty creatures" day ... I put that up around me and NO ONE crosses that energetic line

PicklesMcMillan said:

im a pretty average looking female

but i find that random people come up to me Alot

most of the time its to give them directions, watch their belongings, or help them some kind of way

my mother said i look trustworthy .. but people always ask me "whats wrong?" or "are you

ok?" because they say i look sad

kinda makes me wonder if people think i look pathetic

You probably do. I know it used to happen to me whne I was depressed. But I'm handsome mofo also.

Yep...random people come up to me and...

ask me for money

ask me for directions

tell me I look like somebody they know

ask me if I dance

or sometimes they just smile. WTF you smiling at?

Post your picture.

veronikka said:

This happens to me quite a bit, men and women will randomly start conversations with me. I also think it's my friendly look

Comin home from comiccon (on the bus. The best cross-section of mental illness $1.25 can buy.) this dude started talkin to me in this heavy heavy spanish accent. here's what I made out: Michael Jackson was no gay. But that Dennis Rodman. Very gay. And he was apparently 'the bess' at rebounds.

nope. I've perfected the "I probably shouldn't approach that guy for anything" scowl. It's not that I hate people, I just don't want to be bothered.

I've only ever been "approached" by one attractive woman in my entire life.

I married her.

...however, I have a habit of having random Indian/Pakistani men approach me and ask me if I am Indian/Pakistani.

It's kind of a joke now.

seldom

I tend to squint a lot

so I probably look pretty shady

to most folks

JerseyKRS said:

nope. I've perfected the "I probably shouldn't approach that guy for anything" scowl. It's not that I hate people, I just don't want to be bothered.

Same here. It comes from living in NYC and dealing with fools who are trying to hustle you on nearly every corner.

DesireeNevermind said:

Yep...random people come up to me and...

ask me for money

ask me for directions

tell me I look like somebody they know

I get the above three the most. People will make a bee line for me in the Metro.

Yes, but they usually want me for the sex only.

Maybe because I'm FAAAAMOOOOUS, BITCH!

uPtoWnNY said:

JerseyKRS said:

nope. I've perfected the "I probably shouldn't approach that guy for anything" scowl. It's not that I hate people, I just don't want to be bothered.

Same here. It comes from living in NYC and dealing with fools who are trying to hustle you on nearly every corner.

I have a perma-bitch look on my face at all times. It's necessary to keep hustlers and skeevy men from hassling me.

Yes they have always done it I don't know if I look trustworthy or if they think I am an easy target cuz I always get people begging for money or wanting some kind of help One time I was in the car in a Wal-Mart parking lot with my son and this guy walks up and says he needed a battery for his car and had all the money, but needed $20 I didn't even let him finish I immediately started to roll my window back up-it was summer so the window was down. My son says I was wrong not to hear the guy out but all I needed to hear was that he had all the money must thought I was an all day sucka

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Nope people pretty much stay away from me...I have been told I tend to look bitchy and mean.

PicklesMcMillan said:

im a pretty average looking female

but i find that random people come up to me Alot

most of the time its to give them directions, watch their belongings, or help them some kind of way

my mother said i look trustworthy .. but people always ask me "whats wrong?" or "are you

ok?" because they say i look sad

kinda makes me wonder if people think i look pathetic

yes!!!

even in other countries people start asking me for directions, for me it's ALWAYS been like that

but I don't look sad any more, that went away as I got older

PurpleJedi said:

I've only ever been "approached" by one attractive woman in my entire life.

I married her.

...however, I have a habit of having random Indian/Pakistani men approach me and ask me if I am Indian/Pakistani.

It's kind of a joke now.

excuse me, I'm not a guy or anything, but are you Indian or Pakistani by any chance?

Not really, but I will talk to just about anyone.

It's very strange, but a lot of people come up to me as if I'm going to protect them in some way....this has happened more than several times.

GetAwayFromMe said:

It's very strange, but a lot of people come up to me as if I'm going to protect them in some way....this has happened more than several times.

And you just let those teenaged hookers walk away?

DesireeNevermind said:

GetAwayFromMe said:

It's very strange, but a lot of people come up to me as if I'm going to protect them in some way....this has happened more than several times.

And you just let those teenaged hookers walk away?

I remember getting kicked out of a casino when this disabled girl came running up to me begging me to help her. She said these two bitches were harassing her, so of course, I helped her. But I got escorted out for it. I didn't get physical, but when I'm drunk, I can be OBNOXIOUS!

I do get a lot of fragile, mentally unstable people looking to me to listen to them also.

Don't know why.

^

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

I've only ever been "approached" by one attractive woman in my entire life.

I married her.

...however, I have a habit of having random Indian/Pakistani men approach me and ask me if I am Indian/Pakistani.

It's kind of a joke now.

excuse me, I'm not a guy or anything, but are you Indian or Pakistani by any chance?

Dave1992 said:

Yes, but they usually want me for the sex only.

Maybe because I'm FAAAAMOOOOUS, BITCH!

Hahahahaha

Julie

I can't say i've ever noticed someone making a beeline for me in a busy place

An old man asked me what Deli Coleslaw was in sainsbury's the other day though.