Anybody else ever have sex with their ex-spouse and regretted it? I find myself in that situation now It's my own fault for thinking age could change a person Actually, when I saw him again I was not even physically attracted to him-he's older, losing hair and has a beer belly but hey aren't we all Guess i did it just to get mine's Okay...am I the only one whose done it?

I always think to myself "there's a reason they are an ex." It is for this very situation, the temptation factor, that I am NEVER even friends with exes. Then they like to try stuff like emotional manipulation and shit. Honestly, I prefer to leave them to wander through life wishing they had one last hit........ I have never had one that didn't try to come back.

Yeah... I humped my babydaddy... I was in a very vulnerable place in life... so I made the best of it. Same o' boring fuck though.... so I grew sick of him and went sexless for a long while before I met the dude I'm fucking now.

StillGotIt said:

I always think to myself "there's a reason they are an ex." It is for this very situation, the temptation factor, that I am NEVER even friends with exes. Then they like to try stuff like emotional manipulation and shit. Honestly, I prefer to leave them to wander through life wishing they had one last hit........ I have never had one that didn't try to come back.

You are so right-I think now on the reasons why we are divorced and I am honestly happy that I dont have to deal with that drama anymore and yes he is still trying all those mind games and shit with his old ass.

paintedlady said:

Yeah... I humped my babydaddy... I was in a very vulnerable place in life... so I made the best of it. Same o' boring fuck though.... so I grew sick of him and went sexless for a long while before I met the dude I'm fucking now.

He also my sons father so I guess i did it cuz we know each other But other than that it was the same ole shit! and he really does not even excite me anymore I need one of those good fucking kinda dudes too

Yes, I do it all the time. It's fun.

JustErin said:

Yes, I do it all the time. It's fun.

I love ur honesty

You need to keep a boytoy around so that you are not tempted...if you get an itch, it can be dealth with. Seriously, NEVER invite his (the ex's) ass in, you know that is the only reason they stop by

nursev said:

JustErin said:

Yes, I do it all the time. It's fun.

I love ur honesty

Nothing ever comes out of it but a good time.

StillGotIt said:

You need to keep a boytoy around so that you are not tempted...if you get an itch, it can be dealth with. Seriously, NEVER invite his (the ex's) ass in, you know that is the only reason they stop by

all very true

The thing that bothers me the most is that I wasted my time. I mean this mf flew from another state to see us and it was all just a total waste of fucking time. Never again!

JustErin said:

nursev said:

I love ur honesty

Nothing ever comes out of it but a good time.

Hell it was cool for a minute then reality set in that I really hate that mf messing up my sheets for nothing

FauxReal said:

I've done it. It usually doesnt end well.

Now you tell me

nursev said:

JustErin said:

Nothing ever comes out of it but a good time.

Hell it was cool for a minute then reality set in that I really hate that mf messing up my sheets for nothing

I don't really hate any of my exes and we are all in touch. And the one I want nothing to do with, I wouldn't have sex with if he was the last person on earth.

JustErin said:

nursev said:

Hell it was cool for a minute then reality set in that I really hate that mf messing up my sheets for nothing

I don't really hate any of my exes and we are all in touch. And the one I want nothing to do with, I wouldn't have sex with if he was the last person on earth.

Actually, I guess this whole mess happened cuz we started talking on the phone about old history, forgiveness, blah, blah and one thing led to another A part of me will always care for him cuz he is my sons father, but the other part of me really hates him for being damn near 45yrs old and still playing the same games-the shit is old! and yes he is now in that last category on earth deal

I blame Facebook for getting me talking with that fool again Damn u fb

I just disconnect men when I'm done. I can never be friends because they never stop wanting more and it gets old. Seriously, I hate begging men...you get tired of being asked to marry all the time.........and then I get tired of trying to be nice. Its easier to just sever the bond.

Now, when you have been married and had children, that isn't really possible....

I have, but only because I refused to accept I had been dumped

guys could only consider themselves not going out with me any more once I dumped THEM

In all cases we got back together eventually but spent the time apart going at it like rabbits

I slept with every ex

that I had been in a serious, long term relationship with

like Erin, I didn't hate any of them

they didnt hate me

we may not have had a relationship anymore

but we did still have a connection

atleast on that level

no biggie really

all involved knew it would lead to nothing else

paintedlady said:

Yeah... I humped my babydaddy... I was in a very vulnerable place in life... so I made the best of it. Same o' boring fuck though.... so I grew sick of him and went sexless for a long while before I met the dude I'm fucking now.

thats a beautiful story..

blackbob said:

Having sex with an ex makes sense, since many failed relationships were PURELY based on sex and not love to begin with...so you can say it's "back to basics"...

that said, I've never had sex with an ex, mainly because I have no exes/girlfriends...

JustErin said:

nursev said:

I love ur honesty

Nothing ever comes out of it but a good time.

oh, i imagine something comes, at least occasionally...

whistle said:

JustErin said:

Nothing ever comes out of it but a good time.

oh, i imagine something comes, at least occasionally...

hello! where have you been!

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

oh, i imagine something comes, at least occasionally...

hello! where have you been!

collecting dust. love yer av, you saucy little tart.

whistle said:

ZombieKitten said:

hello! where have you been!

collecting dust. love yer av, you saucy little tart.

OMG!!!!!!!

same here!!!!!

Hell no, they are my exes for a reason.

Well, not a spouse. However, I recently broke up with someone during sex. So technically speaking it may sort of count.

novabrkr said:

Well, not a spouse. However, I recently broke up with someone during sex. So technically speaking it may sort of count.

omg that's not GOOD!

My recent ex- told me that I'm crazy, but that wouldn't stop him from coming by for sex (he used more graphic language, tho).

Kind of a turnoff, so no.