sextonseven said:

JustErin said:

So you don't like someone simply because they don't like you?

I find that a little odd. I like plenty of people that don't like me. It certainly doesn't automatically change my opinion of them.

Who's an example of someone you like who doesn't like you?

Well, a perfect example was Ivy. She really, really dislike me (and made it well known)...but I always thought she was cool and never had a problem with her, even with her not liking me.

But she likes me now.

JustErin said:

sextonseven said:

Who's an example of someone you like who doesn't like you?

Well, a perfect example was Ivy. She really, really dislike me (and made it well known)...but I always thought she was cool and never had a problem with her, even with her not liking me.

But she likes me now.

Sometimes, tho, it's not simply because they don't like me. It's the way they treat me because they say they don't like me.

I usually don't think being rude or ignoring me is a "cool" trait.

So it might not be that I "don't like them back", it might be because I think their behavior is tacky and I have no time for it.

chocolate1 said:

JustErin said:

Well, a perfect example was Ivy. She really, really dislike me (and made it well known)...but I always thought she was cool and never had a problem with her, even with her not liking me.

But she likes me now.

Sometimes, tho, it's not simply because they don't like me. It's the way they treat me because they say they don't like me.

I usually don't think being rude or ignoring me is a "cool" trait.

So it might not be that I "don't like them back", it might be because I think their behavior is tacky and I have no time for it.

I'm just ok with everyone's opinions...good or bad. It's not going to colour my opinion of them if I like what they say otherwise.

JustErin said:

Shanti0608 said:

So you don't like someone simply because they don't like you?

I find that a little odd. I like plenty of people that don't like me. It certainly doesn't automatically change my opinion of them.

Nah! I was just being sarcastic actually. I like everyone here. Well, everyone I have had the pleasure of meeting or getting to know on a personal level. I don't give much thought one way or another to the ppl that dislike me here. If I do not agree with someone's opinion, I don't think that makes them a bad person. I wouldn't have posted in P&R for so long if I only liked the people that like me.

How are you feeling btw?

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JustErin said:

sextonseven said:

Who's an example of someone you like who doesn't like you?

Well, a perfect example was Ivy. She really, really dislike me (and made it well known)...but I always thought she was cool and never had a problem with her, even with her not liking me.

But she likes me now.

Yes Poison Ivy can be very dangerous.

kpowers said:

JustErin said:

Well, a perfect example was Ivy. She really, really dislike me (and made it well known)...but I always thought she was cool and never had a problem with her, even with her not liking me.

But she likes me now.

Yes Poison Ivy can be very dangerous.

Shanti0608 said:

JustErin said:

So you don't like someone simply because they don't like you?

I find that a little odd. I like plenty of people that don't like me. It certainly doesn't automatically change my opinion of them.

Nah! I was just being sarcastic actually. I like everyone here. Well, everyone I have had the pleasure of meeting or getting to know on a personal level. I don't give much thought one way or another to the ppl that dislike me here. If I do not agree with someone's opinion, I don't think that makes them a bad person. I wouldn't have posted in P&R for so long if I only liked the people that like me.

How are you feeling btw?

[Edited 10/2/10 11:56am]

Better, not great but better. Thanks for asking.

I don't want to apologize, because I mean what I say usually... but I wanted to give props to this one orger here... I forget her name

but she started that thread recently on men being shallow because her friend didn't dig her she way she dug him...

but I expressed my opinion on the matter, and I was honest in a brutal fashion.. she didn't personalize it and took it in stride. I don't recall if she agreed, but she didn't get angry and all bitchy, which to me shows true class and maturity.

I wish more orgers were like her, and I hope her situation worked out for her.

i love you all and i'd have a drink with any of you.

whistle said:

i love you all and i'd have a drink with any of you.

Having a drink with an orger is much better than just sitting here posting, that's for sure!

Cheers!

NMuzakNSoul said:

To anyone that don't like me, I don't fucking like you either. Keep it moving.

Once upon a time this thread was considered a failure in the making.

FauxReal said:

Once upon a time this thread was considered a failure in the making.

And now it's all grown up, a fully-realised failure.

bboy87 said:

johnart said:

There were 2?

Yeah.....I think it's time to put down the Nuvo

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because it's effecting your memory

I don't drink stuff that looks like it should be sold from the Macy's perfume counter.

Fauxie said:

FauxReal said:

Once upon a time this thread was considered a failure in the making.

And now it's all grown up, a fully-realised failure.

FauxReal said:

Fauxie said:

And now it's all grown up, a fully-realised failure.

A tad harsh, perhaps.

It's cool, I fully expected it would still be deemed a failure when I posted that comment.

FauxReal said:

It's cool, I fully expected it would still be deemed a failure when I posted that comment.

Nah man, I think it went alright, in truth, but now you're officially the #1 Faux you've got to deliver.

Fauxie said:

FauxReal said:

It's cool, I fully expected it would still be deemed a failure when I posted that comment.

Nah man, I think it went alright, in truth, but now you're officially the #1 Faux you've got to deliver.

Oh I'll deliver without a doubt.

(Not that I am saying I am really #1.)

FauxReal said:

Fauxie said:

Nah man, I think it went alright, in truth, but now you're officially the #1 Faux you've got to deliver.

Oh I'll deliver without a doubt.

(Not that I am saying I am really #1.)

It's not going to work. You've no killer instinct.

Fauxie said:

It's not going to work. You've no killer instinct.

This is true.

I don't understand being too big to apologize when I realize I've done someone wrong. I've cyberstalked folk I haven't seen in over 30 years to say sorry for slights I regret from when I was a kid. And here on the org, I hand out public and private apologies left and right, it seems.

I suppose all this is to say, if I've offended any of you and haven't already apologized...

...DON'T HOLD YOUR BREATH BECAUSE I MEANT IT!!!

FauxReal said:

Fauxie said:

Nah man, I think it went alright, in truth, but now you're officially the #1 Faux you've got to deliver.

Oh I'll deliver without a doubt.

(Not that I am saying I am really #1.)

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