Alright ladies, I need a question answered.

If you saw a guy, a really good looking above avarage guy would you be intimidated to look at him? Or scared too?

Because I'm trying a new look, in terms of hair, and everyone tells me I look much better. However, when I catch a girl looking at me, if any, they INSTANTLY look away.

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

However, now I dont even see much girls looking at me, or atleast they really arent obvious this time aruond. And even if theyre directly infront of me, lets say a lady behind a register (like what happened to me today), still dont even look.

Weird. Or maybe its just todays been odd.

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I don't think it's your hair or your look that are the problem. I'd guess it's your overinflated self-confidence that puts women off. They usually pick up that vibe really fast...

No, good looking people are not intimidating or scary to look at.

LayzieKiddZ said:

Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

Are you serious?

post your pic!

JerseyKRS said:

post your pic!

That's the only way for us to really decide exactly how intimidating your amazing looks are.

retina said:

I don't think it's your hair or your look that are the problem. I'd guess it's your overinflated self-confidence that puts women off. They usually pick up that vibe really fast...

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my soul melted!

maybe I shouldn't have left it out the freezer......

BklynBabe said:

my soul melted!

maybe I shouldn't have left it out the freezer......

And to answer the question, there are only two men whose looks intimidate me. Otherwise, I have no problem looking directly at hot guys, making comments on their hot looks and propositioning them.

By the way, you do have very striking features.

BklynBabe said:

my soul melted!

maybe I shouldn't have left it out the freezer......

And to answer the question, there are only two men whose looks intimidate me. Otherwise, I have no problem looking directly at hot guys, making comments on their hot looks and propositioning them.

By the way, you do have very striking features.

What two guys? And thats pretty cool, usually guys are the ones who have to do all the work and embariss themselves and go up to the girls.

And thank you very much.

LayzieKiddZ said:

MJ, is that you?

Maybe it is because you are so creepy looking. Hey, you are the one that said it in the Creepy Strangers thread.

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he doesn't look creepy....that's not nice!

BklynBabe said:

he doesn't look creepy....that's not nice!

He is the one that said it, not me.

rmartin70 said:

Maybe it is because you are so creepy looking. Hey, you are the one that said it in the Creepy Strangers thread.

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Of corse I said it jokingly, you however little man, are just plain rude.

[img:$uid]http://i1032.photobucket.com/albums/a409/CertifiedTroll/god-haters-gonna-hate-eagle.jpg[/img:$uid]

Typical angry man that gets no play.

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retina said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

MJ, is that you?

I like MJ

At my job they used to call me blanket.

LayzieKiddZ said:

BklynBabe said:

my soul melted!

maybe I shouldn't have left it out the freezer......

And to answer the question, there are only two men whose looks intimidate me. Otherwise, I have no problem looking directly at hot guys, making comments on their hot looks and propositioning them.

By the way, you do have very striking features.

What two guys? And thats pretty cool, usually guys are the ones who have to do all the work and embariss themselves and go up to the girls.

And thank you very much.

One is a friend and the other is our office's IT guy. I've known them both for a number of years and still can't look them in the face dead on.

LayzieKiddZ said:

rmartin70 said:

Maybe it is because you are so creepy looking. Hey, you are the one that said it in the Creepy Strangers thread.

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Of corse I said it jokingly, you however little man, are just plain rude.

[img:$uid]http://i1032.photobucket.com/albums/a409/CertifiedTroll/god-haters-gonna-hate-eagle.jpg[/img:$uid]

Typical angry man that gets no play.

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Lol. That is just too funny. I was joking too, I apologize if you took it the wrong way. You are the one that posted that. I do not judge guys looks.

If I was looking at a hot dude and he caught me looking I would most definitely look away...so ya, good looking dudes can be intimidating.

LayzieKiddZ said:

retina said:

I don't think it's your hair or your look that are the problem. I'd guess it's your overinflated self-confidence that puts women off. They usually pick up that vibe really fast...

This was my expression when I read that

And this is me from 10 seconds ago, with no sleep, messy bed, and out of it expression

Never really wore my hair out, or had it long before.

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You're adorable.

I can say that without intimidation 'cuz I'm old enough to be your mother.

But generally speaking, good looking guys are not intimidating to look at. Last week at the salon there was a guy in the chair next to me getting a haircut. While he was checking himself in the mirror I said, "you look gorgeous" and he gave me a big "aw shucks" smile.

........... never mind.......

Cerebus said:

........... never mind.......

Oh say it.

And I'm surprised at the amount of women who say hot men are NOT intimidating.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

........... never mind.......

Oh say it.

And I'm surprised at the amount of women who say hot men are NOT intimidating.

Naaaaah. I started to say one thing, erased it. Wrote something else, erased that, too. I'm just gonna walk from this one. It's a pretty entertaining thread, though.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

........... never mind.......

Oh say it.

And I'm surprised at the amount of women who say hot men are NOT intimidating.

they are if their personality matches the stereotype of narcissistic and arrogant bastard well, maybe not intimidating but repulsive.

Me personally, I must have one of those built in out of your league radars, because once that goes off for me, I'm not even looking, got no interest unless HE keeps looking and then I get anxious and self-conscious.

I'm messed up and so are a good proportion of women

and, your looks aren't the problem and you know it or you wouldn't have posted your photo but thanks for posting it!!!!!

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Oh say it.

And I'm surprised at the amount of women who say hot men are NOT intimidating.

they are if their personality matches the stereotype of narcissistic and arrogant bastard well, maybe not intimidating but repulsive.

Me personally, I must have one of those built in out of your league radars, because once that goes off for me, I'm not even looking, got no interest unless HE keeps looking and then I get anxious and self-conscious.

I'm messed up and so are a good proportion of women

What do looks have to do with personality? I have no idea what they are like, I can notice a hot dude in less than a millisecond.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

they are if their personality matches the stereotype of narcissistic and arrogant bastard well, maybe not intimidating but repulsive.

Me personally, I must have one of those built in out of your league radars, because once that goes off for me, I'm not even looking, got no interest unless HE keeps looking and then I get anxious and self-conscious.

I'm messed up and so are a good proportion of women

What do looks have to do with personality? I have no idea what they are like, I can notice a hot dude in less than a millisecond.

perceived traits

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

What do looks have to do with personality? I have no idea what they are like, I can notice a hot dude in less than a millisecond.

perceived traits

You can tell that in the first instant?

Man, I just notice looks at first and honestly, I always assume dude that hot will not be cool with being checked out by me so I always look away.