so my roomate is having issues. since i separated from my husband, i got a roommate and everything was going fine...until i brought my dog home.

i told the roomie that i was going to bring her from the start as soon as i could and she never spoke against it, now she has a problem with it and is mad at me. she refuses to come out of her room - not even to take her dog out to poop. then i find out that she is repeating everything i say to the ex-husband. i'm so irritated right now.

suzysue said:

so my roomate is having issues. since i separated from my husband, i got a roommate and everything was going fine...until i brought my dog home.

i told the roomie that i was going to bring her from the start as soon as i could and she never spoke against it, now she has a problem with it and is mad at me. she refuses to come out of her room - not even to take her dog out to poop. then i find out that she is repeating everything i say to the ex-husband. i'm so irritated right now.

why is she running to him with your business? just sounds suspect to me. get a new roomate or move out if you can.

CHIC0 said:

suzysue said:

so my roomate is having issues. since i separated from my husband, i got a roommate and everything was going fine...until i brought my dog home.

i told the roomie that i was going to bring her from the start as soon as i could and she never spoke against it, now she has a problem with it and is mad at me. she refuses to come out of her room - not even to take her dog out to poop. then i find out that she is repeating everything i say to the ex-husband. i'm so irritated right now.

why is she running to him with your business? just sounds suspect to me. get a new roomate or move out if you can.

if i hadn't just signed a year lease with her i would. seriously going to leave if this continues. i don't need this.

Wait...your roomate has a dog, but is mad that you have one?

Did you move in with her or her in with you?

suzysue said:

if i hadn't just signed a year lease with her i would. seriously going to leave if this continues. i don't need this.

speak to your landlord and your roomate. perhaps you can break your lease, or find someone to take it over.

shes selfish ....mark my words

find a new roommate if you can or just find a studio apartment

this is why I don't live with people

1st how in the fuck does she know your ex husband to be talking to him on a regular basis?

and like John said, how is she mad that you have a dog but SHE HAS ONE TOO?!?!

Leave, kick her out or something because she sounds like "one of those people" that would give some real problems in the future.

My goodness me this is a time for one of those chats, laying down the boundaries and also that talking to the ex is disrespecting you and you won't stand for it. The ultimatium is either she leaves or you will and either way you will consider that she has broken the contract because of her bullying tactics.

If either you or she leaves then get in contact with the Landlord as he may know someone willing to take on the lease and put the Landlord on the picture as well.

some people think the world revolves around them. People can be bitchy nasty bastards:-(

I wanna know your roommate's version.

I'll ask your ex.

I hate to say it but unless it makes sense to me...its all contrived...but then, i am sorta tiredright now.......

suzysue said:

so my roomate is having issues. since i separated from my husband, i got a roommate and everything was going fine...until i brought my dog home.

i told the roomie that i was going to bring her from the start as soon as i could and she never spoke against it, now she has a problem with it and is mad at me. she refuses to come out of her room - not even to take her dog out to poop. then i find out that she is repeating everything i say to the ex-husband. i'm so irritated right now.

that whole shit needs to be shut down ASAP abort mission!!

johnart said:

Wait...your roomate has a dog, but is mad that you have one?

Did you move in with her or her in with you?

My thoughts exactly.

Kill her.

So is her dog shiitting in her room?

tinaz said:

So is her dog shiitting in her room?

That's what I was thinking! If she's never leaving her room and not walking her dog, her room must be filthy. That alone is enough to get her ass kicked out IF you had the apartment first and she's living with you. Sounds like a case for Judge Judy!

the roomate with an attitude??? yeah, that would be me...

If you find one good one, trust and believe someone else is lookin for the one good one you are looking for as well...smh. cant win folks.....me and micheal jackson? just cant win.

Shyra said:

tinaz said:

So is her dog shiitting in her room?

That's what I was thinking! If she's never leaving her room and not walking her dog, her room must be filthy. That alone is enough to get her ass kicked out IF you had the apartment first and she's living with you. Sounds like a case for Judge Judy!

Exactly what I was thinking!!

lol @ some of your replies.

she met the ex a long time ago since we've been friends for a few years. she used to hang out with us. then when we separated we both agreed to get an apartment since her lease was up anyway and i needed a place to go (the house we had was owned by the in-laws so there was no way i was staying...even if i wanted to).

she put down a puppy pad for her dog and i don't know how that room is right now. my little beagle is a handful but she's a really good dog.

unless she gets over her problem, she will find herself alone in this apartment. i will definitely leave.