Not at all ... I love to look long and hard until they usually look away 1st

and I always remember being/feeling that way

I love eye contact ... a smile and a soft nod hello

Must have done it 20 times last night at the concert

LayzieKiddZ said:

Alright ladies, I need a question answered.

If you saw a guy, a really good looking above avarage guy would you be intimidated to look at him? Or scared too?

Because I'm trying a new look, in terms of hair, and everyone tells me I look much better. However, when I catch a girl looking at me, if any, they INSTANTLY look away.

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

However, now I dont even see much girls looking at me, or atleast they really arent obvious this time aruond. And even if theyre directly infront of me, lets say a lady behind a register (like what happened to me today), still dont even look.

Weird. Or maybe its just todays been odd.

[Edited 9/19/10 8:02am]

I saw your pic...oh man I would not look away for a second. You are TOO handsome. I probably wouldn't approach you, but I'd casually check you out and fantasize quietly in my head. I dunno about those dames. Maybe they're just shocked they got caught and try to play it off. Don't sweat 'em.

And if you so choose, more pictures would be nice.

Mach said:

Not at all ... I love to look long and hard until they usually look away 1st

and I always remember being/feeling that way

I love eye contact ... a smile and a soft nod hello

Must have done it 20 times last night at the concert

ok this is going to sound kinda crazy, but once I made eye contact with Prince I started making eye contact with ANY good looking man I came across. I used to look away as a teen, but no more for that!

I love that too mach, and I will look and smile and nod also, which is how I got my nods from P. Don't look away Ladies.

and yes when I saw that pic I immediately though Prince Michael. You are a really gorgeous young man.

butterfli25 said:

Mach said:

Not at all ... I love to look long and hard until they usually look away 1st

and I always remember being/feeling that way

I love eye contact ... a smile and a soft nod hello

Must have done it 20 times last night at the concert

ok this is going to sound kinda crazy, but once I made eye contact with Prince I started making eye contact with ANY good looking man I came across. I used to look away as a teen, but no more for that!

I love that too mach, and I will look and smile and nod also, which is how I got my nods from P. Don't look away Ladies.

and yes when I saw that pic I immediately though Prince Michael. You are a really gorgeous young man.

It's just something my Dad taught us ( basic eye contact ) and I enjoy people watching and that connection you get from a smile and nod ...

AND the power play / WIN when they look away 1st

Goddamn, this board really needs a multiquote button. The fudge is this

Mach: yeah usually dudes look away first, thats I learned its much more attractive just to do what comes to you instead of looking away.

Baby: Haha I felt the same way that guy did reading that, I love getting compliments from the older people, makes me feel like I'm a tidy young man.

Zombie: Well np thanks for the comment.

ladyluvsexy: Haha, thank you. And yeah, some times when I catch girls looking I like to look at them like I knew they were thinking naughty thoughts of me, then watch the expression on their faces

Im not a fan of too much pictures to be honest.

butterfly: Thank you thank you. Confidence is always a plus. Alot more attractive to be honest. Very silent girls tend to stop the buzz, cant connect with them quickly. Same with men Im assuming.

JErin: Atleast you admit it.

[Edited 9/19/10 18:40pm]

Mach said:

butterfli25 said:

ok this is going to sound kinda crazy, but once I made eye contact with Prince I started making eye contact with ANY good looking man I came across. I used to look away as a teen, but no more for that!

I love that too mach, and I will look and smile and nod also, which is how I got my nods from P. Don't look away Ladies.

and yes when I saw that pic I immediately though Prince Michael. You are a really gorgeous young man.

It's just something my Dad taught us ( basic eye contact ) and I enjoy people watching and that connection you get from a smile and nod ...

AND the power play / WIN when they look away 1st

HA! See! Thats exactly why I do it.

Most dudes do look away, especially if its a pretty girl. Why be boring and typical when you can chellenge her back? Youre worth alot more if youre making her think.

After all, the most boring thing is a predictable man who acts like the rest.

[Edited 9/19/10 18:38pm]

LayzieKiddZ said:

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

[Edited 9/19/10 8:02am]

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

johnart said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

[Edited 9/19/10 8:02am]

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

I thought it made him sound like a pat of butter...

johnart said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

[Edited 9/19/10 8:02am]

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

Ask any woman whos had a man thats looked directly into their eyes instead of looking away in fear. You can almost feel each others emotions.

Its not all about phsyical things bro.

johnart said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Now, before, when I caught a girl looking at me, she would try to be all tough and try not to look away, then end up looking back. Then Id just look into her soul and melt into her emotions.

[Edited 9/19/10 8:02am]

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

It's actually a very Princey thing to say.

LayzieKiddZ said:

johnart said:

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

Ask any woman whos had a man thats looked directly into their eyes instead of looking away in fear. You can almost feel each others emotions.

Its not all about phsyical things bro.

I didn't say anything about being having to be physical.

Ask any woman if some dude is sittin there staring at her all intensely and shit and she aint interested if she's not creeped the fuck out, bro.

You're a nice lookin kid but maybe it's not your looks that are intimidating anyone. Maybe these girls don't wanna end up in the back of a van never to be seen again.

johnart said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Ask any woman whos had a man thats looked directly into their eyes instead of looking away in fear. You can almost feel each others emotions.

Its not all about phsyical things bro.

I didn't say anything about being having to be physical.

Ask any woman if some dude is sittin there staring at her all intensely and shit and she aint interested if she's not creeped the fuck out, bro.

You're a nice lookin kid but maybe it's not your looks that are intimidating anyone. Maybe these girls don't wanna end up in the back of a van never to be seen again.

Had a conversation about this sort of thing with a friend, about how a woman keeping contact for a certain amount of time means they are uninterested, a certain amount of time longer means they are, and after longer than that they get scared. I don't remember what the cut-offs were.

johnart said:

LayzieKiddZ said:

Ask any woman whos had a man thats looked directly into their eyes instead of looking away in fear. You can almost feel each others emotions.

Its not all about phsyical things bro.

I didn't say anything about being having to be physical.

Ask any woman if some dude is sittin there staring at her all intensely and shit and she aint interested if she's not creeped the fuck out, bro.

You're a nice lookin kid but maybe it's not your looks that are intimidating anyone. Maybe these girls don't wanna end up in the back of a van never to be seen again.

Well you seem to be under the misconception that I sit in stare. Like I said before it usually works out because theyre already looking at me. And if theyve been already checking you out, and you glance at them and she isnt looking away, and you arent either, then that says something.

babynoz said:

johnart said:

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

It's actually a very Princey thing to say.

babynoz said:

johnart said:

This makes you sound crazy.

Run girls RUN!

It's actually a very Princey thing to say.

That's not good.

LayzieKiddZ said:

johnart said:

I didn't say anything about being having to be physical.

Ask any woman if some dude is sittin there staring at her all intensely and shit and she aint interested if she's not creeped the fuck out, bro.

You're a nice lookin kid but maybe it's not your looks that are intimidating anyone. Maybe these girls don't wanna end up in the back of a van never to be seen again.

Well you seem to be under the misconception that I sit in stare. Like I said before it usually works out because theyre already looking at me. And if theyve been already checking you out, and you glance at them and she isnt looking away, and you arent either, then that says something.

Listen, if you can stare at someone you don't know who was staring at you first and they get all wet cuz they think you're looking at their soul, then she sounds a little nutsy too. But absolutely more power to you.

Maybe it is a misconception I'm having on this... how I'm envisioning it all go down. Maybe it's more of a "style" thing and I'm just not getting how smooth you really are. It's possible.

Look deep into my eyes...

Ooo... stop it...

I know you like it...

Oh pleeeease....

I know where you live...

hhheeeeh...

johnart said:

babynoz said:

It's actually a very Princey thing to say.

That's not good.

I was looking for that pic of Prince doing the Bela Lugosi eyes but Cerebus already found it,

Just for you ladies....

a real triple threat

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

perceived traits

You can tell that in the first instant?

Man, I just notice looks at first and honestly, I always assume dude that hot will not be cool with being checked out by me so I always look away.

nooooooo

a stereotype

all the traits we project onto a hot guy

like sour grapes, since (me personally) always think, a guy that hot can get any chick he wants and why should he be nice because he can be an asshole since something better is always around the corner. Something like that

I generally try not to stare at people because in my family it's considered rude.

I also do not make extended eye contact with men because I don't want to give them the mistaken impression that I'm interested in them in any way, shape or form possible since I'm in a committed relationship.

In my singlehood days, though, there would occasionally be a person I might find attractive and wouldn't mind giving a look of acknowledgement, or even a polite smile. But again, I find staring as a rule to be rude, I don't care how good a person looks. I usually only do it as an act of intimidation rather than flattery.

Ottensen said:

I generally try not to stare at people because in my family it's considered rude.

I also do not make extended eye contact with men because I don't want to give them the mistaken impression that I'm interested in them in any way, shape or form possible since I'm in a committed relationship.

In my singlehood days, though, there would occasionally be a person I might find attractive and wouldn't mind giving a look of acknowledgement, or even a polite smile. But again, I find staring as a rule to be rude, I don't care how good a person looks. I usually only do it as an act of intimidation rather than flattery.

even if you don't look very long, they still get that impression though especially if you find them unattractive

if only I DID find 50 year old men with slurred speech and ruddy complexions hot, I'd be in heaven when I go to the pub

Cerebus said:

Look deep into my eyes...

x a million

Personally, I think the girls are trying to figure out whether he's male or female.

Not Prince - the thread author.

Genesia said:

Cerebus said:

Look deep into my eyes...

x a million

Personally, I think the girls are trying to figure out whether he's male or female.

Not Prince - the thread author.

I think he looks alot like youtube vlogger B. Scott

Ottensen said:

Genesia said:

x a million

Personally, I think the girls are trying to figure out whether he's male or female.

Not Prince - the thread author.

I think he looks alot like youtube vlogger B. Scott

So maybe...the girls looking at him (and then looking away) are thinking, "If I look at him too long, it might mean I'm a lezbean."

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

I think it varies by personality and culture (etiquette)....

As a teen and now, if I saw a man that took my breath away (Fine as hell, not cute) I could NOT look away. Its like I was a deer caught in headlights

*OMG this guy is gorgeous*

Then I'd fumble, trip, and try to speak "hi" and muster a smile.... feeling like a smuck for allowing my self to be smitten like that.

If he was fine and came off like an ass I would look away

*OMG he is fine!... but wait...* he does something that ruins the mojo and truns me off

*WTF*

:flirtmodeshutoffFAST: *f@@k that, nevermind*

I ONLY look away when the good looking guy does something that turns me off.

I ate at Garret's the other day. Jessie Jackson was in the dinning room too. But i noticed people were staring at a dude that looked like a lady who came into the bar, more over than Jessie Jackson and his enoutrage.

Cuddles said:

I ate at Garret's the other day. Jessie Jackson was in the dinning room too. But i noticed people were staring at a dude that looked like a lady who came into the bar, more over than Jessie Jackson and his enoutrage.

johnart said:

Cuddles said:

I ate at Garret's the other day. Jessie Jackson was in the dinning room too. But i noticed people were staring at a dude that looked like a lady who came into the bar, more over than Jessie Jackson and his enoutrage.

The whole scene was great. I watched her cross the street 8ft and dressed like laura ingel wilder from little house on the prairie. Walk pass the guys in thier slick suits and the women who were dressed from such in such county/city seated at the tables outside, the looks on thier faces. Then walked into Garret's, kissed the host and continued on into the bar. This was about 4 in the afternoon on a saturday in the middle of Chicagos prime shopping locations, to give one a better perspectve.

Cuddles said:

johnart said:

The whole scene was great. I watched her cross the street 8ft and dressed like laura ingel wilder from little house on the prairie. Walk pass the guys in thier slick suits and the women who were dressed from such in such county/city seated at the tables outside, the looks on thier faces. Then walked into Garret's, kissed the host and continued on into the bar. This was about 4 in the afternoon on a saturday in the middle of Chicagos prime shopping locations, to give one a better perspectve.