tinaz said:

Zombie, have you ever tried on one of those minimizer bras? That may be what you need to make yourself feel comfortable in clothing... I personally say, if ya got em, put them up and out but some girls are not comfortable with that... I for one dont like TONS of cleavage out but I do like to wear form fitting shirts not only do the make your boobs look FANTASTIC but imo but they dont make everything I wear look like maternity clothing... Thats the prob with big busted gals is everything hangs straight off the tits and everything makes a girl look fat... I say go for the belted shirt look, Erin had some great ideas and you can do this with ANY kind of top... If its a plain color jazz it up with jewelry! Have fun at the club!!

see if you can find on in my size! 32GG - I've never seen one!

anyway, since I wasn't at the club to party, I wore black skinny jeans, black t-shirt and my sequin ballet flats - I was hunched up in the corner on the stage taking photos and the rest of the night being silly in the back room

JustErin said:

I big curls. Weird. Right?

you live in MELBOURNE the best ever place in the whole worlD for clothes shopping....

dump the kids, dust off the visa card and catch a tram into town....just do it!!!!!!!!!!!!

chocolatehandles said:

you live in MELBOURNE the best ever place in the whole worlD for clothes shopping....

dump the kids, dust off the visa card and catch a tram into town....just do it!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went to Chadstone on Thursday

I can't say anything caught my eye but then, I'm so used to being depressed at a bad fit I kind of just avoid trying stuff on.

Spandex

kpowers said:

Spandex

works for you!

I found one for you!!

They are labeled in UK cup sizes so hopefully that is what you use as well! If not, it says there is a cup calculator...

http://www.lindasonline.c...cocoa.html

a muumuu?

Perhaps this:

(nobody else will have this outfit)

For your tummy http://www.spanx.com/home/index.jsp

For your jugs... Get a good tailor (or alter them yourself if you sew). Very few things fit well straight off the hanger, especially when you're a 32GG. Don't buy bigger sizes to fit the boobs. That's where you get the tent effect.

Try on lots of clothes. It helps you get a feel for what you like vs what you don't. What fits your body type vs what doesn't etc. When you're feeling blah about clothes shopping because of bad experiences in the past, nothing is really going to catch your eye. You have to try stuff on.

It costs more and takes more time, but clothes are an investment, so it is worth it.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's windy and cool

today a max of 60°F

Ok, for a club...here is my inspiration pic:

An over size tshirt:

Yeah that. Very hot.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

I big curls. Weird. Right?

Not weird at all. I really love this whole look...it's very, very me.

tinaz said:

I found one for you!!

They are labeled in UK cup sizes so hopefully that is what you use as well! If not, it says there is a cup calculator...

http://www.lindasonline.c...cocoa.html

yes, I use UK size

and this bra doesn't come in my size, it starts at 34, I'm a 32

see my problem?

I don't see how that bra is so minimising though the bras I normally wear probably have much the same effect.

ZombieKitten said:

chocolatehandles said:

you live in MELBOURNE the best ever place in the whole worlD for clothes shopping....

dump the kids, dust off the visa card and catch a tram into town....just do it!!!!!!!!!!!!

I went to Chadstone on Thursday

I can't say anything caught my eye but then, I'm so used to being depressed at a bad fit I kind of just avoid trying stuff on.

you need a shopping buddy...someone honest that can give u ideas

i'll let u know when i'm in Melbourne next

chocolatehandles said:

ZombieKitten said:

I went to Chadstone on Thursday

I can't say anything caught my eye but then, I'm so used to being depressed at a bad fit I kind of just avoid trying stuff on.

you need a shopping buddy...someone honest that can give u ideas

i'll let u know when i'm in Melbourne next

Yes she does. Especially for bra shopping. I'll let you know the next time I'm in Melbourne, too.

Cerebus said:

chocolatehandles said:

you need a shopping buddy...someone honest that can give u ideas

i'll let u know when i'm in Melbourne next

Yes she does. Especially for bra shopping. I'll let you know the next time I'm in Melbourne, too.

you can accompany me to my next trip to eBay! you won't even have to travel

pick one:

http://shop.ebay.com.au/i...&_sc=1

chocolatehandles said:

ZombieKitten said:

I went to Chadstone on Thursday

I can't say anything caught my eye but then, I'm so used to being depressed at a bad fit I kind of just avoid trying stuff on.

you need a shopping buddy...someone honest that can give u ideas

i'll let u know when i'm in Melbourne next

you should!!!

ZombieKitten said:

Cerebus said:

Yes she does. Especially for bra shopping. I'll let you know the next time I'm in Melbourne, too.

you can accompany me to my next trip to eBay! you won't even have to travel

Already said I would! Hopefully somebody will take me up on my Bay Area tour guide offer someday.

I'm rather partial to lace and thinner (looking) materials, so I like these...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/Cleo-Panache-Frances-Balcony-Bra-5711-Lilac-/200506067244?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&var=&hash=item746aaf0707

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-HARMONY-FULL-CUP-WIRED-WHITE-BRA-32GG-L-/270633080001?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3f02fd14c1

I think these two are the same...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/NEW-PANACHE-BRIDAL-CONFETTI-SUPER-BRA-IVORY-SIZE-32GG-/290463057834?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item43a0f287aa

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-LINGERIE-4071-CONFETTI-IVORY-BRA-32GG-/220666110956?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3360b9a3ec

Cerebus said:

ZombieKitten said:

you can accompany me to my next trip to eBay! you won't even have to travel

Already said I would! Hopefully somebody will take me up on my Bay Area tour guide offer someday.

I'm rather partial to lace and thinner (looking) materials, so I like these...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/Cleo-Panache-Frances-Balcony-Bra-5711-Lilac-/200506067244?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&var=&hash=item746aaf0707

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-HARMONY-FULL-CUP-WIRED-WHITE-BRA-32GG-L-/270633080001?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3f02fd14c1

I think these two are the same...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/NEW-PANACHE-BRIDAL-CONFETTI-SUPER-BRA-IVORY-SIZE-32GG-/290463057834?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item43a0f287aa

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-LINGERIE-4071-CONFETTI-IVORY-BRA-32GG-/220666110956?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3360b9a3ec

the confetti one but in black is OK

and maybe this one

http://www.britishlace.co...-black.jpg

I'm not much into frills and frou frou and my bras should be black to match ALLLLLLL my clothes

ZombieKitten said:

Cerebus said:

Already said I would! Hopefully somebody will take me up on my Bay Area tour guide offer someday.

I'm rather partial to lace and thinner (looking) materials, so I like these...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/Cleo-Panache-Frances-Balcony-Bra-5711-Lilac-/200506067244?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&var=&hash=item746aaf0707

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-HARMONY-FULL-CUP-WIRED-WHITE-BRA-32GG-L-/270633080001?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3f02fd14c1

I think these two are the same...

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/NEW-PANACHE-BRIDAL-CONFETTI-SUPER-BRA-IVORY-SIZE-32GG-/290463057834?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item43a0f287aa

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/PANACHE-LINGERIE-4071-CONFETTI-IVORY-BRA-32GG-/220666110956?pt=UK_Women_s_Underwear_Design_2&hash=item3360b9a3ec

the confetti one but in black is OK

and maybe this one

http://www.britishlace.co...-black.jpg

I'm not much into frills and frou frou and my bras should be black to match ALLLLLLL my clothes

A. Nobody but the people you want to see them, see them, so how they gonna know?

B. Buy some clothes to match.

I don't really like frills and frou frou, either. I avoided those. I just like lace.

Cerebus said:

ZombieKitten said:

the confetti one but in black is OK

and maybe this one

http://www.britishlace.co...-black.jpg

I'm not much into frills and frou frou and my bras should be black to match ALLLLLLL my clothes

A. Nobody but the people you want to see them, see them, so how they gonna know?

B. Buy some clothes to match.

I don't really like frills and frou frou, either. I avoided those. I just like lace.

if your shirt is sheerish, and if you are photographed with flash, a black bra under black clothing is a MUST, especially if your assets stretch and thin the material in the front my bra is usually partially visible

ZombieKitten said:

Cerebus said:

A. Nobody but the people you want to see them, see them, so how they gonna know?

B. Buy some clothes to match.

I don't really like frills and frou frou, either. I avoided those. I just like lace.

if your shirt is sheerish, and if you are photographed with flash, a black bra under black clothing is a MUST, especially if your assets stretch and thin the material in the front my bra is usually partially visible

What did you end up wearing out? And why haven't I seen a pic of it?

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

if your shirt is sheerish, and if you are photographed with flash, a black bra under black clothing is a MUST, especially if your assets stretch and thin the material in the front my bra is usually partially visible

What did you end up wearing out? And why haven't I seen a pic of it?

nobody took a photo

I described what I had on already, further up on this page I think

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

What did you end up wearing out? And why haven't I seen a pic of it?

nobody took a photo

I described what I had on already, further up on this page I think

You know I don't read...I need pics!

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

nobody took a photo

I described what I had on already, further up on this page I think

You know I don't read...I need pics!

I didn't really end up dressing up, since it wasn't officially a going out night, it was WORK

BUT I showed the master the pics I printed out from this thread and I have his blessing to go shopping

he LOVES the sequin leggings and platform wedge shoes

he needs me to look as hot as him so people don't think "what on earth is THAT cool guy doing with HER?!?!?!"

ZombieKitten said:

BUT I showed the master the pics I printed out from this thread and I have his blessing to go shopping

he LOVES the sequin leggings and platform wedge shoes

he needs me to look as hot as him so people don't think "what on earth is THAT cool guy doing with HER?!?!?!"

Oh please.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

BUT I showed the master the pics I printed out from this thread and I have his blessing to go shopping

he LOVES the sequin leggings and platform wedge shoes

he needs me to look as hot as him so people don't think "what on earth is THAT cool guy doing with HER?!?!?!"

Oh please.

normally it's what is SHE doing with that SLOB, but I took him shopping and he looks OK now

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Oh please.

normally it's what is SHE doing with that SLOB, but I took him shopping and he looks OK now

well, get to shopping then. And I want to see what you get.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

normally it's what is SHE doing with that SLOB, but I took him shopping and he looks OK now

well, get to shopping then. And I want to see what you get.

maybe I will!