JustErin said:

retina said:

So she's a stupid, straight-haired, monosyllabic, grounded, inoffensive black lady?

Don't forget fat!

And boring.

retina said:

Number23 said:

retina said:

So she's a stupid, straight-haired, monosyllabic, grounded, inoffensive black lady?

She's not black.

Is your signature extolling the virtues of idleness, or scolding beauty for being lazy again?

PunkMistress said:

Number23 said:

retina said:

So she's a stupid, straight-haired, monosyllabic, grounded, inoffensive black lady?

She's not black.

Really, she's stupid? I don't buy that.

retina said:

At times but I'm as much to blame. I sometimes revel in my own company so much that people have tended not to bother calling me up for company.

Yes I've been lonely at times, but when I am, I try to just focus on myself. Read a book, go to the museum, try to fix things around the house that are broken, call old friends I haven't talked to in awhile. Stuff like that. Or I just light some candles and watch an old black and white movie. Write in my diary.

CHIC0 said:

That song makes me want to punch someone.

whoops! wrong song edit

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Lisa10 said:

CHIC0 said:

That song makes me want to punch someone.

years ago, yes. i was very lonely in my teens and early 20's. thank God, i'm not alone anymore.

wasted said:

if so what did u do 2 resolve it?

me, ive got heaps of animals 2 keep me occupied, i think pets r great 4 when u feel lonely or down

how bout u?

I've been extremely lonely since I moved into my own apartment so I've been sleeping with and tolerating a neighbor who is an absolute pest. I've dropped him now though, I'd rather be lonely.

Being lonely doesn't always mean by yourself.

Having friends & family to spend time with or activities to do doesn't take the place of having someone to fill your heart...

Ex: I go to concerts A LOT. But it would be nice to go on a date to a concert- to have that someone to share the experience with.

novabrkr said:

Yes.

Then I discovered the internet.

And alcohol.

me too

and I got a dog

At times. Then I just go do something to take my mind off it. This board and facebook are the only things separating me from complete hermitude. I actually drove down to the Luray Caverns myself last weekend. 133 miles each way...to go in a cave. But it did keep my mind off of things and passed time which is all I meant to do.

Today I almost booked a last minute flight to visit my family for my brother's bachelor party. The only reasonable flight was taking off in 40 minutes though. If I had 20 more minutes, I'd have left work and done it and bought clothes there, just to get out of the house for the weekend.

chocolate1 said:

Being lonely doesn't always mean by yourself.

Having friends & family to spend time with or activities to do doesn't take the place of having someone to fill your heart...

Ex: I go to concerts A LOT. But it would be nice to go on a date to a concert- to have that someone to share the experience with.

with i never feel that alone i guess.

but i enjoy doing things alone as well. if i want to go to a concert or movie, or just a drive, i don't NEED anyone to do so. however, having a special someone to share it with makes it that much more enjoyable.

omg i feel like this thread completly reached out and touched me...

ive been going through hell lately with lonelyness... ive realized being away from the org for the past month hasnt helped either.. i just have felt so not myself lately...

how do i deal with lonelyness * im not a role model in this lately ive been basking in it "wallowing in my own misery i should say"

but animals do help i have to agree..

hubby moved to third shift so ive just been reading alot more and enjoying some classic shows ive gotten of dvd 21 jump street, booker ect.

ive gone to visit my parents alot more too...

best thing to try and do is do something that completly soothes you that can take up a good hour at a time that has really helped me lately..

anyway thanks for this thread it really helped me get alot off my chest..

*hugs*

All the time. I can't relate to ANYONE!. Everyone just likes to drink after work, and on the weekend! I just like to write, draw, play games, and go to the movies.

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funkycat00 said:

All the time. I can't relate to ANYONE!. Everyone just likes to drink after work, and on the weekend! I just like to write, draw, play games, and go to the movies.

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what games do you like? ask someone to go to the movies WITH yoU!

ZombieKitten said:

funkycat00 said:

All the time. I can't relate to ANYONE!. Everyone just likes to drink after work, and on the weekend! I just like to write, draw, play games, and go to the movies.

[Edited 9/10/10 22:19pm]

what games do you like? ask someone to go to the movies WITH yoU!

Mostly fighting games. i have once but, she forgot to pay her phone bill that weekend. she lost intrest when i asked again cause, i've never been in a relationship.

funkycat00 said:

ZombieKitten said:

what games do you like? ask someone to go to the movies WITH yoU!

Mostly fighting games. i have once but, she forgot to pay her phone bill that weekend. she lost intrest when i asked again cause, i've never been in a relationship.

I like fighting games...

(See how lonely I sounded right there?)

yeah a little bit right now, but I'm not alone at the same time

Lammastide said:

tinaz said:

Im sorry but the title of this thread got me singing this.....

I LOVE that song!

Me too. Pandemonium is a great CD! The Time needs to put out some new music.

wasted said:

if so what did u do 2 resolve it?

me, ive got heaps of animals 2 keep me occupied, i think pets r great 4 when u feel lonely or down

how bout u?

What animals do you have? I agree, animals are definitely great company. I have three cats, they're like my kids.

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