I've never had a close female friend that I wouldn't have also wanted to have sex with.

So 0.

novabrkr said:

I've never had a close female friend that I wouldn't have also wanted to have sex with.

this statement IMO-can likely be uttered by most men....truthfully

*im talking straight men/close female friend*

i'm sure ALL of my close guy friends/or even not that close friends wouldnt mind a shag

sweet said:

novabrkr said:

I've never had a close female friend that I wouldn't have also wanted to have sex with.

this statement IMO-can likely be uttered by most men....truthfully

*im talking straight men/close female friend*

i'm sure ALL of my close guy friends/or even not that close friends wouldnt mind a shag

that's my theory

5: Jarrett (gay); Darryle, Marc, Matt (platonic); and Robert (ex-, now platonic).

Two women.

They lived acros the street for years.

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5 at least

hey, i'm married !

2, but they're gay, so no interest there on either side.

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

why? it's pretty much the textbook example of 'how to get women to fancy you'.

of course, it will all fail miserably if you're not stunningly attractive...

depends. YES to this statement if you are trying to pull a bird way out of your league. I'd say usually women tend to be attracted to men roughly same level of attractiveness as themselves (or maybe that's all they allow themselves, since experience and common sense tells us "in your dreams!!!!" otherwise) so, if you only pull ugly chicks, might be time to look in the mirror.

And I've seen a photo of you and I don't know what you are talking about

This is probably true, but I think many guys have one problem with this, at least I have: Not knowing which girls are on the same level of attractiveness as yourself.

But then again, I tend to fall for cock-teasing chicks that often like to keep me "on the hook", so maybe the level of atttractiveness isn't my problem after all.

And to answer the question, given the right circumstances (meaning no-one's cheating on anyone to do it) I'd say all my close female friends are very much shaggable.

So the answer is 0 then.

purplehippieonthe1 said:

ZombieKitten said:

depends. YES to this statement if you are trying to pull a bird way out of your league. I'd say usually women tend to be attracted to men roughly same level of attractiveness as themselves (or maybe that's all they allow themselves, since experience and common sense tells us "in your dreams!!!!" otherwise) so, if you only pull ugly chicks, might be time to look in the mirror.

And I've seen a photo of you and I don't know what you are talking about

This is probably true, but I think many guys have one problem with this, at least I have: Not knowing which girls are on the same level of attractiveness as yourself.

But then again, I tend to fall for cock-teasing chicks that often like to keep me "on the hook", so maybe the level of atttractiveness isn't my problem after all.

And to answer the question, given the right circumstances (meaning no-one's cheating on anyone to do it) I'd say all my close female friends are very much shaggable.

So the answer is 0 then.

girls approach you, have a look at them

ZombieKitten said:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

This is probably true, but I think many guys have one problem with this, at least I have: Not knowing which girls are on the same level of attractiveness as yourself.

But then again, I tend to fall for cock-teasing chicks that often like to keep me "on the hook", so maybe the level of atttractiveness isn't my problem after all.

And to answer the question, given the right circumstances (meaning no-one's cheating on anyone to do it) I'd say all my close female friends are very much shaggable.

So the answer is 0 then.

girls approach you, have a look at them

But here's my problem though: When I'm at the typical pick-up places (a club or a bar), girls don't approach me. AT. ALL.

I'm expected to be the one who approaches, simply because I'm a guy.

At least that's what most of my female friends keep telling me.

OK maybe I'd get approached in bars by girls if I ordered drinks in English and faked an American or an English accent and sported a tan.

EDIT: To clarify: A thick Texas accent or a Cockney accent probably won't get you laid in Reykjavik, but a "BBC" accent or an "American newscaster" accent might.

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purplehippieonthe1 said:

ZombieKitten said:

girls approach you, have a look at them

But here's my problem though: When I'm at the typical pick-up places (a club or a bar), girls don't approach me. AT. ALL.

I'm expected to be the one who approaches, simply because I'm a guy.

OK maybe I'd get approached in bars by girls if I ordered drinks in English and faked an American or an English accent and sported a tan.

EDIT: To clarify: A thick Texas accent or a Cockney accent probably won't get you laid in Reykjavik, but a "BBC" accent or an "American newscaster" accent might.

[Edited 9/7/10 5:42am]

ugh bars are awful, only drunk girls talk to random guys anyway - what about at parties?

ZombieKitten said:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

But here's my problem though: When I'm at the typical pick-up places (a club or a bar), girls don't approach me. AT. ALL.

I'm expected to be the one who approaches, simply because I'm a guy.

OK maybe I'd get approached in bars by girls if I ordered drinks in English and faked an American or an English accent and sported a tan.

EDIT: To clarify: A thick Texas accent or a Cockney accent probably won't get you laid in Reykjavik, but a "BBC" accent or an "American newscaster" accent might.

[Edited 9/7/10 5:42am]

ugh bars are awful, only drunk girls talk to random guys anyway - what about at parties?

Girls never approach me at parties either, if I'm talking to a girl I just met at a party it's probably because a mutual friend introduced me to her. And even then it typically doesn't lead to anything.

I once went to a party where there were supposedly " a lot of" single girls, but when I asked my friend's girlfriend (the host of the party) if she knew if any of her female guests were single, she thought about it for 5 minutes and then came to the conclusion that none of them were actually single (even if some of them were listed as "single" on Facebook), they were all in a "it's complicated" situation.

Guess I'm just REALLY unlucky with women.

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One, and he's my brother. Never ever bed your friend. It fucks up everything. And, no. I didn't fuck my brother!

ZombieKitten said:

purplehippieonthe1 said:

But here's my problem though: When I'm at the typical pick-up places (a club or a bar), girls don't approach me. AT. ALL.

I'm expected to be the one who approaches, simply because I'm a guy.

OK maybe I'd get approached in bars by girls if I ordered drinks in English and faked an American or an English accent and sported a tan.

EDIT: To clarify: A thick Texas accent or a Cockney accent probably won't get you laid in Reykjavik, but a "BBC" accent or an "American newscaster" accent might.

[Edited 9/7/10 5:42am]

ugh bars are awful, only drunk girls talk to random guys anyway - what about at parties?

-ive never been drunk in public and i always manage to talk to random guys/people while im out and vice-versa

Two really close male friends, plus I'm close with two of my brothers. Of the two friends, one is smoking hot, but I've never been attracted to him in that way.

Number23 said:

It's raining outside.

thats ur answer? i looked here becuz i was ready to read a wordy essay albeit answering the question in full....and i get this?

where's the rest?

sweet said:

Number23 said:

sweet said:

thats ur answer? i looked here becuz i was ready to read a wordy essay albeit answering the question in full....and i get this?

where's the rest?

It was an observation, using my eyes. Without sight, there's no observation without touch. If all we had were fingers, would there be any unrequited love? A lot of songwriters would be out the game overnight. If we all tear our eyes out, all seven billion of us, all at the same time, the walls collapse and we're truly free. But I wouldn't trust the rest of the world to do it - and if they didn't and lied that they did, how would I know the truth? Baldness, race, boils and big noses...two generations and any stigma would be gone. Of course, someone would have to tear the eyes from newborns. A few hundred thousand years, evolution would get the message. We'll just have fingers or antennae growing out of what were our eye sockets.

thanks

ZombieKitten said:

REALLY CLOSE friends do you have (of the gender you normally )

that you are in no way attracted to physically?

men friends that i hang out with and don't fuck? about 4

sweet said:

ZombieKitten said:

ugh bars are awful, only drunk girls talk to random guys anyway - what about at parties?

-ive never been drunk in public and i always manage to talk to random guys/people while im out and vice-versa

yeah but you don't live in Iceland

XxAxX said:

ZombieKitten said:

REALLY CLOSE friends do you have (of the gender you normally )

that you are in no way attracted to physically?

men friends that i hang out with and don't fuck? about 4

not that you don't, that you never would EVER

Number23 said:

It was an observation, using my eyes. Without sight, there's no observation without touch. If all we had were fingers, would there be any unrequited love? A lot of songwriters would be out the game overnight. If we all tear our eyes out, all seven billion of us, all at the same time, the walls collapse and we're truly free. But I wouldn't trust the rest of the world to do it - and if they didn't and lied that they did, how would I know the truth? Baldness, race, boils and big noses...two generations and any stigma would be gone. Of course, someone would have to tear the eyes from newborns. A few hundred thousand years, evolution would get the message. We'll just have fingers or antennae growing out of what were our eye sockets.

do you know that you mention baldness in nearly every post? you're obsessing, mate. do you associate being a slaphead with being a football lout or summat?

Not one....what's the point?....

1

whistle said:

3- They are more my hubby's friends, but no....absolutely not.

Two. They are the husbands of my closest female friends.

2 of my bestfriends are males, one I used to be attracted to (but that faded away) and the other I've never been into (and conveniently he is gay). I'm not interested in any of my female friends cause they are more like sisters.