i just came home from a night out and i find myself still being so superficial about men. I had a wild life for years, but getting all calmed down these last few yaers, still, i can't get over the supertficial way of thinking.

So for all the sluths: how do you deal with getting older?

how do you deal with the fact you're not number 1 any more?

It's really hard for me too see i'm loosing it, and in stead of finding somebody who is my souldmate....show me a great body and i'm gone, although i know i won't make me happy.....thoughts?

The answer to your question may become clearer in the morning.

JDInteractive said:

The answer to your question may become clearer in the morning.

LOL! you're probably right, maybe it's just time to go to bed....

Genesia said:

Getting old ain't for sissies - regardless of your orientation.

haha, brilliant!

OH ELIXIR OF YOUTH

THY WOULD BE LIKE NECTAR IN THE DESERT

OR IS IT DESSERT?

Genesia said:

Getting old ain't for sissies - regardless of your orientation.

It's not but while I agree completely with that statement, the gay community is, for one reason or another, exeptionally hung up on looks. It's not uncommon to see a "homely" girl or guy with a hetero partner who's kind of hot...not so much among the gays.

robertlove,

All I can advise or say is this: Put on your big boy panties and deal with it, hon.

I was never the "ideal" so I don't know what it feels like to be #1 (in those terms). I'm assuming you have a personality and charm to rely on.

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johnart said:

Genesia said:

Getting old ain't for sissies - regardless of your orientation.

It's not but while I agree completely with that statement, the gay community is, for one reason or another, exeptionally hung up on looks. It's not uncommon to see a "homely" girl or guy with a hetero partner who's kind of hot...not so much among the gays.

robertlove,

All I can advise or say is this: Put on your big boy panties and deal with it, hon.

I was never the "ideal" so I don't know what it feels like to be #1 (in those terms). I'm assuming you have a personality and charm to rely on.

[Edited 9/5/10 21:11pm]

Thank you! very sweet of you, i'll be ok

Genesia said:

Getting old ain't for sissies - regardless of your orientation.

always nice to have some support, when you have a moment of feeling down.

robertlove said:

Genesia said:

Getting old ain't for sissies - regardless of your orientation.

always nice to have some support, when you have a moment of feeling down.

Oh, good grief - if you can't recognize a light-hearted comment when you see one, you might as well just end it now.

As johnart said, pull up your big boy panties and deal with it.