REALLY CLOSE friends do you have (of the gender you normally )

that you are in no way attracted to physically?

i haven't got any friends full stop.

0

RL?

3

In no way? Maybe 1. I like the question!

One. But he got married and I never see him anymore.

I've slept with all my other male friends.

Hmm... I guess I only have one female close friend I see regularly and never had any sexual contact with and that is only because I simply do not find her attractive. Most of my other friends I had some sexual encounters with before, in one way or another, but I never saw them as a fuck-mate or anything. It just happened and we take it easy and naturally and sometimes still talk and joke about it.

0 for me

Dave1992 said:

Hmm... I guess I only have one female close friend I see regularly and never had any sexual contact with and that is only because I simply do not find her attractive. Most of my other friends I had some sexual encounters with before, in one way or another, but I never saw them as a fuck-mate or anything. It just happened and we take it easy and naturally and sometimes still talk and joke about it.

lets talk about her.

How long have you been friends? How did you meet? How much time do you spend together? Do you ask her for advice? Is she in love with you?

Does it count if they're gay? If so, several. Like, 5 or 6. And I'm not attracted to a one of them. In "that" way, anyway.

If the gays don't count, then none. I have no straight male friends I would consider "close". I have a handful of straight male friends in my social circle, sure, but none I'd consider a "close" friend that I see or call regularly. And none I want to bone.

CarrieMpls said:

Does it count if they're gay? If so, several. Like, 5 or 6. And I'm not attracted to a one of them. In "that" way, anyway.

If the gays don't count, then none. I have no straight male friends I would consider "close". I have a handful of straight male friends in my social circle, sure, but none I'd consider a "close" friend that I see or call regularly. And none I want to bone.

it DOES count for the purpose of this argument

since you could theoretically be attracted to them - but somehow it also doesn't really count either, since I doubt you could relate to them so superficially that you could ignore the fact they are gay.

1

can i ask a secondary question(s): is it difficult being friends with someone who fancies you but you don't fancy them back? does it depend on just how ugly they are? does it make you feel like you're doing charity work for the disadvantaged?

ZombieKitten said:

REALLY CLOSE friends do you have (of the gender you normally )

that you are in no way attracted to physically?

David

Brian

Dirk

Jim

Jon

Jim

John

Cliff

Craig

Russ

Jeff

Mike

Shane

Marty

Doug

Eldon

Robert

James

Marc

just off the very top of my head

Mach said:

ZombieKitten said:

REALLY CLOSE friends do you have (of the gender you normally )

that you are in no way attracted to physically?

David

Brian

Dirk

Jim

Jon

Jim

John

Cliff

Craig

Russ

Jeff

Mike

Shane

Marty

Doug

Eldon

Robert

James

Marc

just off the very top of my head

that is a LOT of very close friends

I have about 5 close friends period, the rest I would call aquaintances

All of them. I've slept with close friends and it's only complicated things so I don't want to do it anymore.

Which is hard because I think all my friends are fucking hot.

whistle said:

can i ask a secondary question(s): is it difficult being friends with someone who fancies you but you don't fancy them back? does it depend on just how ugly they are? does it make you feel like you're doing charity work for the disadvantaged?

it is actually

I had to cut off a guy completely, it just felt so weird knowing he was after something I was never going to give him, even though he did agree to just be friends and "hang out". In the end I didn't feel like he even WAS a friend, just someone hoping I would get drunk enough to accidentally fuck him

Vendetta1 said:

All of them. I've slept with close friends and it's only complicated things so I don't want to do it anymore.

Which is hard because I think all my friends are fucking hot.

hang on a second so you now surround yourself only with people you wouldn't want to fuck EVER?

ZombieKitten said:

Mach said:

David

Brian

Dirk

Jim

Jon

Jim

John

Cliff

Craig

Russ

Jeff

Mike

Shane

Marty

Doug

Eldon

Robert

James

Marc

just off the very top of my head

that is a LOT of very close friends

I have about 5 close friends period, the rest I would call aquaintances

No ... these are close friends and not just aquaintances

some I have known over 30 ~ 35 yrs now and many I see/talk with on a weekly basis at least

I'm not sexually attracted to my friends.

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

can i ask a secondary question(s): is it difficult being friends with someone who fancies you but you don't fancy them back? does it depend on just how ugly they are? does it make you feel like you're doing charity work for the disadvantaged?

it is actually

I had to cut off a guy completely, it just felt so weird knowing he was after something I was never going to give him, even though he did agree to just be friends and "hang out". In the end I didn't feel like he even WAS a friend, just someone hoping I would get drunk enough to accidentally fuck him

you did him a favour. nothing is more pathetic than chasing a girl around for a fuck that's never going to happen without chloroform.

Now? 0.

No close friends, the men are just "associates". Every male friend I had always wanted some ass at some point.

ZombieKitten said:

Vendetta1 said:

All of them. I've slept with close friends and it's only complicated things so I don't want to do it anymore.

Which is hard because I think all my friends are fucking hot.

hang on a second so you now surround yourself only with people you wouldn't want to fuck EVER?

wow

Thurman

Bullock--ricardino

Scott

Tony B

Tony D

Chuck--although he was crushing for a bit

Joe--he crushed for a bit too

Kurt---that was a weird relationship when we were younger no sex though everyone thought we did.

Harry

the only one I don't talk to is scotty which really hurts that I lost touch with him, but all in all the rest were man whores and I made sure I didn't sleep with them I was whorish enough for both of us.

itwastheeightiesexcuse

whistle said:

can i ask a secondary question(s): is it difficult being friends with someone who fancies you but you don't fancy them back? does it depend on just how ugly they are? does it make you feel like you're doing charity work for the disadvantaged?

I don't understand these questions.

JustErin said:

whistle said:

can i ask a secondary question(s): is it difficult being friends with someone who fancies you but you don't fancy them back? does it depend on just how ugly they are? does it make you feel like you're doing charity work for the disadvantaged?

I don't understand these questions.

you bloody do. girls keep guys they won't shag around to a) stroke their own egos and/or b) get them to buy them things, fix their cars, etc, etc...

ZombieKitten said:

Dave1992 said:

Hmm... I guess I only have one female close friend I see regularly and never had any sexual contact with and that is only because I simply do not find her attractive. Most of my other friends I had some sexual encounters with before, in one way or another, but I never saw them as a fuck-mate or anything. It just happened and we take it easy and naturally and sometimes still talk and joke about it.

lets talk about her.

How long have you been friends? How did you meet? How much time do you spend together? Do you ask her for advice? Is she in love with you?

I'm careful with the term "friend", so I'd say for two years now, although we haven't seen each other for half a year inbetween. I've known her for almost four years. We met at school and got to know each other through a girl I spent most of my last couple of years with - she was one of her best friends back then.

I used to ask her for advice a lot, or simply just call her and tell her about my feelings, sometimes cry my heart out (back in the day when I was very sad and very angry). She is a very good listener and extremely cute, she is one of those people who could never hurt anyone or anything, so good at heart it may hurt themselves from time to time in this cruel world. But she was never as experienced as I am concerning love, feelings, sexuality and all the things I talked to her about, so i realised that she couldn't really help me and that I had to get through things myself. And - surprise, surpirse! - I did and now I feel more comfortable being the one helping her out whenever she needs something. She says that my presence and my talking to her make her feel calm and that's totally okay with me.

She loves me like a small girl would love her big brother, but I don't think she has serious sexual feelings for me. She does mention from time to time that this side of me fascinates her and would fascinate many women she knows, but that she simply could never imagine me wanting her the way I had wanted other women, and therefor I think that this topic is quite irrelevant to her anyway. She did have sexual fantasies about me, but it was something completely natural we talked and laughed about later, nothing too personal.

whistle said:

JustErin said:

I don't understand these questions.

you bloody do. girls keep guys they won't shag around to a) stroke their own egos and/or b) get them to buy them things, fix their cars, etc, etc...

They do?

Seriously, I couldn't be bothered. I either want to fuck you or like you as a good friend. I'm not into using people like that.

Wish I could though. I wouldn't mind just having things bought got me.

Dave1992 said:

ZombieKitten said:

lets talk about her.

How long have you been friends? How did you meet? How much time do you spend together? Do you ask her for advice? Is she in love with you?

I'm careful with the term "friend", so I'd say for two years now, although we haven't seen each other for half a year inbetween. I've known her for almost four years. We met at school and got to know each other through a girl I spent most of my last couple of years with - she was one of her best friends back then.

I used to ask her for advice a lot, or simply just call her and tell her about my feelings, sometimes cry my heart out (back in the day when I was very sad and very angry). She is a very good listener and extremely cute, she is one of those people who could never hurt anyone or anything, so good at heart it may hurt themselves from time to time in this cruel world. But she was never as experienced as I am concerning love, feelings, sexuality and all the things I talked to her about, so i realised that she couldn't really help me and that I had to get through things myself. And - surprise, surpirse! - I did and now I feel more comfortable being the one helping her out whenever she needs something. She says that my presence and my talking to her make her feel calm and that's totally okay with me.

She loves me like a small girl would love her big brother, but I don't think she has serious sexual feelings for me. She does mention from time to time that this side of me fascinates her and would fascinate many women she knows, but that she simply could never imagine me wanting her the way I had wanted other women, and therefor I think that this topic is quite irrelevant to her anyway. She did have sexual fantasies about me, but it was something completely natural we talked and laughed about later, nothing too personal.

you are probably going to marry her she's a keeper

whistle said:

JustErin said:

I don't understand these questions.

you bloody do. girls keep guys they won't shag around to a) stroke their own egos and/or b) get them to buy them things, fix their cars, etc, etc...

I had housemates for that!!! all male and I only ever shagged ONE of them