if they were REALLY REALLY hot, and want to have sex with me, I would be very suspicious
but that's just my issues
I've honestly never been attracted to a stranger. It has always me quite some time to warm up to a person enough to get naked with them | |
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No! Safety first. Sure, someone I know might beat me and leave me for dead but at least I could direct the police in the right direction. That is if I survived. Shake it til ya make it | |
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You're talking crazy! A threesome would be hot, but junkies rarely are
I'm surprised you even bought the needles for them If you will, so will I | |
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nah. not my style. | |
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Nah, wine is gross...but for a 7-11 Slurpee I may have considered it. They were kind of hot too. If you will, so will I | |
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don't say that!
fuck that's so funny | |
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but it's true!!!! I'd think I was on Punk'd | |
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as long as you didn't let them slip anything into it | |
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Who would have the audacity to taint the icy cold deliciousness of my Slurpee with drugs?
Gawd, is anything still considered sacred in society?!!
If you will, so will I | |
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Because a rubber won't keep you from catching crabs | |
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...and there you have it Bob (original poster)..if you didn't know already the gay and straight worlds...are poles apart.
If I...as a straight masculine guy suggested this...naturally I'd be shouted down.
Now see what else you can get them to admit to. | |
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If the strangers name was PRINCE!!!!!!!!!! Pray Daily!!!!! RIP AMY WINEHOUSE Keep Calm, Carry on | |
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No I wouldnt do it.. Its not me... I have never been a one nite stand kind of gal... A few of my friends used to and I only saw them get used and then tossed aside... Sure, sometimes its fun just to have "sex" but I like to get 'mine" and I have found that usually in these situations the guy is only concerned with himself and could care less how the womens experience was..
Now, this may be because we were young, so maybe its different for 40 year old men, maybe they are considerate to the women?
Anyone, Anyone? ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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Hey, dont get mad at me cause i know how to talk my way out an ass-whipin...
You gotta find out as much as you can about a joker! However, If he was cute, and the chemistry was there, its a possibility.
:fanning: THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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you would change your mind after a one-nite stand with me | |
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Oh, come on. Ever thought about NOT having sex with someone who's not shaved? | |
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And even if I was stupid and gross enough to fuck an unknown, unshaved pussy, I'd never get crabs because I'm shaved myself. So: FAIL to you! | |
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Been there...didn't do it! | |
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What are you trying to say? Of course the straight and gay world is different [Edited 8/30/10 11:57am] [Edited 8/30/10 11:57am] | |
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No no no. I did that a few times. Then I believe fate stepped in and shook me up in a way that let me know casual encounters of the strange kind were NOT for the kid. There was no connection, no emotion, and a lot of falsehood going on with those situations. So no no....I require getting to know partners before they get to ravage the temple of the Lady.
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I dont doubt that for a second! ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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No...I wouldn't. I never have. I doubt I will in the future, as like most of us here, I am aging. I love my current girlfriend too much to do something like that. As a man, I would be tempted, but doubt I would cave in. Most men would agree that it would be difficult to turn down, but even when I was younger, I wanted sex to mean something. Just by knowing the right things to do and say, I could probably sleep around a lot..but I choose not to. I love myself too much to waste time like this. | |
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yes thats an interesting line you wrote...you wanted it to mean something.......thats how i always felt...i always wanted more than just sex.....i wanted to have a connection with my partner....sex for just the sake of having sex isnt enough....i like looking at attractive women but unless there was something else going on between us over just the physical attraction...then no i wouldnt.....i did it when i was younger and almost all times....it was crap....some women might be surprised to hear men saying this but we are not all just looking for somewhere nice to stick it.....i think a few million years evolution have to mean something.... | |
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Sorry to break it to ya, but buuull-fucking shit, kiddo.
One of my care-free adventurous friends already went that route and to no avail, woke up the next day (after a rather randy adventure with a FINE ass man) with sesame seeds attached to her crotch. She thought they were ingrown hair pimples until she tried to remove them...and then they started moving. Like I said the man who picked her up was GORGEOUS, charming, well spoken, and everything that looks like it would read well on paper, but it wasn't worth having getting a skankity sesame seed cooch for it...and she keeps her shit NAIRed.
I just wonder why people are dopey enough to even risk it. Before I let a man dip inside of this, I need to know that I'm not going to get Herpes, Gonnorhea, Syphilis, Crabs, Trichomonas, HPV, Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, Chlamydia or any of the rest of it. Condoms break, so I need to know where you've been flinging your penis before you got here. if I don't see some level of discernment on behalf of the other person , trust and believe my vag-ine is not one that they need to to be touching, licking,humping kissing, none of that, no way. Far as I'm concerned mofos like that could be blindfolded and dipping their d**ks in battery acid and they wouldn't care (initially, at least )as long as they're getting their tips wet.. and I say to hell with that, it is not for me.
You know how thy always say life is short? Well no it's not. It's actually pretty long, especially when you make bad decisions that you have to live with for the rest of your time here on this planet. That being said, I plan on keeping the one pu**y I got tight, right, and crawling crab- speckle free , thanks. I'm about to hit 40, which puts me right smack in sexual peak phase; the last thing I'm about to do is expose my snatch to a bunch of metaphorical free radicals for one night when I know I have the opportunity to enjoy the next 10 years of damn good sex minus coochie crustaceans, blistering sores, and a stab at infertility. But for y'all that are into that, Hell- more power to ya. Everything is not for everybody , I just know what's right for moi. | |
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As far as personal preference goes, we're quite the same, sans the age issue maybe (which is completely irrelevant if you ask me, anyway) - I don't like the idea of that kind of sex either (anymore). But that's also irrelevant. I just said that I might do it "as long as...", because it might be okay under certain circumstances. Still it doesn't mean that I would be the one looking out for nights like that at all!
I'm not implying that you or your friend are lying, I just never heard of crabs settling down on hairless areas. And if somebody is shaved, you do see if everything looks alright, at least.
Yes, condoms do break, but some more easily than others. That's why I always use new and the best condoms only. There's not much more I can do (in any case, really) and it's not worth argueing about whether it pays off even though there is still a certain risk involved, because that is nothing but relative.
Your statement about battery acid is very good. I like you.
All in all you are right, of course. You can never be too cautious and not watching out hardly ever pays off. I have been quite lucky myself several times in life and I probably wouldn't do the things I did again. The thought of having sex with a stranger turns me off, at the moment - it's just not my style and I don't think I'd enjoy it.
I just think that there's a slight possibility it can be regarded as "okay" at least, even with a "healthy" evaluation of sexual safety. | |
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Christ, did this thread rapidly take a turn for the worse!
If some bird gave me crabs she'd recieve a kick in the fudd. | |
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After replying I thought to myself that this was one of the more interesting "discussions" I had on the org, lately | |
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Define stranger...... | |
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..and I totally understand where you're coming from...the crabs though, they really do look like a subtle pimple that could be from an ingrown hair ( one that looks most likely from shaving). Very, verrry, deceitful little little things they are ! She was traumatized like hell after that (it's not funny, but the the aftermath of a gaggle of friends trying to help her out with this was like a really, really, dark comedy. Thankfully it was just sesame-seed coochie )
Insofar as the sex-age thingy: young men peak in their sexual experience rather early compared to women. i imagine that you, for example, must be having the time of your life. For us females however, the ages of 35+ brings on physiological changes in our bodies that make it an entirely heightened experience that doesn't compare in the least to whatever the hell we thought we were doing in our teens or twenties.
Umm, Ladies, can I get a witness and an amen? | |
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