Time....................the great equalizer.

SCNDLS said:

Ernest, I really don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to people like this all the damn time. Just cuz someone chooses to use bad grammar on the Org does not mean they don't know the proper usage and need your smart ass to correct them. Also, if the OP feels like exploring this topic what the hell is it to you that you gotta belittle him for starting the discussion. If it's that unimportant to YOU don't participate. Easy peasy. But this compulsion of yours to deride someone for discussing something YOU deem unimportant is really odd to me.

I made one little typo correction and people have lost their damn minds over it. THAT in itself is hysterical as all fuck.

The rest of my post stands. The OP went off on some mediocre R&B singer and her marriage and pregnancy. Why does she care? I challenged her angst and faux-concern. Honestly - why does she care what Alicia fucking Keys does? I broke it down and asked questions. She has yet to really answer them, but she, as everyone else here, concentrates on the ebonics correction rather than the subject of "Alicia Keys is delusional". Talk about off topic!

purplesweat said:

maria1999 said:

Do she really think that her marriage to Swizz is going to last. She has a baby on the way with a man that cheated on his first wife and denied the baby of another. I mean was she there when the paternity test came back? What makes her soo special and why aren't more people speaking out against this like they are with Fantasia? I'm sorry, but when he leaves her ass looking dumb....I won't have any sympathy for Alicia, because how you got him is how you gonna lose him. Swizz Beatz ain't about shyt!!!!!

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Don't you have anything better to do?

[Bait snip - luv4u]

Vendetta1 said:

Maybe more people aren't speaking out about this because they realize their own lives are not perfect? How many of us would want our personal lives in the spotlight? Why do people have such contempt for people they don't know?

My feelings on the matter is I just don't care.

No one is perfect, so let's not use that as an excuse. I don't have contempt for Alicia or Swizz. As for not caring, that is your right. And yet, you cared enough leave a post saying that you don't.

IAintTheOne said:

People need a job and some education sweet charrrrrrrrrrity

Exactly. I'm very proud to have obtained both.

RenHoek said:

Vendetta1 said:

Maybe more people aren't speaking out about this because they realize their own lives are not perfect? How many of us would want our personal lives in the spotlight? Why do people have such contempt for people they don't know?

My feelings on the matter is I just don't care.

I want to sit down with you and a few drinks so we can share our best I.DON'T.GIVE.A.SHIT. stories together...

Be careful what you ask for.

shortnsweet said:

SCNDLS said:

Ernest, I really don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to people like this all the damn time. Just cuz someone chooses to use bad grammar on the Org does not mean they don't know the proper usage and need your smart ass to correct them. Also, if the OP feels like exploring this topic what the hell is it to you that you gotta belittle him for starting the discussion. If it's that unimportant to YOU don't participate. Easy peasy. But this compulsion of yours to deride someone for discussing something YOU deem unimportant is really odd to me.

I am so glad you said this. I am not speaking of Ernest per say but I find this happens alot when I create a topic or comment on things. It almost makes you not want to come back here and I tend to stay away for awhile. Just thanks for saying this

You will find that on org ,like in everywhere else, there are some people who feel that they are the only one who have valid points. These are usually the people who are ignored in the real world and they use the net to compensate their social shortcomings.

My theory is that it is a free world and everyone is entitle to voice their opinions. If we all agreed on every issue then what would be the point. If you don't agree with something that someone said or did, it's ok to say so. People here just take things to the extreme and it's always the same ones. Again, that's what makes Org so interesting to me. You can't let words get to you.

Don't let anyone take away your right to express yourself, here or anyway.

at this whole thread.

ernestsewell said:

SCNDLS said:

Ernest, I really don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to people like this all the damn time. Just cuz someone chooses to use bad grammar on the Org does not mean they don't know the proper usage and need your smart ass to correct them. Also, if the OP feels like exploring this topic what the hell is it to you that you gotta belittle him for starting the discussion. If it's that unimportant to YOU don't participate. Easy peasy. But this compulsion of yours to deride someone for discussing something YOU deem unimportant is really odd to me.

I made one little typo correction and people have lost their damn minds over it. THAT in itself is hysterical as all fuck.

The rest of my post stands. The OP went off on some mediocre R&B singer and her marriage and pregnancy. Why does she care? I challenged her angst and faux-concern. Honestly - why does she care what Alicia fucking Keys does? I broke it down and asked questions. She has yet to really answer them, but she, as everyone else here, concentrates on the ebonics correction rather than the subject of "Alicia Keys is delusional". Talk about off topic!

I'm sorry, Ernest. I thought that I had answered your question. But, I guess, it wasn't to your satisfaction.

I care because when it comes to the homewrecking issue, its lop-sided. I just use Alicia as an example. LeAnne,Gabrielle, or even Angelina could have easily been used as well. But back to Alicia. She promotes herself as being a strong black woman, and yet, didn't have the integrity enough to let this man be until his divorce was finalize. If he is her soulmate, then what would have waiting a few months hurt. What yours is yours, but only once it is no longer someone else's.

Any more questions?

maria1999 said:

purplesweat said:

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Don't you have anything better to do?

[Bait snip - luv4u]

Is that your response to my comment? If it is, obviously, you don't.

JustErin said:

at this whole thread.

Yeah, I found some of the responses quite funny too. But adultery isn't a laughing matter in the least.

Oh man....

shortnsweet said:

SCNDLS said:

Ernest, I really don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to people like this all the damn time. Just cuz someone chooses to use bad grammar on the Org does not mean they don't know the proper usage and need your smart ass to correct them. Also, if the OP feels like exploring this topic what the hell is it to you that you gotta belittle him for starting the discussion. If it's that unimportant to YOU don't participate. Easy peasy. But this compulsion of yours to deride someone for discussing something YOU deem unimportant is really odd to me.

I am so glad you said this. I am not speaking of Ernest per say but I find this happens alot when I create a topic or comment on things. It almost makes you not want to come back here and I tend to stay away for awhile. Just thanks for saying this

And for everyone saying you don't give a shit about this story. Fine. That's all to tha good. But why are you posting here? There a 100s of threads on here you can go to that discuss topics you might give a shit about. I don't get the purpose of shitting on somebody else's good time if they ain't bothering you.

ernestsewell said:

SCNDLS said:

Ernest, I really don't understand why you feel the need to talk down to people like this all the damn time. Just cuz someone chooses to use bad grammar on the Org does not mean they don't know the proper usage and need your smart ass to correct them. Also, if the OP feels like exploring this topic what the hell is it to you that you gotta belittle him for starting the discussion. If it's that unimportant to YOU don't participate. Easy peasy. But this compulsion of yours to deride someone for discussing something YOU deem unimportant is really odd to me.

I made one little typo correction and people have lost their damn minds over it. THAT in itself is hysterical as all fuck.

The rest of my post stands. The OP went off on some mediocre R&B singer and her marriage and pregnancy. Why does she care? I challenged her angst and faux-concern. Honestly - why does she care what Alicia fucking Keys does? I broke it down and asked questions. She has yet to really answer them, but she, as everyone else here, concentrates on the ebonics correction rather than the subject of "Alicia Keys is delusional". Talk about off topic!

Ain't nobody lost their minds about anything you do. But it IS ironic that YOU relish correcting others mistakes as if you are infallible when lots of folks, myself include, make a conscious choice not to focus on spelling when posting on the Org.

As for the rest of the BS here, there are constantly threads that cover all kinds of dumbassetry and inane conversation that you participate in but then you wanna get your panties in a bunch when someone else discusses something YOU deem unworthy. That's ridiculously hypocritical when all you gotta do is not click on the thread. And that "just sayin'" catchphrase is "just stupid."

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

Vendetta1 said:

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

I hear you. The shenanigans that goes on in PMM and Associated Artists is a great example of the nuttiness that ensues around here. That's why I don't even go to those forums. But even with your comments I don't get the sense you were ridiculing the OP, per se, and it's not something I see you do on a regular basis as I've noticed with others, which is what I'm really talking about.

SCNDLS said:

Vendetta1 said:

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

I hear you. The shenanigans that goes on in PMM and Associated Artists is a great example of the nuttiness that ensues around here. That's why I don't even go to those forums. But even with your comments I don't get the sense you were ridiculing the OP, per se, and it's not something I see you do on a regular basis as I've noticed with others, which is what I'm really talking about.

Nah, I was ridiculing her. And I do know what you mean. it exists on a totally out of control level to the point where i don't know why it's allowed.

The Music and More section is a perfect example.

Vendetta1 said:

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

Correction, you can talk shit about people you don't know and behind their back of course. All the excuses in the world about them "putting it out there" is bunk when the person then cries fowl when someone then goes after them...you're posting on a public website, putting your shit out there. Fair game is fair game, is it not?

Trash away all you want, but just be prepared to catch shit for it. Don't dish if you can't take. That's all.

Vendetta1 said:

SCNDLS said:

I hear you. The shenanigans that goes on in PMM and Associated Artists is a great example of the nuttiness that ensues around here. That's why I don't even go to those forums. But even with your comments I don't get the sense you were ridiculing the OP, per se, and it's not something I see you do on a regular basis as I've noticed with others, which is what I'm really talking about.

Nah, I was ridiculing her. And I do know what you mean. it exists on a totally out of control level to the point where i don't know why it's allowed.

The Music and More section is a perfect example.

Oh my, damn!

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

Correction, you can talk shit about people you don't know and behind their back of course. All the excuses in the world about them "putting it out there" is bunk when the person then cries fowl when someone then goes after them...you're posting on a public website, putting your shit out there. Fair game is fair game, is it not?

Trash away all you want, but just be prepared to catch shit for it. Don't dish if you can't take. That's all.

I agree 100%.

SCNDLS said:

Vendetta1 said:

Nah, I was ridiculing her. And I do know what you mean. it exists on a totally out of control level to the point where i don't know why it's allowed.

The Music and More section is a perfect example.

Oh my, damn!

Oh shit!!! That's not what I meant.

I was not ridiculing her.

I do not know Alicia Keys personally, and I've never heard of "Swizz Beatz" but I have seen pictures of the two.

Man, just based on looks, he married so far out of his league that I can't even fathom it.

But of course, so did I so who am I to talk?

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[Edited 8/29/10 19:57pm]

JustErin said:

Vendetta1 said:

For some reason, I can't quote you Ms. SCNDLS.

I agree with you for the most part. I usually stay away from threads like this one because they make zero sense to me and I do not want to ruin folks' good time.

BUT....sometimes I feel like speaking my mind and this was one of those times. I am surprised by the level of nastiness given by some posters on the org about people they do not know. I am even more surprised that people are surprised when other orgers are nasty to them. Like: You can talk shit about people but you are somehow immune?

Correction, you can talk shit about people you don't know and behind their back of course. All the excuses in the world about them "putting it out there" is bunk when the person then cries fowl when someone then goes after them...you're posting on a public website, putting your shit out there. Fair game is fair game, is it not?

Never did I say that it bothers me if someone doesn't agree with me. Where did you get that I did? As for talking about someone behind their back, I've never had that problem either. I take it you don't see not honor vows as wrong. I guess that you don't have a problem with anything until it happens to you, personally. Lastly, the only thing I've put out there is my opinion, as you have yours. You don't like what I post...fine.....why are you still talking about it?

maria1999 said:

JustErin said:

Correction, you can talk shit about people you don't know and behind their back of course. All the excuses in the world about them "putting it out there" is bunk when the person then cries fowl when someone then goes after them...you're posting on a public website, putting your shit out there. Fair game is fair game, is it not?

Never did I say that it bothers me if someone doesn't agree with me. Where did you get that I did? As for talking about someone behind their back, I've never had that problem either. I take it you don't see not honor vows as wrong. I guess that you don't have a problem with anything until it happens to you, personally. Lastly, the only thing I've put out there is my opinion, as you have yours. You don't like what I post...fine.....why are you still talking about it?

I wasn't even talking to you.

And you're asking me...telling me that I condone adultry? Please, get the fuck out of here with that shit.

Hey you don't know either of them personally nor do you know anything about their personal lives, so why form a strong negative opinion on the situation when you probably don't even know it to a full extent?

LayzieKrayzie said:

Hey you don't know either of them personally nor do you know anything about their personal lives, so why form a strong negative opinion on the situation when you probably don't even know it to a full extent?

If anybody on this site REALLY felt like this, the Org would shut the fuck down tomorrow. The whole reason this joint even exists is because EVERYBODY on here has strong opiniosn about what Prince does musically and in his private life. That's the hypocrisy I'm talking about right thurr.

SCNDLS said:

LayzieKrayzie said:

Hey you don't know either of them personally nor do you know anything about their personal lives, so why form a strong negative opinion on the situation when you probably don't even know it to a full extent?

If anybody on this site REALLY felt like this, the Org would shut the fuck down tomorrow. The whole reason this joint even exists is because EVERYBODY on here has strong opiniosn about what Prince does musically and in his private life. That's the hypocrisy I'm talking about right thurr.

and don't forget grammar...

RenHoek said:

SCNDLS said:

If anybody on this site REALLY felt like this, the Org would shut the fuck down tomorrow. The whole reason this joint even exists is because EVERYBODY on here has strong opiniosn about what Prince does musically and in his private life. That's the hypocrisy I'm talking about right thurr.

and don't forget grammar...

And spelling

SCNDLS said:

RenHoek said:

and don't forget grammar...

And spelling

Harlepolis said:

TD3 said:

Thank you!!!

I don't understand it either. "She's a homewrecker"! Uh, the married man who made a decision to "tango" . . . to wreck his home.

Didn't you get the usual ol' memo?

He's just a man, "he couldn't help it" she on the other hand "should've known better"

Aww to hell with that. I'm an old skool & I just say "whoop everybody's ass". Ask my ex husband. Ask his friends who were on the road with them, in the studio, at the restaurant, at the football games: when I see anybody that actively and supportively took part in my public betrayal and humiliation in any way, shape, form, or fashion, I'm punching them in the face. I'm a Scorpio, and damnit, I will hurt you. Period. It's going to be like Sissy Spacek playing CARRIE up in this bitch and I will blame that shit on on a changing lunar tide, but rest assured some ass will be beaten. TODAY.