c. make love...

Right now, I'll take any one of them, I'm not picky.

PunkMistress said:

JustErin said:

I'd still like to know what the difference is?

A. He grabs you by the throat, says dirty but hot things in your ear, and rams you until you see stars.

B. He inserts his penis into your vagina. He thrusts it in and out. You mentally plan your outfit for the next day.

C. He's gay.

Fuck. Fuck the rest right now.

KidaDynamite said:

Right now, I'll take any one of them, I'm not picky.

Mach said:

A B C ...

easy as 1 2 3

all 3 please

at once

Oh yes!

PunkMistress said:

Mach said:

A B C ...

easy as 1 2 3

all 3 please

at once

I do all three all the time. Except "make love." I don't think I do that very much. It sounds like soft candlelight and gazing into each other's eyes. If I have the time or brainpower to be gazing softly into your eyes, you're not fucking me right.

I used to be like that, but lately with my new boyfriend for the first time in my life I feel that sex for me is first and foremost sharing our love with each other. I am still not into candlelight and not much into foreplay and I still like it rough, but at the same time we take our time in between to tell each other how very much we love each other and yes I love to look into his eyes while he makes love to me as much as I love to be fucked hard from behind. It just adds a new dimension to me when he tells me how special I am to him and when I feel how much it touches him and turns him on when I tell him I love him. If course we also fuck in the kitchen without that love talk, but since I am with him the term make love has a new meaning for me that I never felt before.

JustErin said:

I consider "making love" something that (usually) young women want due to a need to feel wanted and loved and respected...like some kind of validation...through sex.

Once you get to a point where you don't give a shit about all that and just realize that it feels good, and you want it because you want it, not because he does or because you think it's something people in love are supposed to do...you're having sex and fucking I suppose.

So, by my definition, I do not think it's even possible for me to "make love".

Like I said in my above post for me it's exactly the other way round. When I was young I didn't want any smooth talk while fucking, but liked raw sex even in my happy loving relationsship. Sex was hot and dirty and love was for the rest of my relationship, but not when we fucked. Now in my new relationship I still love to have sex just because it's hot to be fucked and because I love sex, but also because I then feel how much we love each other and want to make each other happy and satisfy each other and because I feel so close to my boyfriend then.

To the ladies that like to be fucked hard, like super aggressive ramming, whats your limit in how rough you want it? Like how aggressive would be crossing the line?

Militant said:

To the ladies that like to be fucked hard, like super aggressive ramming, whats your limit in how rough you want it? Like how aggressive would be crossing the line?

If his dick is hitting me in the heart, then maybe he should stop.

NMuzakNSoul said:

KidaDynamite said:

Right now, I'll take any one of them, I'm not picky.

Militant said:

To the ladies that like to be fucked hard, like super aggressive ramming, whats your limit in how rough you want it? Like how aggressive would be crossing the line?

When it comes to vaginal sex the limit is that it hurts. And I was more talking about the whole vibe during sex and not so much about being rough. I prefered the "fuck" vibe and now I prefer the "love" vibe even more.

ooohhh shyt serious! put a strap on and come the fuck over here! ...

myfavorite said:

ooohhh shyt serious! put a strap on and come the fuck over here! ...

...

i was tingling!

Militant said:

To the ladies that like to be fucked hard, like super aggressive ramming, whats your limit in how rough you want it? Like how aggressive would be crossing the line?

Just don't punch me.

JustErin said:

Militant said:

To the ladies that like to be fucked hard, like super aggressive ramming, whats your limit in how rough you want it? Like how aggressive would be crossing the line?

Just don't punch me.

And everything up to that is cool? Honestly I'm just wondering because I was out with three ladies the other night, and after a few cocktails of course the conversation was sexual and I kinda got the impression from the way they were talking that they usually want it a lot harder than most dudes would normally go about it.

It just made me wonder.

Militant said:

JustErin said:

Just don't punch me.

And everything up to that is cool? Honestly I'm just wondering because I was out with three ladies the other night, and after a few cocktails of course the conversation was sexual and I kinda got the impression from the way they were talking that they usually want it a lot harder than most dudes would normally go about it.

It just made me wonder.

Well, no. No biting, scratching, no watersports, no scat play...I guess that's it.

JustErin said:

Militant said:

And everything up to that is cool? Honestly I'm just wondering because I was out with three ladies the other night, and after a few cocktails of course the conversation was sexual and I kinda got the impression from the way they were talking that they usually want it a lot harder than most dudes would normally go about it.

It just made me wonder.

Well, no. No biting, scratching, no watersports, no scat play...I guess that's it.

I've been with a girl who likes being bitten. And my cousin had a friend, this girls nickname was "Scratchy"......enough said. lol

As for watersports....ew. And I don't know what scat play is. lol

JustErin said:

Militant said:

And everything up to that is cool? Honestly I'm just wondering because I was out with three ladies the other night, and after a few cocktails of course the conversation was sexual and I kinda got the impression from the way they were talking that they usually want it a lot harder than most dudes would normally go about it.

It just made me wonder.

Well, no. No biting, scratching, no watersports, no scat play...I guess that's it.

Wow...That "shit" right there would definitely "piss off" one of my friends and break his little heart. I heard he's into all of that.

Militant said:

JustErin said:

Well, no. No biting, scratching, no watersports, no scat play...I guess that's it.

I've been with a girl who likes being bitten. And my cousin had a friend, this girls nickname was "Scratchy"......enough said. lol

As for watersports....ew. And I don't know what scat play is. lol

You don't WANNA know. They have a Porn category on "that shit". Nah, wouldn't suggest you go see or Google it. Specially if you still need to eat.

NMuzakNSoul said:

JustErin said:

Well, no. No biting, scratching, no watersports, no scat play...I guess that's it.

Wow...That "shit" right there would definitely "piss off" one of my friends and break his little heart. I heard he's into all of that.

You have a friend that is into shit play?

JustErin said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Wow...That "shit" right there would definitely "piss off" one of my friends and break his little heart. I heard he's into all of that.

You have a friend that is into shit play?

my friend at college said the previous tenant where she lived must have been into it, since every month they got sent a shit lovers catalogues, which she insisted on showing us

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

You have a friend that is into shit play?

my friend at college said the previous tenant where she lived must have been into it, since every month they got sent a shit lovers catalogues, which she insisted on showing us

Jesus.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

my friend at college said the previous tenant where she lived must have been into it, since every month they got sent a shit lovers catalogues, which she insisted on showing us

Jesus.

yeah, it's my fault, cause I said bullshit there is no such thing boy was I wrong at the tender age of 18 and still a virgin

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Jesus.

yeah, it's my fault, cause I said bullshit there is no such thing boy was I wrong at the tender age of 18 and still a virgin

But you learned your lesson, didn't you?

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

yeah, it's my fault, cause I said bullshit there is no such thing boy was I wrong at the tender age of 18 and still a virgin

But you learned your lesson, didn't you?

I learned that anything goes, but I am still highly skeptical of anything anyone tells me despite it!

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

You have a friend that is into shit play?

my friend at college said the previous tenant where she lived must have been into it, since every month they got sent a shit lovers catalogues, which she insisted on showing us

They sold shit??

PunkMistress said:

ZombieKitten said:

my friend at college said the previous tenant where she lived must have been into it, since every month they got sent a shit lovers catalogues, which she insisted on showing us

They sold shit??

noooooo, videos and magazines

ZombieKitten said:

PunkMistress said:

They sold shit??

noooooo, videos and magazines