Somebody with insight, who has created space in their conciousness to observe life as it is and not be blinded by shitty opinions.

the waist area right above the man's hip bone, where the waistband of the jeans usually fall... that, and a bit of muscle definition in the thighs...

Plenty of things. Inside and out.

A grown strong woman that doesn't play.

A good sense of humor.

One that is playful and a little nasty at the right moment when there is that chemistry.

Sexy legs.

Caring

Beautiful eyes

Someone that speaks from the heart always, I find very sexy. No bullshit kinda thing.

Nice soft looking hands.

A cute yet sexy voice that makes you wanting more.

Hot lips (all 4)

Hot cheeks (all 4)

Face
Tits
Ass
(in that order)

Some knowledge about music, doesn't have to be the same taste as I have, but at least don't be indifferent to music. I can't impress girls with my knowledge or guitar playing when the only thing they listen to is the I love techno club mix.
Some humor. Or at least laugh with mine.
An opinion about society (politics, peace and war, global warming etc...) again, it doesn't have to be the same as mine, but it's nice to discuss that for a change, instead of having pointless discussions all day a la "in which episode of friends joey did this and that"

ConsciousContact said:

Somebody with insight, who has created space in their conciousness to observe life as it is and not be blinded by shitty opinions.

Good one!

i took my eleven year old to see that heap of shit transformers movie....the second one i think it was.....and although i know she is made up perfectly and everything is filmed to make her look good but i was like a schoolboy with a crush when i saw megan fox looking at me in the cinema.....she just does something to me....she is soooo sexy to me...

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and...ehhh....my girlfriend of course......hello dear ....

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.......and redheads with green eyes and pale skin.

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I know it when I see it. It seems VERY subjective I could go make a list but then someone fitting the bill might not be sexy at ALL to me!!! Seems to be more a case by case thing

research proves that if you write a long list when you are between partners it's going to be VERY different from the one that you write when you are in love. THAT list is, conveniently, traits of your current even if those things were turn-offs or something you never considered before, suddenly they become VERY desirable - thank you hormones!!!

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

research proves that if you write a long list when you are between partners it's going to be VERY different from the one that you write when you are in love. THAT list is, conveniently, traits of your current even if those things were turn-offs or something you never considered before, suddenly they become VERY desirable - thank you hormones!!!

I just checked my list and my current only has cool style when he picks me up from the airport or when I choose his outfits for him .

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

research proves that if you write a long list when you are between partners it's going to be VERY different from the one that you write when you are in love. THAT list is, conveniently, traits of your current even if those things were turn-offs or something you never considered before, suddenly they become VERY desirable - thank you hormones!!!

I just checked my list and my current only has cool style when he picks me up from the airport or when I choose his outfits for him .

even YOU wear crocs over there, it's MAD fashionable in T&T

I was going to add:

My theory (not really mine, but I believe in it) proves why I have a "type" but not once have I fallen in love with someone who fits that type.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I just checked my list and my current only has cool style when he picks me up from the airport or when I choose his outfits for him .

even YOU wear crocs over there, it's MAD fashionable in T&T

I was going to add:

My theory (not really mine, but I believe in it) proves why I have a "type" but not once have I fallen in love with someone who fits that type.

I only wear them in the house though. I wanted to wear them in the village one time and my current stopped me from doing that .

According to Peter David is totally my type, but IMO he only is when it comes to some things, but was not at all when it comes to others. Now that I am with him my preferences have changed which proves your theory .

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

even YOU wear crocs over there, it's MAD fashionable in T&T

I was going to add:

My theory (not really mine, but I believe in it) proves why I have a "type" but not once have I fallen in love with someone who fits that type.

I only wear them in the house though. I wanted to wear them in the village one time and my current stopped me from doing that .

According to Peter David is totally my type, but IMO he only is when it comes to some things, but was not at all when it comes to others. Now that I am with him my preferences have changed which proves your theory .

so basically this thread needs to be titled:

Singles: your idea of sexy

Coupleds: what is sexy about your current

I was just thinking some more on this topic as i was on my morning walk.

How do you develop your "type"

and I'm wondering whether your first love - even or ESPECIALLY if it was unrequited, might have some influence (this guy is the ONLY one that is my theoretical "type" )

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I only wear them in the house though. I wanted to wear them in the village one time and my current stopped me from doing that .

According to Peter David is totally my type, but IMO he only is when it comes to some things, but was not at all when it comes to others. Now that I am with him my preferences have changed which proves your theory .

so basically this thread needs to be titled:

Singles: your idea of sexy

Coupleds: what is sexy about your current

I was just thinking some more on this topic as i was on my morning walk.

How do you develop your "type"

and I'm wondering whether your first love - even or ESPECIALLY if it was unrequited, might have some influence (this guy is the ONLY one that is my theoretical "type" )

The first guy who I fell in love with was totally different from what I expected after the celebrity crushes I had before. I remember I was really surprised that I fell for a pretty average guy . We never were a couple although there was a strong attraction between us and it took me a long time to get him out of my head . None of the men who I fell in love with later resembled him much though.

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

so basically this thread needs to be titled:

Singles: your idea of sexy

Coupleds: what is sexy about your current

I was just thinking some more on this topic as i was on my morning walk.

How do you develop your "type"

and I'm wondering whether your first love - even or ESPECIALLY if it was unrequited, might have some influence (this guy is the ONLY one that is my theoretical "type" )

The first guy who I fell in love with was totally different from what I expected after the celebrity crushes I had before. I remember I was really surprised that I fell for a pretty average guy . We never were a couple although there was a strong attraction between us and it took me a long time to get him out of my head . None of the men who I fell in love with later resembled him much though.

but in between you being in love, did you have the same "type" as before, or did your first love/crush alter your type for good?

(I bet lots of people never actually fall in love with someone who looks just like their type )

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

The first guy who I fell in love with was totally different from what I expected after the celebrity crushes I had before. I remember I was really surprised that I fell for a pretty average guy . We never were a couple although there was a strong attraction between us and it took me a long time to get him out of my head . None of the men who I fell in love with later resembled him much though.

but in between you being in love, did you have the same "type" as before, or did your first love/crush alter your type for good?

(I bet lots of people never actually fall in love with someone who looks just like their type )

That I think .

I remember I felt totally attracted to a guy not so long after I met David who totally loked like a mixture of him and my first love . Totally crazy. That poor man probably had no idea why I was staring at him so much .

you know what, Captain Apollo from 70s BSG is responsible for my type

A woman with a curvy body and a feminine demeanour lights up the primal brain. Pretty simple, really.

i find my husband sexy, and i desire him very much.

These days I tend to like curvy, big-boobed, dark-haired(or brunette) girls that are preferrably over 170 cm. And if they share my sense of humor and are smart, well that's a BIG plus.

Some of my friends say I always fall for "bitchy" girls that prefer "bad-boys" over me, but I'm not so sure.

retina said:

A woman with a curvy body and a feminine demeanour lights up the primal brain. Pretty simple, really.

Even if she lacks a refined intellect, can't carry a conversation, has bad manners and no interest in any of the same things you like to do?

Cerebus said:

retina said:

A woman with a curvy body and a feminine demeanour lights up the primal brain. Pretty simple, really.

Even if she lacks a refined intellect, can't carry a conversation, has bad manners and no interest in any of the same things you like to do?

retina? Ah, no...I can't see him dealing with a dolt.

KidaDynamite said:

blah, blah, blah... And if he has nice hands, boy OH BOY!

I knew it was coming.

Cerebus said:

retina said:

A woman with a curvy body and a feminine demeanour lights up the primal brain. Pretty simple, really.

Even if she lacks a refined intellect, can't carry a conversation, has bad manners and no interest in any of the same things you like to do?

Yes, preferably she should be totally lobotimized, have reeking BO and be a sociopath too. That's exactly what I was trying to say.

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

Even if she lacks a refined intellect, can't carry a conversation, has bad manners and no interest in any of the same things you like to do?

retina? Ah, no...I can't see him dealing with a dolt.

Here's the Swedish title of a French movie. It means "Hidden Threat", lol

But no, you're right, I don't feel the hidden threat of suddenly being attracted to a dolt.

ThreadBare said:

KidaDynamite said:

blah, blah, blah... And if he has nice hands, boy OH BOY!

I knew it was coming.

you know how she is when it comes to nice hands.

xpertluva said:

Physically, something like this would definitely do the trick...

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Despite what the picture above may suggest, women who are somewhat coy and demure turn me on. And if she so happens to look like a video vixen, it's all the more intoxicating. There's something about a woman who's shy and a little unsure of herself that drives me wild! I guess it taps into that anamalistic need that men have to feel like a hunter? Or perhaps I just read too many story books growing up with damsels in distress???

Exactly. Though I like confidence sometimes, there's sumthing about shy girls... Take me back to the days of college when U were both too shy to make the first move, xcept now I've gained confidence and I really have a thing for shy cuties... Nothing turns me off more than those many loud, exhuberant, outrageous and unclassy hoodrats around...

retina said:

Cerebus said:

Even if she lacks a refined intellect, can't carry a conversation, has bad manners and no interest in any of the same things you like to do?

Yes, preferably she should be totally lobotimized, have reeking BO and be a sociopath too. That's exactly what I was trying to say.

Right. Lovely conversing with you.

A lady with a good sense of humor.

A lady with glasses. They have to be dark rimmed glasses.

A lady that likes sports.

A lady with a nice butt and eyes.

And a lady with anything that smells like Bath and Body...I freaking love that store!!!

A Big ole ASS