thekidsgirl said:

ZombieKitten said:

wtf!! onion rings!

There is no actual onion in those rings

so it's just a ring of BATTER????

ZombieKitten said:

thekidsgirl said:

There is no actual onion in those rings

so it's just a ring of BATTER????

Just a bland ass puff with a little onion dust on it

johnart said:

Couch cuddling, private jokes and stupid nicknames.

yes! the last two are possibly some of my absolute favorite things. i call the guy im seeing wolfman and he calls me zombiegirl

thekidsgirl said:

ZombieKitten said:

so it's just a ring of BATTER????

Just a bland ass puff with a little onion dust on it

I like them...

Wise Onion Rings are much better though. Much better.

thekidsgirl said:

ZombieKitten said:

so it's just a ring of BATTER????

Just a bland ass puff with a little onion dust on it

ZombieKitten said:

thekidsgirl said:

Just a bland ass puff with a little onion dust on it

!!!

thekidsgirl said:

ZombieKitten said:

!!!

I dunno man, I just like hanging out with my guy late at night chatting with only the lights of the movie you're watching on. Just spending relaxing alone time with someone you care about, not trying to impress each other, just really enjoying each other's company.

That's what's romantic to me.

JustErin said:

I dunno man, I just like hanging out with my guy late at night chatting with only the lights of the movie you're watching on. Just spending relaxing alone time with someone you care about, not trying to impress each other, just really enjoying each other's company.

That's what's romantic to me.

so you chat all the way through a movie??????

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

I dunno man, I just like hanging out with my guy late at night chatting with only the lights of the movie you're watching on. Just spending relaxing alone time with someone you care about, not trying to impress each other, just really enjoying each other's company.

That's what's romantic to me.

so you chat all the way through a movie??????

I don't think I've ever made it through an entire movie when in that situation.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

so you chat all the way through a movie??????

I don't think I've ever made it through an entire movie when in that situation.

why even bother?

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

I don't think I've ever made it through an entire movie when in that situation.

why even bother?

Because it's nice.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

why even bother?

Because it's nice.

i do the same thing pretty often.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

why even bother?

Because it's nice.

so how many half movies have you seen? or do you just start the same one each time?

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Because it's nice.

so how many half movies have you seen? or do you just start the same one each time?

I don't even know.

DexterDayglo said:

CarrieMpls said:

Well hello, Mr Bitter.

How is romance dishonest? If you honestly don't want to do nice things for your partner, then yes, I suppose any gesture is dishonest. But just 'cause you don't doesn't mean everybody works that way.

And no one said romance was effortless. Just because you have to put some effort it doesn't make it any less romantic. If anything, it makes it more so - Look what my partner is willing to do for me! etc.

I suppose the only thing i might be bitter about is how romance has been reduced to a cookie cutter package. In the dog house? Buy some flowers/ chocolates/dinner blah blah. Romance allows us to get away with being thoughtless otherwise, knowing it can be fixed with a 'traditional' gesture. You were right when you said earlier about the little something other/extra that shows thoughtfulness (foresight and imagination). As for effort, well, therein lies the rub: it shouldn't have to an effort if its part of an organic process of loving the other. One shouldn't have to feel grateful (or touched) by the actions of a so called loved one, even if it is satisfying. Having said that: Romance is too easy, because most receipients only have a tick list of expectations. Whers the fun (and honesty) in that?

totally agree. not that i'm an expert. it doesn't depend on diamonds and roses. it doesn't need a special backrub or moonlit night. it's the simple awareness of the 'click' you feel with another person, where even doing laundry together becomes fun and therefore romantic...

i don't have a better way to describe it.

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RebirthOfCool said:

Identity said:

A single red carnation for her

A nice restaurant near or on the shore

Warm conversation

Slow dance

Hold her hand

marvel at the beauty of her smile

Whisper sweet nothings

Late in the evening

Walk her to her door

Accept invitation to stay awhile

Long kiss

Lots of foreplay

Enjoy the 69 position

Put her in the buck

wear out the headboard

Make her breakfast in the morning

That's romance

Did you say "put it in her butt"? Now THAT'S romance!

XxAxX said:

RebirthOfCool said:

Did you say "put it in her butt"? Now THAT'S romance!

I'll forgive you for your confusion. I know it's rare that a guy talks about having sex with a woman on the Org, but it's not a foreign concept.

Someone who makes me feel good and I make them feel good in return. They inspire me and it's something intimate and precious at the same time. -