Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

men win across the board !

PicklesMcMillan said:

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

men win across the board !

they do.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

men win across the board !

they do.

Yanno... men have it easy, when women get horny its downright awful.

I still think women get sex a bit quicker then men can, but sex for men after a long hiatus seems so much more enjoyable than it is for a women.

paintedlady said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

they do.

Yanno... men have it easy, when women get horny its downright awful.

I still think women get sex a bit quicker then men can, but sex for men after a long hiatus seems so much more enjoyable than it is for a women.

is it because you shrink when unused??

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

paintedlady said:

Yanno... men have it easy, when women get horny its downright awful.

I still think women get sex a bit quicker then men can, but sex for men after a long hiatus seems so much more enjoyable than it is for a women.

is it because you shrink when unused??

Naw, you just dry up. Shrinkage is a good thing.... but I guess men have that heavy sack that must weigh a ton if it isn't emptied often.

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

I don't think any of this falls down gender lines at all.

Some people cope with things better than others, whether lack of sex or lonliness or whatever.

Satisfaction from sex varies from person to person as well. And is it good sex? I'd find bad sex more depressing after a long hiatus than no sex at all.

Age changes our outlook on many things, sex included.

Ok... since this thread is dying a painful death I might as well share my story....

had sex today,its been a while (trying to behave)

and when he came it was like he exploded and when I came I was like :yeahthatwasalright:

I felt robbed somehow....

the sex was good, just not as good as his.

CarrieMpls said:

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

I don't think any of this falls down gender lines at all.

Some people cope with things better than others, whether lack of sex or lonliness or whatever.

Satisfaction from sex varies from person to person as well. And is it good sex? I'd find bad sex more depressing after a long hiatus than no sex at all.

Age changes our outlook on many things, sex included.

Sex after a long break is awful this a woman thing? I think I need to get my groove going after a few tries or something. Not him though... heck, at least he had a great time.

If you had a chick suck your chick after you fucked her ass, you just know she's prepared to do whatever it takes to get some more dick. Therefore I say women find it way more satisfying.

JowiiCoco said:

If you had a chick suck your chick after you fucked her ass, you just know she's prepared to do whatever it takes to get some more dick. Therefore I say women find it way more satisfying.

i dunno...i think i've men do some pretty stupid stuff for sex before, too.

JowiiCoco said:

If you had a chick suck your chick after you fucked her ass, you just know she's prepared to do whatever it takes to get some more dick. Therefore I say women find it way more satisfying.

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

paintedlady said:

JowiiCoco said:

If you had a chick suck your chick after you fucked her ass, you just know she's prepared to do whatever it takes to get some more dick. Therefore I say women find it way more satisfying.

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

I don't really like to fuck all night long just to have more than one orgasm a night. Not to mention my dick gets really sensitive after the second time. I'm not into pain and if you fuck the way I do, you're gonna be exhausted after the first time anyway. So yeah, for me the first is the best, then I need a little break and if you're really hot I might wanna do it again. But that's it! No more fucking after that. Fucking the same chick over and over again gets boring anyway.

JowiiCoco said:

paintedlady said:

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

I don't really like to fuck all night long just to have more than one orgasm a night. Not to mention my dick gets really sensitive after the second time. I'm not into pain and if you fuck the way I do, you're gonna be exhausted after the first time anyway. So yeah, for me the first is the best, then I need a little break and if you're really hot I might wanna do it again. But that's it! No more fucking after that. Fucking the same chick over and over again gets boring anyway.

Ah, then you are the same as my lover... for me, the second orgasm is usually better than the 1st. (usually)

I usually get mine (maybe 2-3x's if I luck out), then he gets his one and then we are both usually done. Its just as I get older, I realize that my hornyness is more intense now that I am older, causing me to feel more lonesome if I don't get sex.

This never bothered me when I was younger. I could go for weeks and not feel horny. Now its more intense, the menstrual cycles are the same. Everything is more intense.

paintedlady said:

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

There's a different between orgasms and ejaculation for men. In the right situation, a man can orgasm multiple times, but ejaculation often puts an end to the whole thing - for a short recess. For me, they are more intense with each one I have. It's not like "OMG That's the biggest I can deal with". It's just that there is still sensation in the penis while you're achieving the 2nd or 3rd or 4th orgasm.

Most men just fuck, ejaculate and pass out. SO not into that w/ a guy.

Only a woman would start a thread like this.

ernestsewell said:

I think the FIRST time after a long hiatus is usually crap (I imagine) but the SECOND time or subsequent times are awesome, once you get back into the swing of things. Not that I have actually HAD any kind of break longer than a few weeks or so since 1989

johnart said:

Only a woman would start a thread like this.

ernestsewell said:

paintedlady said:

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

There's a different between orgasms and ejaculation for men. In the right situation, a man can orgasm multiple times, but ejaculation often puts an end to the whole thing - for a short recess. For me, they are more intense with each one I have. It's not like "OMG That's the biggest I can deal with". It's just that there is still sensation in the penis while you're achieving the 2nd or 3rd or 4th orgasm.

Most men just fuck, ejaculate and pass out. SO not into that w/ a guy.

Ok, I heard of t... his before, but why do men do the latter? Are the orgasms too much work?

ZombieKitten said:

I think the FIRST time after a long hiatus is usually crap (I imagine) but the SECOND time or subsequent times are awesome, once you get back into the swing of things. Not that I have actually HAD any kind of break longer than a few weeks or so since 1989

Works for me! A break is a break... it counts.

paintedlady said:

ZombieKitten said:

I think the FIRST time after a long hiatus is usually crap (I imagine) but the SECOND time or subsequent times are awesome, once you get back into the swing of things. Not that I have actually HAD any kind of break longer than a few weeks or so since 1989

Works for me! A break is a break... it counts.

the longest I have gone without sex was June-September in 1992

but I was travelling, so I was too busy to think about it much, except for this one guy I met but anyway

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

ZombieKitten said:

paintedlady said:

Works for me! A break is a break... it counts.

the longest I have gone without sex was June-September in 1992

but I was travelling, so I was too busy to think about it much, except for this one guy I met but anyway

"long" is always relative... its been a month for me. That's a break from my regular sessions that were almost every other day. It was some getting used to again, same guy, just felt like I had to take time to get my "swerve" on the way I like it. I guess a few more tries and things will be groovy.

I need to take a monent and say, I think a man's touch can feel so nice, especially the hugs.

Just getting used to touch again is the key I think.... men are lucky bastards.

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

I agree, with the latter, its nice when a man slows down and takes his time... I guess it takes me longer too.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

I agree, with the latter, its nice when a man slows down and takes his time... I guess it takes me longer too.

Well if it takes a while for both of you, that works out ok though.

But for me, I think I am just totally bored. Yesterday I was asked, "why are you staring out the window".

Cuz I'm bored, motherfucker!

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

I agree, with the latter, its nice when a man slows down and takes his time... I guess it takes me longer too.

Well if it takes a while for both of you, that works out ok though.

But for me, I think I am just totally bored. Yesterday I was asked, "why are you staring out the window".

Cuz I'm bored, motherfucker!

Is that really what you said?

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

I agree, with the latter, its nice when a man slows down and takes his time... I guess it takes me longer too.

Well if it takes a while for both of you, that works out ok though.

But for me, I think I am just totally bored. Yesterday I was asked, "why are you staring out the window".

Cuz I'm bored, motherfucker!

at work a girl told me her and her boyfriend went on vacation with another couple, and she happened to look into their window (suspect) and see him pounding away at her while she read a book.

ernestsewell said:

paintedlady said:

The orgasms are better the more you get them... for women that is.

Do male orgasms get more intense as they multiply... the second better tahn the first, the thrid better than the second, and so on? Or are they equally as good? Or is the first one the most intense?

Most men just fuck, ejaculate and pass out. SO not into that w/ a guy.

You say this like there's something wrong with it.

It's perfectly fine to me. I'm a mushy guy and still I don't need to be spooned all night long.

[Edited 8/17/10 21:01pm]

JowiiCoco said:

JustErin said:

Well if it takes a while for both of you, that works out ok though.

But for me, I think I am just totally bored. Yesterday I was asked, "why are you staring out the window".

Cuz I'm bored, motherfucker!

Is that really what you said?

No, I'm not that mean.

I just laughed.