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Date set. Maybe we're just friends though. I'm excited.

heartbeatocean said:

Date set. Maybe we're just friends though. I'm excited.

Hot. I'm excited for you.

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Ottensen said:

No, I was not looking for an older partner. I generally don't take age into consideration when I initially become attracted to someone unless it's someone young enough to be my offspring or old enough to be a dad, hell, an uncle even. In the case of my fiance, he attends the same church as I do, we worked together on alot of ministry and outreach projects, and somewhere in between I figured out that I like his swagger and he likes mine ,but there are definitely concrete life goals and spiritual aims there as a result of the lives we've both led before we found each other. The level of experience (and survival) is the glue which cements the relationship. It's not the type of union I see being able to work out with someone younger who's still wet behind the ears, although they make great bed partners and look quite fabulous on the arm at a dinner party or gallery vernissage .

Neither do I. Congrats that you have found your perfect match !

Even though my boyfriend is some years younger than I am he has experienced and survived a lot in his life, so much more than my ex-bf although he is older than him. They both are like children in a way too in certain situations though and that definitely is something that attracts me: A man who still has that inner child in him kept alive. I am like that myself too, no matter what experiences I made in my life, no matter I am grown up, in some ways I still feel like a a child and I don't want to ever loose that. I guess that is one of the reasons why I usually feel attracted to younger men, apart from the looks .

I don't believe that there is such a thing as perfect match. That's fairytale talk.

However, I will say that we are equally yoked in our goals, viewpoints, desires, and sense of life purpose and that's the most important factor to me.

heartbeatocean said:

Date set. Maybe we're just friends though. I'm excited.

don't tell him about the org so he doesn't come snooping!

I'm 29 and the missus is 31. I don't mind being the younger man, though granted 2 years isn't a lot. Still, I bet most married westerners in Thailand have a wife younger than them. Let me continue to be a hypocrite and buy into the stereotypes for a few more seconds here... I'd say ultimately I'm upholding expectations and it's still all good since she's more attractive than me. If I could put on a bit of weight, lose all my hair and have a bit more money...

ZombieKitten said:

I dont get what you guys mean about younger guys and sex... My husband is 45, and we are having some of the BEST sex EVERRRRRRRR as we get older... There may be not as much quantity, but the quality sure as hell makes up for it! There is much to be said for experience!!

tinaz said:

I dont get what you guys mean about younger guys and sex... My husband is 45, and we are having some of the BEST sex EVERRRRRRRR as we get older... There may be not as much quantity, but the quality sure as hell makes up for it! There is much to be said for experience!!

I don't know how I did this, but I taught my old dog some new tricks

yep! my cougar ass would date a younger man!!

But not 2 young.....u gotta at LEAST be able to buy me a drank!!