MacDaddy said:

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

I'm 39, and luckily neither apply to me.

show-off...

Ok, I just said something, but I was able to hide behind msn to do it.

JustErin said:

Ok, I just said something, but I was able to hide behind msn to do it.

that's like texting to break up!!!!!

very modern

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Ok, I just said something, but I was able to hide behind msn to do it.

that's like texting to break up!!!!!

very modern

All I got in response was a "fair enough" and a "let's try something different".

Conversation over.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

that's like texting to break up!!!!!

very modern

All I got in response was a "fair enough" and a "let's try something different".

Conversation over.

and you promised you wouldn't look out the window again?

Justerin you are brave as hell!

Let's hope Pandora's box isn't creaking open....

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

All I got in response was a "fair enough" and a "let's try something different".

Conversation over.

and you promised you wouldn't look out the window again?

No, seriously. That's all that was said.

Me: "things are a little...you know"

Then he said the two lines I posted and...

the end.

Nice and easy.

paintedlady said:

Justerin you are brave as hell!

Let's hope Pandora's box isn't creaking open....

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

and you promised you wouldn't look out the window again?

No, seriously. That's all that was said.

Me: "things are a little...you know"

Then he said the two lines I posted and...

the end.

Nice and easy.

well, that was very, yeah

paintedlady said:

DesireeNevermind said:

MUAH!!! This is gonna be good! My answers are above. Not that they're worth more than

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

Gawd I hope I am still fucking when I'm in my 60s be I single or hitched! Especially since I have no intention of growing old....physically that is. The calendar will change but I'm going to try my hardest not look a day older than 33! Janice Dickenson, Pam Anderson, Lena Horne, and Demi Moore are my idols. Them bitches don't age at all!!!! Oh and Princey and Sheila aint lookin' too shabby either.

DesireeNevermind said:

paintedlady said:

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

Gawd I hope I am still fucking when I'm in my 60s be I single or hitched! Especially since I have no intention of growing old....physically that is. The calendar will change but I'm going to try my hardest not look a day older than 33! Janice Dickenson, Pam Anderson, Lena Horne, and Demi Moore are my idols. Them bitches don't age at all!!!! Oh and Princey and Sheila aint lookin' too shabby either.

Sheila looks BETTER! She's so hot!

I agree, I want to be the same when I get older too. Better get to work and start taking care of my body... excess weight is no good on age.

paintedlady said:

DesireeNevermind said:

Gawd I hope I am still fucking when I'm in my 60s be I single or hitched! Especially since I have no intention of growing old....physically that is. The calendar will change but I'm going to try my hardest not look a day older than 33! Janice Dickenson, Pam Anderson, Lena Horne, and Demi Moore are my idols. Them bitches don't age at all!!!! Oh and Princey and Sheila aint lookin' too shabby either.

Sheila looks BETTER! She's so hot!

I agree, I want to be the same when I get older too. Better get to work and start taking care of my body... excess weight is no good on age.

Don't lose too many curves gurl!!! You've got to save them for the HI islands.

DesireeNevermind said:

paintedlady said:

Sheila looks BETTER! She's so hot!

I agree, I want to be the same when I get older too. Better get to work and start taking care of my body... excess weight is no good on age.

Don't lose too many curves gurl!!! You've got to save them for the HI islands.

JustErin said:

.....all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds......

paintedlady said:

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

So what's the problem? Nothing wrong with chasing the young stuff....shit, men do it(you should see the salsemen in my company), why not women?

Which is hotter - a dude with six-pack abs pounding ya, or some slob built like Kevin James?

uPtoWnNY said:

paintedlady said:

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

So what's the problem? Nothing wrong with chasing the young stuff....shit, men do it(you should see the salsemen in my company), why not women?

Which is hotter - a dude with six-pack abs pounding ya, or some slob built like Kevin James?

bang bang bang!!!!!

uPtoWnNY said:

paintedlady said:

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

So what's the problem? Nothing wrong with chasing the young stuff....shit, men do it(you should see the salsemen in my company), why not women?

Which is hotter - a dude with six-pack abs pounding ya, or some slob built like Kevin James?

does the slob have a big dick?

JustErin said:

uPtoWnNY said:

So what's the problem? Nothing wrong with chasing the young stuff....shit, men do it(you should see the salsemen in my company), why not women?

Which is hotter - a dude with six-pack abs pounding ya, or some slob built like Kevin James?

does the slob have a big dick?

I'm saying! Who cares about a cut body when all those guys do is stare in the mirror at themselves while pumping.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

does the slob have a big dick?

I'm saying! Who cares about a cut body when all those guys do is stare in the mirror at themselves while pumping.

I'm just not picky when it comes to weight. I mean, I don't want extremes or anything...and I find big muscles to be a turn off. I much prefer healthy natural bodies. But a chubby dude is just fine with me as well.

If a guy is going to the gym all the time and getting all buffed up, I'm honestly turned off. If he goes to stay in shape, I'm cool with that.

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

I'm saying! Who cares about a cut body when all those guys do is stare in the mirror at themselves while pumping.

I'm just not picky when it comes to weight. I mean, I don't want extremes or anything...and I find big muscles to be a turn off. I much prefer healthy natural bodies. But a chubby dude is just fine with me as well.

If a guy is going to the gym all the time and getting all buffed up, I'm honestly turned off. If he goes to stay in shape, I'm cool with that.

I feel the same way... I actually like a bit of a belly now.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

I'm just not picky when it comes to weight. I mean, I don't want extremes or anything...and I find big muscles to be a turn off. I much prefer healthy natural bodies. But a chubby dude is just fine with me as well.

If a guy is going to the gym all the time and getting all buffed up, I'm honestly turned off. If he goes to stay in shape, I'm cool with that.

I feel the same way... I actually like a bit of a belly now.

I don't like too many muscles (the ones my bf has are okay, but anything more would be too much for me) but it is very important to me that a man is skinny and does not have a belly . A flat belly is the most beautiful and sexually attractive body part on a man IMO. A pefect ass for example does pretty much nothing for me .

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

I'm just not picky when it comes to weight. I mean, I don't want extremes or anything...and I find big muscles to be a turn off. I much prefer healthy natural bodies. But a chubby dude is just fine with me as well.

If a guy is going to the gym all the time and getting all buffed up, I'm honestly turned off. If he goes to stay in shape, I'm cool with that.

I feel the same way... I actually like a bit of a belly now.

Wow, I'm shocked. So what the fuck am I sweating/busting my ass four days a week for? I should let myself go like Ron Jeremy.

paintedlady said:

Ottensen said:

Maybe you need a young buck, sorta like a Mrs. Robinson type of thing minus the drama?

My mother, aunts, and grand aunt all have younger men.... You might be on to something there...

Maybe just for some dinner and horizontal mambo ???

paintedlady said:

DesireeNevermind said:

MUAH!!! This is gonna be good! My answers are above. Not that they're worth more than

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

Most women at 35 and after can also look forward to their coochie becoming ultra-sensitive too; vaginal stimultation just intensifies like crazy....I guess it's like our Last Hurrah before menopause kicks in. There is no way in hell I can compare the joy of sex now to whatever it was I thought I was doing in my 20's

uPtoWnNY said:

paintedlady said:

I feel the same way... I actually like a bit of a belly now.

Wow, I'm shocked. So what the fuck am I sweating/busting my ass four days a week for? I should let myself go like Ron Jeremy.

I don't see how a beer gut looks attractive on a man at all. Women are strange.

Maybe all those sitcoms pairing the fat guy with the hot chick are real after all.

sextonseven said:

uPtoWnNY said:

Wow, I'm shocked. So what the fuck am I sweating/busting my ass four days a week for? I should let myself go like Ron Jeremy.

I don't see how a beer gut looks attractive on a man at all. Women are strange.

Maybe all those sitcoms pairing the fat guy with the hot chick are real after all.

A beer gut like this is not attractive.

But a guy who is carrying some extra weight can still be very attractive to me, as long as he has a great face and cute style.

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

Most women at 35 and after can also look forward to their coochie becoming ultra-sensitive too; vaginal stimultation just intensifies like crazy....I guess it's like our Last Hurrah before menopause kicks in. There is no way in hell I can compare the joy of sex now to whatever it was I thought I was doing in my 20's

CarrieMpls said:

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Does all this change when we age?

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

I don't think any of this falls down gender lines at all.

Some people cope with things better than others, whether lack of sex or lonliness or whatever.

Satisfaction from sex varies from person to person as well. And is it good sex? I'd find bad sex more depressing after a long hiatus than no sex at all.

Age changes our outlook on many things, sex included.

Yeah, I agree.

For all the talk of the effects of menopause none of my mothers nor 4 sisters said much changed in how the felt physically and mentally. My mother told if she ever dated she would always dated a man 10 years younger than she, for that reason many men don't take care of themselves and are "broke down". I understand now, because there are a lot of men, young men 39-55 because they suffer from high blood pressure, diabetes or have had prostrate cancer have issue with maintaining an erection or are impotent.

Other than that my observation personally and professionaly has been, women nuture and maintain a network of friendships through out their lives, whether they are single or married. Women relationships and social life differs than most men. As men get older their families become their only support network and if a wife or significant other either passes or leaves them they don't cope to well. This is why young things can and do come and men give damn every dime thay have, I've seen ithis too many times.

I think as you get old you know what you want and could care less concern nor give a damn what others think. We have a local art/event paper here in Chi-Town ( Chicago Reader) if you read the personal section I'm always amazed how women are direct the are. This one woman post, I'm married, I'm not looking for a serious relationship or conversation, I just wanna fuck. Those types of ads aren't uncommon.

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

Most women at 35 and after can also look forward to their coochie becoming ultra-sensitive too; vaginal stimultation just intensifies like crazy....I guess it's like our Last Hurrah before menopause kicks in. There is no way in hell I can compare the joy of sex now to whatever it was I thought I was doing in my 20's

!!!!

Agreed.... sex is so good now that I am not right unless I get it on the regular. I sometimes feel like a teenaged boy.

TD3 said:

CarrieMpls said:

I don't think any of this falls down gender lines at all.

Some people cope with things better than others, whether lack of sex or lonliness or whatever.

Satisfaction from sex varies from person to person as well. And is it good sex? I'd find bad sex more depressing after a long hiatus than no sex at all.

Age changes our outlook on many things, sex included.

Yeah, I agree.

For all the talk of the effects of menopause none of my mothers nor 4 sisters said much changed in how the felt physically and mentally. My mother told if she ever dated she would always dated a man 10 years younger than she, for that reason many men don't take care of themselves and are "broke down". I understand now, because there are a lot of men, young men 39-55 because they suffer from high blood pressure, diabetes or have had prostrate cancer have issue with maintaining an erection or are impotent.

Other than that my observation personally and professionaly has been, women nuture and maintain a network of friendships through out their lives, whether they are single or married. Women relationships and social life differs than most men. As men get older their families become their only support network and if a wife or significant other either passes or leaves them they don't cope to well. This is why young things can and do come and men give damn every dime thay have, I've seen ithis too many times.

I think as you get old you know what you want and could care less concern nor give a damn what others think. We have a local art/event paper here in Chi-Town ( Chicago Reader) if you read the personal section I'm always amazed how women are direct the are. This one woman post, I'm married, I'm not looking for a serious relationship or conversation, I just wanna fuck. Those types of ads aren't uncommon.