JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

and I thought I was the only one with this problem...

guess my junk is officially old junk now...

RenHoek said:

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

and I thought I was the only one with this problem...

guess my junk is officially old junk now...

I'm no spring chicken myself.

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

I dunno for sure. But don't underestimate the major uneasiness of blue balls. If I get horny for too long I have to do something about it.

What is this "sex" thing I keep hearing about?

paintedlady said:

CarrieMpls said:

I don't think any of this falls down gender lines at all.

Some people cope with things better than others, whether lack of sex or lonliness or whatever.

Satisfaction from sex varies from person to person as well. And is it good sex? I'd find bad sex more depressing after a long hiatus than no sex at all.

Age changes our outlook on many things, sex included.

Sex after a long break is awful this a woman thing? I think I need to get my groove going after a few tries or something. Not him though... heck, at least he had a great time.

Maybe you need a young buck, sorta like a Mrs. Robinson type of thing minus the drama?

JustErin said:

RenHoek said:

and I thought I was the only one with this problem...

guess my junk is officially old junk now...

I'm no spring chicken myself.

the bright side is that it still works...

I'd die if had non-working junk...

see, in that, you're fortunate because I don't think yours could ever not work...

NMuzakNSoul said:

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

I dunno for sure. But don't underestimate the major uneasiness of blue balls. If I get horny for too long I have to do something about it.

Women get “blue balls” too. It’s called vasoconstriction. And can be just as painful.

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

I'm 39, and luckily neither apply to me.

Ottensen said:

paintedlady said:

Sex after a long break is awful this a woman thing? I think I need to get my groove going after a few tries or something. Not him though... heck, at least he had a great time.

Maybe you need a young buck, sorta like a Mrs. Robinson type of thing minus the drama?

My mother, aunts, and grand aunt all have younger men.... You might be on to something there...

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

I agree, with the latter, its nice when a man slows down and takes his time... I guess it takes me longer too.

Well if it takes a while for both of you, that works out ok though.

But for me, I think I am just totally bored. Yesterday I was asked, "why are you staring out the window".

Cuz I'm bored, motherfucker!

I hope it works out for me too... its been a year since we been messing around, at least now he's not so um... old fashioned. I actually tried to leave him alone, stayed away for a month, and I let him back in. I like this guy too much. Good Lord, this can't be a good thing.

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paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

I say harder on a woman cuz we have to deal with the whole "tramp/flip" label. As if we are supposed to be available for sex but not ever desire or seek it.

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

It's tougher on men. Women are always alone in some sense...either physically, emotionally, intellectually or even spiritually. Men being such needy creatures....they always desire some form of attention and/or companionship. That's why God invented dogs...sort of devine back up plan.

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Sex is always satisfying for men no matter how long it was before the last time they got it. I think the general consensus is that women can't get no satisfaction. OH WE TRY HARD AS HELL THO!!!

Does all this change when we age?

IS THAT A TRICK QUESTION????

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

nah...i think it changes as women get older. Somewhere ....at this very moment...is some 69 year old geezer plotting on how to pick up on that hot 29 year old that his grandson met at the club. Meanwhile his 69 year old ex-wife is glad her clubbing days are long gone.

MUAH!!! This is gonna be good! My answers are above. Not that they're worth more than

CarrieMpls said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

I dunno for sure. But don't underestimate the major uneasiness of blue balls. If I get horny for too long I have to do something about it.

Women get “blue balls” too. It’s called vasoconstriction. And can be just as painful.

you don't know that...it could be MORE painful!

I thought vasoconstriction was what you got from prolonged exposure to a big dick wrapped in a trojan condom that included spermicide.

Shiit....I dunno.

MacDaddy said:

JustErin said:

I dunno about the other questions but all I know is dudes over...let's say...33..either jizz in 30 seconds (from over excitement due to not getting good sex - or none at all - for an extended period of time) or take 50 years to get off...most times it's the latter.

I'm 39, and luckily neither apply to me.

Ya, but you're superhuman.

DesireeNevermind said:

paintedlady said:

Is it harder on a man or a woman to be horny?

I say harder on a woman cuz we have to deal with the whole "tramp/flip" label. As if we are supposed to be available for sex but not ever desire or seek it.

Is lonliness tougher on men or women?

It's tougher on men. Women are always alone in some sense...either physically, emotionally, intellectually or even spiritually. Men being such needy creatures....they always desire some form of attention and/or companionship. That's why God invented dogs...sort of devine back up plan.

Is the sex more satisfying for women after a long hiatus then it is for men or vice versa?

Sex is always satisfying for men no matter how long it was before the last time they got it. I think the general consensus is that women can't get no satisfaction. OH WE TRY HARD AS HELL THO!!!

Does all this change when we age?

IS THAT A TRICK QUESTION????

I was talking to a friend and realized that all the rules of sex tend to change for men and women as we age and get older. Thoughts?

nah...i think it changes as women get older. Somewhere ....at this very moment...is some 69 year old geezer plotting on how to pick up on that hot 29 year old that his grandson met at the club. Meanwhile his 69 year old ex-wife is glad her clubbing days are long gone.

MUAH!!! This is gonna be good! My answers are above. Not that they're worth more than

I love your mind.

I asked about the rules changing because I see more of the cougar thing going on with many single women I know. In my family the women over 60 have gone buck wild, they are all shagging men 1/2 their age.

I am getting hornier as I get older too, before I never craved sex like this when I was younger.

paintedlady said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

they do.

Yanno... men have it easy, when women get horny its downright awful.

I still think women get sex a bit quicker then men can, but sex for men after a long hiatus seems so much more enjoyable than it is for a women.

Could it be women aren't speaking up on what gets them off or know how to get off? I'm still amazed how many women find it difficult to be truthful, be specific on what pleases them.

TD3 said:

paintedlady said:

Yanno... men have it easy, when women get horny its downright awful.

I still think women get sex a bit quicker then men can, but sex for men after a long hiatus seems so much more enjoyable than it is for a women.

Could it be women aren't speaking up on what gets them off or know how to get off? I'm still amazed how many women find it difficult to be truthful, be specific on what pleases them.

I am with a dominant guy and if I tell him to switch up for my enjoyment, he loses his erection. So I don't say anything now.

paintedlady said:

TD3 said:

Could it be women aren't speaking up on what gets them off or know how to get off? I'm still amazed how many women find it difficult to be truthful, be specific on what pleases them.

I am with a dominant guy and if I tell him to switch up for my enjoyment, he loses his erection. So I don't say anything now.

what does that mean? Like you suggesting something else than what you are doing??

that's nuts!

ZombieKitten said:

paintedlady said:

I am with a dominant guy and if I tell him to switch up for my enjoyment, he loses his erection. So I don't say anything now.

what does that mean? Like you suggesting something else than what you are doing??

that's nuts!

He's a missionary guy, and doggie style ONLY when I first met him.

He specifically moved a certain way, same rhythm same speed.

When I would want to speeed up, or thrust harder/faster, he'd pin me down to stay STILL.

Then since I couldn't move I would speak up, he would stop and look at me and he would soften up.

So then I just dealt with it until one day he saw that I wasn't enjoying myself. He stopped and asked me what was wrong, and I told him. He then said that he didn't like being dictated to, that HE was the man but that he did want me to be satistfied so he would try to do things better. So he let me move and try new things with him.

Sex is much better now with him, he tells me that I opened up his world sexually and that now he is open to experimenting. We do diffent positions and he has learned to like oral sex. He loves sex now, he enjoys exploring my body. This he says he never did before since his exes were old fashioned.

Now, he is still pretty dominant, but he has learned to move with my body and allow me to move my own way, he just flows with me and doesn't hold my hips or legs down.

But I don't tell him what to do, we just use body language and he'll move me with his hands and I do the same. We only speak to say sexy things to one another, and maybe a few grunts, but that's it.

paintedlady said:

ZombieKitten said:

what does that mean? Like you suggesting something else than what you are doing??

that's nuts!

He's a missionary guy, and doggie style ONLY when I first met him.

He specifically moved a certain way, same rhythm same speed.

When I would want to speeed up, or thrust harder/faster, he'd pin me down to stay STILL.

Then since I couldn't move I would speak up, he would stop and look at me and he would soften up.

So then I just dealt with it until one day he saw that I wasn't enjoying myself. He stopped and asked me what was wrong, and I told him. He then said that he didn't like being dictated to, that HE was the man but that he did want me to be satistfied so he would try to do things better. So he let me move and try new things with him.

Sex is much better now with him, he tells me that I opened up his world sexually and that now he is open to experimenting. We do diffent positions and he has learned to like oral sex. He loves sex now, he enjoys exploring my body. This he says he never did before since his exes were old fashioned.

Now, he is still pretty dominant, but he has learned to move with my body and allow me to move my own way, he just flows with me and doesn't hold my hips or legs down.

But I don't tell him what to do, we just use body language and he'll move me with his hands and I do the same. We only speak to say sexy things to one another, and maybe a few grunts, but that's it.

well that just sounds great!!!!

I thought I was in for a terrible story

ZombieKitten said:

paintedlady said:

He's a missionary guy, and doggie style ONLY when I first met him.

He specifically moved a certain way, same rhythm same speed.

When I would want to speeed up, or thrust harder/faster, he'd pin me down to stay STILL.

Then since I couldn't move I would speak up, he would stop and look at me and he would soften up.

So then I just dealt with it until one day he saw that I wasn't enjoying myself. He stopped and asked me what was wrong, and I told him. He then said that he didn't like being dictated to, that HE was the man but that he did want me to be satistfied so he would try to do things better. So he let me move and try new things with him.

Sex is much better now with him, he tells me that I opened up his world sexually and that now he is open to experimenting. We do diffent positions and he has learned to like oral sex. He loves sex now, he enjoys exploring my body. This he says he never did before since his exes were old fashioned.

Now, he is still pretty dominant, but he has learned to move with my body and allow me to move my own way, he just flows with me and doesn't hold my hips or legs down.

But I don't tell him what to do, we just use body language and he'll move me with his hands and I do the same. We only speak to say sexy things to one another, and maybe a few grunts, but that's it.

well that just sounds great!!!!

I thought I was in for a terrible story

I'm too old for bad sex... I think I would have left him alone pretty quick if the sex wasn't good.

Thank goodness that we are both mature enough and communicate pretty good outside the bedroom.

Its hard to tell a guy your attracted to that they suck in bed. I am so glad he asked me what was wrong.

paintedlady said:

ZombieKitten said:

well that just sounds great!!!!

I thought I was in for a terrible story

I'm too old for bad sex... I think I would have left him alone pretty quick if the sex wasn't good.

Thank goodness that we are both mature enough and communicate pretty good outside the bedroom.

Its hard to tell a guy your attracted to that they suck in bed. I am so glad he asked me what was wrong.

lucky!!! for you both

paintedlady said:

ZombieKitten said:

well that just sounds great!!!!

I thought I was in for a terrible story

I'm too old for bad sex... I think I would have left him alone pretty quick if the sex wasn't good.

Thank goodness that we are both mature enough and communicate pretty good outside the bedroom.

Its hard to tell a guy your attracted to that they suck in bed. I am so glad he asked me what was wrong.

Oh, it's not hard....but what do I know...I'm staring out the window.

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

I'm too old for bad sex... I think I would have left him alone pretty quick if the sex wasn't good.

Thank goodness that we are both mature enough and communicate pretty good outside the bedroom.

Its hard to tell a guy your attracted to that they suck in bed. I am so glad he asked me what was wrong.

Oh, it's not hard....but what do I know...I'm staring out the window.

keep a book handy

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Oh, it's not hard....but what do I know...I'm staring out the window.

keep a book handy

And I'll make sure it's the book, "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover".

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

Oh, it's not hard....but what do I know...I'm staring out the window.

keep a book handy

Or some liquor.

...as if it were easy to tell a girl that she's crap in bed.

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

keep a book handy

And I'll make sure it's the book, "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover".

and NOT "Living with Herpes"

ZombieKitten said:

JustErin said:

And I'll make sure it's the book, "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover".

and NOT "Living with Herpes"

Hahaha!

whistle said:

...as if it were easy to tell a girl that she's crap in bed.