HobbesLeCute said:

ZombieKitten said:

omg keep it coming!!!!

what about elbows?

I would.

Actually, I was joking at first but I think I might actually want to try all of these things.

me too

I've never tried elbows actually.

It'll be awhile before I can build up that level of familiarity with someone to get them to let me try it...but once I do, I will post a review.

FauxReal said:

I've never tried elbows actually.

It'll be awhile before I can build up that level of familiarity with someone to get them to let me try it...but once I do, I will post a review.

I feel a little too familiar to suggest stuff like this, it would be like WTF where did you get this idea from

the org, where else

ZombieKitten said:

FauxReal said:

I've never tried elbows actually.

It'll be awhile before I can build up that level of familiarity with someone to get them to let me try it...but once I do, I will post a review.

I feel a little too familiar to suggest stuff like this, it would be like WTF where did you get this idea from

the org, where else

LOL, I think the man has to initiate, or at least it would be way easier. It has to be harder for a woman to say "please hump my elbows". A man can start it off with a simple compliment directed at the body part of interest and take it to where it needs to go e.g. "You know I really love the thickness of your thighs and how smoothly and perfectly it it transitions down to your calves...it just looks so good I could fuck it".

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FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

I feel a little too familiar to suggest stuff like this, it would be like WTF where did you get this idea from

the org, where else

LOL, I think the man has to initiate, or at least it would be way easier. It has to be harder for a woman to say "please hump my elbows". A man can start it off with a simple compliment directed at the body part of interest and take it to where it needs to go e.g. "You know I really love the thickness of your thighs and how smoothly and perfectly it it transitions down to your calves...it just looks so good I could fuck it".

now, how to plant that seed of an idea without saying anything

if I lubed up my knee hollows he'd probably not even notice

ZombieKitten said:

FauxReal said:

LOL, I think the man has to initiate, or at least it would be way easier. It has to be harder for a woman to say "please hump my elbows". A man can start it off with a simple compliment directed at the body part of interest and take it to where it needs to go e.g. "You know I really love the thickness of your thighs and how smoothly and perfectly it it transitions down to your calves...it just looks so good I could fuck it".

now, how to plant that seed of an idea without saying anything

if I lubed up my knee hollows he'd probably not even notice

Put it in his head while he's sleeping. Worked for Leonardo DiCaprio.

Though I do wonder...why would a woman want that? She gets nothing from it. The guy still gets his though.

FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

now, how to plant that seed of an idea without saying anything

if I lubed up my knee hollows he'd probably not even notice

Put it in his head while he's sleeping. Worked for Leonardo DiCaprio.

Though I do wonder...why would a woman want that? She gets nothing from it. The guy still gets his though.

I would do it just for fun

you know what? apart from providing closeness and attention, a LOT of things during sex don't do much for the girl

ZombieKitten said:

FauxReal said:

Put it in his head while he's sleeping. Worked for Leonardo DiCaprio.

Though I do wonder...why would a woman want that? She gets nothing from it. The guy still gets his though.

I would do it just for fun

I suppose you don't really need much more reason than that.

ZombieKitten said:

you know what? apart from providing closeness and attention, a LOT of things during sex don't do much for the girl

Pre-game massage, penetration, cuddling...

I dunno, I think they pretty much benefit from all that. What more is there?

Ons:

- a hot mouth, like mr. zane here:

- scruff, any dude will look hotter with scruff to me.

- witty, sacastic, I love a dry sense of humour. It's very sexy to me

- I am a sucker for nerdsexy dudes, even bad boys can be really smart and like "wizards and lizards" things as I like to call it

- confidence, even cocky confidence turns me on

- eye contact when speaking...or you know...other stuff

- when he says my name when telling me something (not many people will actually say your name when talking to you)

- clean boy smell with a hint of cologne is hot

- and of course dominance and aggressiveness

- not afraid to put me in my place when I'm being a jerk = hotness

Offs:

- shyness

- passiveness and indecisiveness

- drug addition, I can deal with the occasional use of some drugs but others are major turn offs and full on addiction is gross

- I can not stand dudes that look to get in fights with other dudes when they go out, I'm sure you know the type

- jocks

- animal haters

- bad hygiene

- bad teeth

- a guy who constantly tries to treat me like some kind of queen makes me wanna hurl

- too touchy feely

- the smothering type

- intense jealousy

- I like aggressive but I hate obnoxious loudness

- being overtly religious

I know I could go on and on...

FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

you know what? apart from providing closeness and attention, a LOT of things during sex don't do much for the girl

Pre-game massage, penetration, cuddling...

I dunno, I think they pretty much benefit from all that. What more is there?

a massage would be nice, I got one once!

heybaby said:

Offs

Too serious

No motivation

pretentiousness

Critical

Obnoxious

Arrogance

Grown man doing kid things

Smothering

Intolerance

Whiners

Ons

Treats me like royalty

Anything off or quirky- my boyfriend is really rough and very masculine. Hot. But cracks me up. He has these hand gestures that are a combination of Jeff Goldblum and Kramer. He opens door knobs to public restooms with napkins he carries in his pocket. I think its hilarious and hot at the same time

Intelligence-not just book sense but street sense.

Confidence A man who don't take sh*t off nobody.

Makes me laugh

Mature but silly

Already knows what he wants. No lil boys please lol

Independent

I'm more of an "on" than an "off".

turn offs:

children

tears

needy

princess mentality

turn ons:

glasses

intelligence

slightly imperfect teeth

I can't even think of a list either way

JustErin said:

Ons:

- I am a sucker for nerdsexy dudes, even bad boys can be really smart and like "wizards and lizards" things as I like to call it

- when he says my name when telling me something (not many people will actually say your name when talking to you)

ooh. These are on my list too.

My current beau is super duper smart and he'll be telling me about some physics dealio he has been thinking/writing about and while I'm a smart girl too, at least smart enough to follow along, I usually get lost in how dreamy he sounds and he ends up stopping 'cause he thinks he's boring me. Which is never the case, I just zoned out on how hot he is.

CarrieMpls said:

JustErin said:

Ons:

- I am a sucker for nerdsexy dudes, even bad boys can be really smart and like "wizards and lizards" things as I like to call it

- when he says my name when telling me something (not many people will actually say your name when talking to you)

ooh. These are on my list too.

My current beau is super duper smart and he'll be telling me about some physics dealio he has been thinking/writing about and while I'm a smart girl too, at least smart enough to follow along, I usually get lost in how dreamy he sounds and he ends up stopping 'cause he thinks he's boring me. Which is never the case, I just zoned out on how hot he is.

Yea Guuurl!

ernestsewell said:

• Not taking care of me in bed. Men get off and that's it, they suddenly forget they have someone else there who isn't quite done yet. I've never treated a partner, whether a hookup or a lover, like that. It's almost demeaning to get off and get up n' out. If they care about me (or whoever they're with), they'll make sure we're both done. For me, my big turn on is getting someone else off anyway. I love to make a guy squirm and writhe in pleasure I'm giving him. I need that kind of lover. The men who don't do that are just not great lovers.

Too...much....info.....

Are we talking sexual turn ons or overall what we like about our partners?

whistle said:

turn offs:

children

tears

needy

princess mentality

turn ons:

glasses

intelligence

slightly imperfect teeth

smoothcriminal12 said:

ernestsewell said:

• Not taking care of me in bed. Men get off and that's it, they suddenly forget they have someone else there who isn't quite done yet. I've never treated a partner, whether a hookup or a lover, like that. It's almost demeaning to get off and get up n' out. If they care about me (or whoever they're with), they'll make sure we're both done. For me, my big turn on is getting someone else off anyway. I love to make a guy squirm and writhe in pleasure I'm giving him. I need that kind of lover. The men who don't do that are just not great lovers.

Too...much....info.....

Not really.

ernestsewell said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Too...much....info.....

Not really.

Yes really.

smoothcriminal12 said:

ernestsewell said:

Not really.

Yes really.

Get over it.

smoothcriminal12 said:

ernestsewell said:

Not really.

Yes really.

In a thread where people are talking about poking a knee, I think a line about making a guy writhe is rather tame.

ernestsewell said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

Yes really.

Get over it.

Nah B.

Dave1992 said:

whistle said:

turn offs:

children

tears

needy

princess mentality

turn ons:

glasses

intelligence

slightly imperfect teeth

i'm English, Dave. it reminds me of home.

Turn ons

Easily my biggest turn on is a genuinely good hearted person. I hate to say in my experience they are so very few and far between. Most people are selfish and only think about themselves. I simply don't understand the concept of someone being "too sweet". I mean, as long as they are a rational healthy minded human being and aren't acting the way Tame does towards Prince, it's all good.

Honest and blunt (when needed) communication.

Dark complexions = muy bueno.

Oh yeah - People who like to act and play like monsters around their son's train sets and do naughty things with each other. That is mega hot.

Turn offs

Too much make up and/or perfume - Truthfully I prefer a woman who wears absolutely no make up or perfume at all, but if she uses a little of both from time to time that's OK. Perfume in general makes me nauseated though.

Not sure I can really explain this one without going on for along time but i'll try. Cattiness - Some people call this bitchiness, but it's more than that because it's consciously being manipulative. We all get in a foul mood/bitchy from time to time, and that's OK. It's a part of life. But I know quite a few women who "act" moody sometimes specifically to get a rise out of someone. On more than one occassion I've actually been asked why I never take the bait in these situations. Easily my biggest turn off.

Cheapskates - People who try to make you pay for their shit = Huge thumbs down.

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turn on's

a bubbly personality

smile

dresses well

artistic hobbies

glasses

dark hair

wavy hair

confidence

can keep a conversation

gives good attention

likes prince music

turn off's

smoking

kid's

doesn't return calls

shallow

materialistic

gossiper

likes alot hip pop

hates Prince music

funkycat00 said:

turn on's

a bubbly personality

smile

dresses well

artistic hobbies

glasses

dark hair

wavy hair

confidence

can keep a conversation

gives good attention

likes prince music

turn off's

smoking

kid's

doesn't return calls

shallow

materialistic

gossiper

likes alot hip pop

hates Prince music

This ties in immensely with my catty post. I just loathe phony people.