IstenSzek said:

Awww...U got me thinking great thoughts now, which I know probably aint gonna happen.

I hate dat. :p

Im not sure if I'd go...or at least if I did I wouldnt speak 2 any1, I'd just sit around and see if any1 recognises me.

Or maybe I'll just go 2 see how quickly U get annoyed by any unappropriate extroversion.

Is everything ok with U dude? U seem so distant when U post, it seems like uve been hurt deep or something.

Have U changed? Cuz I swear U werent always like this.

SexLovely said:

Isten Csek has not been the same since he could not come to my birthday bash...

gooeythehamster said:

I see...awww...

At least he got a fucking invite...

SexLovely said:

Haha. That's evil. But I don't think it would annoy me at
a Prince get2gether since it's pretty much impossible to
stand out at one of those, especially once the alcohol is
flowing and the dj cracks in DMSR.



Who, me? Hmm, perhaps. But as far as I can remember, I
have always been like this. I'm always distant. At times
it's less and other times it borders on authism.

But no, I've never been hurt so deep that it would change
me in such a way. It's just my dysfunctional nature and my
inability to establish any kind of normal relationship.

I need space. Lots of it, all the time.

SexLovely said:

Don't cry. You might not have gotten an invite, but look
at how he spelled my name!

Tsk.I am NOT ammused.

IstenSzek said:

...Ok ISTENSZEK, im trying 2 understand.

I can relate 2 you're mental dysfunctional characteristics tho...special on not being able 2 have proper relationships.

Ive always wondered why Ive never had a best friend, never had any real close friends and never seem 2 keep a friend for more than a year...

But this personality test I took the other day said that my narcissism seems 2 only let me make a good first impression on the ppl I meet, but restricts me from having any lasting effect and therefore very unlikly 2 have a long term relationship with any1......or anything...not even a toothbrush.

Its quite deppressing.

[This message was edited Tue Jan 28 2:36:00 PST 2003 by SexLovely]

SexLovely said:

You CAN come (he) if you happen to be in Amsterdam on the 8th of February...
You will not leave the same man you were before...

IstenSzek said:

Get a NORMAL name, like GOOEY.
HA!
And I like your REAL name better.

dance dance dance hug drink chat laugh dance dance dance sit drink chat hug hug dance drink dance sit dance dance sit sit talk talk talk hug hug hug dance dance laugh drink- from-friends-drinks dance with friends dance with strangers/new friends dance drink talk hug thank-the-staff hug leave

has to be Prince music and, of course, Mary J Blige -- i can dance hour after hour to Prince music - it's so danceable

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Removing the edit
[This message was edited Tue Jan 28 3:27:41 PST 2003 by theC]

SexLovely said:

Well, in fact I've had quite a few real good friends through
the years, and two of these friendships lasted more than 6
years. I'm quite easy to get on with and make friends very
quickly. But the main problem is keeping that friendship up
and that's where I [deliberately] fuck up. I feel like I'm
getting enough off of the few [very good and regular]
friends I've got so I don't feel the need to acquire new
ones. I like to meet people and get to know new folks, but
I'm just always affraid of letting it get to intense or
time-consuming. So that's why I usually keep a bit of a
distance. Only to regret it later on and think "Oh fuck ,
they were really nice, why the hell did I not let them get
any closer?" And consequently push any other new people
away as well, thinking "but this really isn't working, this
really isn't cool". It's a loop. A messed up loop hahaha.

We call that "contact-gestoord" where I come from.

I'm acting like an old fart again. sorry.






[This message was edited Tue Jan 28 5:16:50 PST 2003 by IstenSzek]

gooeythehamster said:

Yeah, but have you ever heard an American pronounce "Lars"
Somehow the phonetics aren't quite cool on that one

I don't really dance much because in Bangkok the music is usually pop stuff that just doesn't make me want to move. So I tend to be a sitter, remaining in the same place for most of the night, watching everything around me (which in Bangkok is usually very interesting), while my wife dances away to her heart's content.

However, there is one bar that plays James Brown and Ben Harper and some cool music so occasionally something will come on and I'll feel so damn happy to hear it in a bar that there's just no stopping me!


Generally though, a sitter.

sawatdiikhrap said:

BEN HARPER IS ALWAYS COOL, WETHER 4 DANCING OR SITTING!!!

OceanaOne said:

NO I do not dance with my drink in my hands and spill it all over...obviously this assenine post proves that you do not know shit!!! See I know your type dumb and judgemental. Word to the wise do not stereotype and judge a person until you truly know them or how they act...Ok Sybill.

Jess (MBGITW) knows how to work it! And no, she's NOT obnoxious.

Moonbeam said:

If she wants me to be I am sure I can be...bitch mode here I come

as a matter of fact I do dance when I go clubbing, yes...all of the times that I do go clubbing I'm just there to be on the dance floor for some time, and I enjoy it very much ...music is what clubbing is all about for me...I would appreciate the times when I'm there at a club with friends for dancing and drinks too tho.

u have to physically tear me away from the dance floor...unless of course the song playing is shit and the DJ sucks...
otherwise...
HELL yes!!!