so we all have our moments and some of us are a good combo of both these elements..

but would you say your more passive or agressive?

and are you more affectionate or are you more evasive?

-for the most part i would say im very much a passive person ( im such a mellow carefree spirit) i dont sweat the small stuff in life... for me being passive is a wonderful thing *although i have had my moments where i feel like people want to take advantage of that...

-im definately a very affectionate person... because my mom was such a nurturer i couldnt imagine not showing others through words and actions how i feel about them

life for me without being able to share a hug, kiss , or just greet people with words of thought would absolutly crush me...

so tell me how do you feel / portray yourself?

affectionate to the nines...

I love showing my affection to my wife & kids but ironically I sometimes feel I have to temper that so it doesn't come across as overbearing or simpish.

I feel it helps in my sales background that I genuinely enjoy people (at least until I get to know them... ) so it's natural for me...

Depends on the situation.

I'm affectionate with my kids, but otherwise not very

I'm pretty passive, although it's impossible to make me do anything I don't want to do, and if I want to do something, it's difficult to stop me

i'm generally passive and affectionate, although I'm starting to be taken advantage of by some people for that so i'm trying to change it.

HamsterHuey said:

Depends on the situation.

Same.

At work I'm probably on the agressive side. But a nice balance in between when away from there.

I'm not all that affectinate for the most part with most people, but I can be if you're the right person.

So there are two separate questions here? Passive vs aggressive and affectionate vs evasive?

I wouldn't say I'm "aggressive". That sounds too negative. I'm definitely not passive though, so can I call it being "active" or "forward" or something like that?

As for affectionate vs evasive, I'm definitely very affectionate (with people I care about of course but that should go without saying; it's not like I go around hugging random strangers).

Depends on what time of the month it is!

Normally im very loving, until someone irratates me!

I'm very affectionate a lil aggressive and strong-minded. But I a0lways get good responses from people. If I go to the mall I always get recognized even if I forgot who they are (partially due to my disability mostly me) and if they just met me they act like they know me for years. I love people and get along with (almost) everybody. So I'm very present everywhere.

Passive - depends on the situation

Affectionate - only with family and close friends. I'm very cold toward strangers.

uPtoWnNY said:

Passive - depends on the situation

Affectionate - only with family and close friends. I'm very cold toward strangers.

Aggressive

Affectionate - to those I know very well

Agressive and afectionate,

Agressive and affectionate

BUT it really depends on the situation ~ everyone is a bit of everything depoending on that !

I'm a lover, not a fighter.....but I can fight too. So don't get any ideas!

I'm not very passive.

I am affectionate with people, physically and otherwise, in my daily life. I'm one to feel a girl's boobies a lot.

However, I don't think affectionate and passive are opposites per se, either.

ernestsewell said:

I'm not very passive.

I am affectionate with people, physically and otherwise, in my daily life. I'm one to feel a girl's boobies a lot.

However, I don't think affectionate and passive are opposites per se, either.

I never knew that

Learned something new about you.

luv4u said:

ernestsewell said:

I'm not very passive.

I am affectionate with people, physically and otherwise, in my daily life. I'm one to feel a girl's boobies a lot.

However, I don't think affectionate and passive are opposites per se, either.

I never knew that

Learned something new about you.

You never asked. But yeah, I'm a titty cupper.

aggressive affection

I am a bit too passive

ernestsewell said:

I'm not very passive.

I am affectionate with people, physically and otherwise, in my daily life. I'm one to feel a girl's boobies a lot.

However, I don't think affectionate and passive are opposites per se, either.

I wish straight guys could get away with that. How cool would it be if copping a feel replaced handshakes?!

xpertluva said:

ernestsewell said:

I'm not very passive.

I am affectionate with people, physically and otherwise, in my daily life. I'm one to feel a girl's boobies a lot.

However, I don't think affectionate and passive are opposites per se, either.

I wish straight guys could get away with that. How cool would it be if copping a feel replaced handshakes?!

I wouldn't object 2 that greeting from u....

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

xpertluva said:

I wish straight guys could get away with that. How cool would it be if copping a feel replaced handshakes?!

I wouldn't object 2 that greeting from u....

Well in that case, when can we meet?

Very affectionate.

And definitely more aggressive than passive.

I love to kiss, hug and punch everyone!

xpertluva said:

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

I wouldn't object 2 that greeting from u....

Well in that case, when can we meet?

when r u free?

[Edited 8/5/10 20:13pm]

Depends, I can't strictly define myself.

I feel affection very easily, but i always gaffe when i try to return it? ..

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

xpertluva said:

Well in that case, when can we meet?

when r u free?

[Edited 8/5/10 20:13pm]

For you, anytime.

PunkMistress said:

Very affectionate.

And definitely more aggressive than passive.

I love to kiss, hug and punch everyone!

no affection at all. i'm like a mannequin.