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PrintableAzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
 Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few.  I didn't see that one coming.  | |
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Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. 
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Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. Well, it's the truth. Sure I can look at a person and say whether or not they are physically attractive to me, but I really don't pay much attention to how people look. I go by their heart, their mind and their personality. A good personality will make anyone attractive, I think. Those attractive people with the hot bodies and the beautiful face will eventually lose that...and when they do, what will you be left with? Hopefully there is something else that they possess that attracted you to them in the first place, other than the physical. There has to be something more. | |
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DigitalLisa said: Can men and women truly ever be just friends ??
unfortunatly yes | |
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YES and err NO | |
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Muse2noPharaoh said: YES and err NO
u remain confused | |
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without doubt! ... i have many wonderful friends of the opposite sex
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AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. Well, it's the truth. Sure I can look at a person and say whether or not they are physically attractive to me, but I really don't pay much attention to how people look. I go by their heart, their mind and their personality. A good personality will make anyone attractive, I think. Those attractive people with the hot bodies and the beautiful face will eventually lose that...and when they do, what will you be left with? Hopefully there is something else that they possess that attracted you to them in the first place, other than the physical. There has to be something more. But, I thought we were talking about friendship here. What I'm hearing is that you say you aren't concerned with looks, initially or after, and that because their personality is great, you would find them even more attractive. So the question is, would you be able to remain just good friends with any guy whose face looks like the hairy backside of a rhinoceraus, even if their personality dazzles you? | |
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Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. Well, it's the truth. Sure I can look at a person and say whether or not they are physically attractive to me, but I really don't pay much attention to how people look. I go by their heart, their mind and their personality. A good personality will make anyone attractive, I think. Those attractive people with the hot bodies and the beautiful face will eventually lose that...and when they do, what will you be left with? Hopefully there is something else that they possess that attracted you to them in the first place, other than the physical. There has to be something more. But, I thought we were talking about friendship here. What I'm hearing is that you say you aren't concerned with looks, initially or after, and that because their personality is great, you would find them even more attractive. So the question is, would you be able to remain just good friends with any guy whose face looks like the hairy backside of a rhinoceraus, even if their personality dazzles you? We are talking about friendship... I went on about both because of my comment about dating those who most would not find attractive. You would be hearing me correctly. I am not concerned with looks, but I do find intelligence and a fantastic personality extremely attractive. Would I be able to remain just good friends with a guy whose face looked like that if they had an amazing personality? Yes. I do it all the time.
Now, let's get back to finding out if you are shallow or not.
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AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. Well, it's the truth. Sure I can look at a person and say whether or not they are physically attractive to me, but I really don't pay much attention to how people look. I go by their heart, their mind and their personality. A good personality will make anyone attractive, I think. Those attractive people with the hot bodies and the beautiful face will eventually lose that...and when they do, what will you be left with? Hopefully there is something else that they possess that attracted you to them in the first place, other than the physical. There has to be something more. But, I thought we were talking about friendship here. What I'm hearing is that you say you aren't concerned with looks, initially or after, and that because their personality is great, you would find them even more attractive. So the question is, would you be able to remain just good friends with any guy whose face looks like the hairy backside of a rhinoceraus, even if their personality dazzles you? We are talking about friendship... I went on about both because of my comment about dating those who most would not find attractive. You would be hearing me correctly. I am not concerned with looks, but I do find intelligence and a fantastic personality extremely attractive. Would I be able to remain just good friends with a guy whose face looked like that if they had an amazing personality? Yes. I do it all the time.
Now, let's get back to finding out if you are shallow or not.
Would you be friends with a woman who was not attractive at all? I have never found myself in that situation but I wouldn't ruled it out. Things just haven't worked that way. It's out of my hands.
Like you say, when you become friends with someone their personality makes then even more attractive. Still, hairy backside of a rhinoceraus?? I maybe shallow but you are sick.  | |
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Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: AzureStar said: Anji said: Can this question really be answered if we don't know whether the guy and girl are physically attracted to one another?
Hmmm... if you were physically attracted to your female friend would you be able to be her friend... JUST friends, or would that be difficult for you to do? Well, I have always found my girl friends have come about because we have found each other physically attractive. We'll tend to remain friends for as long as we can make each other laugh despite whatever's happening around us. I have never had any issues with being friends with any girl that I have found attractive, so long as they are worth being friends with. So you are saying that you haven't been friends with a woman that you don't find physically attractive? I agree with your last statement... and that goes for men and women for me. I don't think I have ever been really close friends with any girl that I haven't found pretty initially. Like I said, we will only continue to be friends, if she's worth being friends with Have you ever been friends with any guy whose face looked like the hairy backside of a rhinocerous? Yes, and I've even dated a few. I didn't see that one coming. Well, it's the truth. Sure I can look at a person and say whether or not they are physically attractive to me, but I really don't pay much attention to how people look. I go by their heart, their mind and their personality. A good personality will make anyone attractive, I think. Those attractive people with the hot bodies and the beautiful face will eventually lose that...and when they do, what will you be left with? Hopefully there is something else that they possess that attracted you to them in the first place, other than the physical. There has to be something more. But, I thought we were talking about friendship here. What I'm hearing is that you say you aren't concerned with looks, initially or after, and that because their personality is great, you would find them even more attractive. So the question is, would you be able to remain just good friends with any guy whose face looks like the hairy backside of a rhinoceraus, even if their personality dazzles you? We are talking about friendship... I went on about both because of my comment about dating those who most would not find attractive. You would be hearing me correctly. I am not concerned with looks, but I do find intelligence and a fantastic personality extremely attractive. Would I be able to remain just good friends with a guy whose face looked like that if they had an amazing personality? Yes. I do it all the time.
Now, let's get back to finding out if you are shallow or not.
Would you be friends with a woman who was not attractive at all? I have never found myself in that situation but I wouldn't ruled it out. Things just haven't worked that way. It's out of my hands.
Like you say, when you become friends with someone their personality makes then even more attractive. Still, hairy backside of a rhinoceraus?? I maybe shallow but you are sick. lol... perhaps I am.
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AzureStar said:
Anji said:
I maybe shallow but you are sick. lol... perhaps I am.
Shaaa-looow. [/quote]
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Anji said: AzureStar said:
Anji said:
I maybe shallow but you are sick. lol... perhaps I am.
Shaaa-looow. Stop talking to yourself [/quote]
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The can be friends yes. But there's always at least a very tiny amount of sexual tention. _______________________________
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