johnart said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

I want some friend chicken, mashed potatoes, and a glass of milk.

And some pretzels.

And ZaZa, what Jason said in the firs tpost.

In combination with what RenHoek said. But maybe not hookers. Sluts will do.

HamsterHuey said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

I want some friend chicken, mashed potatoes, and a glass of milk.

And some pretzels.

And ZaZa, what Jason said in the firs tpost.

In combination with what RenHoek said. But maybe not hookers. Sluts will do.

Have a t-shirt printed with this on the front. For nights out.

johnart said:

DISCLAIMER: You're probably not gonna like my thoughts/approach on this as much as some of the mushier ones.

When you say that you say:

She has another boyfriend, but I can feel she still share some feelings to me, but it's like she doesn't want to show them, because she would feel guilty too.

Unless she is outright saying this to you (in which case it's silly for both of you to remain with other people) that sounds more like you are wishing that she does. Thinking that gives you a thread of hope and justification for continuing to carry a torch for her even if she has or is moving on.

I have even her picture in my wallet

If you have a new girlfriend that is disrespectful to her IMO. I'm not sayng throw her picture out if you don't want to, but you need to put on your Big Boy Pannies and at least put it away with the things you are saving. I can't imagine that it would feel nice for anyone to know that their bf/gf/partner carrying a pic of their ex everywhere they go.

And don't say "Zaza, it's your first year without her! It will be alright after few years."

Fine, I wont.

OK, I lied...but only because it will (if you let it).

People carry on after the death of parents, children and spouses they spent a lifetime with.

Believe me, it will get better. "Getting Over" doesn't always mean "forgetting" it just means you will get to a place in your life where the memory won't be nearly as painful or cloud any of the wonderful things going on in you current life.

[Edited 7/27/10 7:37am]

Amen!!!!

*Miguelhashischurchhaton*

Of course the harder you try to forget (or at least that's what you say/think you're doing) the more she's in your thoughts. You seem to be focused on her. Especially as your mind is creating some silly rules how now she should be forgotten. It doesn't work that way!

And it's okay to remember things, but you can only find happiness right now. Certainly not in the past, where you seem to be.

Accept that you think of her, it's all there so that you can grow and change. Trust me and, like Dave said - chill.

[Edited 7/29/10 8:12am]