I've lost a friend to senseless violence. So heartbreaking! What a stupid piece of shit. The bitch that took my friend's life got the death penalty.

But it doesn't bring them back. I'm so sorry!!

DanceWme said:

Nothing in this world is promised. And it can all be gone in seconds.

so true

Steph, I don't even have words for how foul and how muh of a pussy that dude was/is. They need to find him grease him up and throw him to the dogs in jail. I don't know how you feel but I know that it is a horrible tragedy. Stay strong sweety, much love.

DanceWme said:

I just wanna hug u all

DanceWme said:

Lammastide said:

This is the single worst thing I've read in a long time. My deepest sympathies go out to you. How's Pepa? She must also be a mess.

[Edited 7/7/10 11:56am]

She's doing ok.

I think shes kind of blaming herself. She told me if she'd known this would happen she would have never told Drew what the guy did.

I'm trying to tell her its not her fault but shes really not trying to hear that right now.

I figured as much. What a horrible place to be. Please do take care of yourselves. I'm so sorry.

that´s just so terribly shocking and sad. witnessing the death of a friend, i just can´t even imagine how you must feel right now. i am so sorry. I wish you lots of strength

Oh man, Rip to your friend of 20 yrs. I can't imagine what you are going through, I'm sorry.

I feel your pain......and stay strong

Tragic. My thoughts are with you.

Oh my God Steph! That sounds terrifying!

My thoughts and prays are with you and Drew's family...That is a scary situation, and far too often we don't really appreciate the frailty of human life.

Keep your head up girlfiend, I'll be thinking about you

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

I think it's beautiful that you decided to sing, and to make it a song that was special for both of you.

You'll get through this, mama. It will change you, but it will not break you.

I wish I could give you a hug in person.

PunkMistress said:

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

I think it's beautiful that you decided to sing, and to make it a song that was special for both of you.

You'll get through this, mama. It will change you, but it will not break you.

I wish I could give you a hug in person.

I cried when I read you are singing Steph. Mistress is right, you will change from this experience but you will become a deeper more loving person. That's your nature Sending you so much love and light.

How horrible and senseless.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

PunkMistress said:

I think it's beautiful that you decided to sing, and to make it a song that was special for both of you.

You'll get through this, mama. It will change you, but it will not break you.

I wish I could give you a hug in person.

I cried when I read you are singing Steph. Mistress is right, you will change from this experience but you will become a deeper more loving person. That's your nature Sending you so much love and light.

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

it's wonderful that you will sing!

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

I am so very sorry and I can hardly imagine how you must feel . You have such a beautiful voice, I am sure it will be very emotional when you will sing. May I ask where in Trinidad he will be buried?

PunkMistress said:

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

I think it's beautiful that you decided to sing, and to make it a song that was special for both of you.

You'll get through this, mama. It will change you, but it will not break you.

I wish I could give you a hug in person.

I just have to ask.

Im having a hard time understanding how this will change me. My mom said the same thing.
I understand what u mean because it was a terrible situation but how will it change me?

sorry if this sounds dumb.

Serious said:

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

I am so very sorry and I can hardly imagine how you must feel . You have such a beautiful voice, I am sure it will be very emotional when you will sing. May I ask where in Trinidad he will be buried?

Thank u

She will be sending him to Gasparillo, Trinidad.

DanceWme said:

Serious said:

I am so very sorry and I can hardly imagine how you must feel . You have such a beautiful voice, I am sure it will be very emotional when you will sing. May I ask where in Trinidad he will be buried?

Thank u

She will be sending him to Gasparillo, Trinidad.

I have never been to Gasparillo, but Trinidad is beautiful place to be sent to, especially as it is next to his mother. But it must be so hard for his sister to do that .

Thank you mods for making this a sticky

Serious said:

DanceWme said:

Thank u

She will be sending him to Gasparillo, Trinidad.

I have never been to Gasparillo, but Trinidad is beautiful place to be sent to, especially as it is next to his mother. But it must be so hard for his sister to do that .

His sister is taking it the worst.

All they had was each other. When we were in 5th grade his mother died so his sister took him and raised him. I cant imagine what shes going through.

DanceWme said:

Serious said:

I have never been to Gasparillo, but Trinidad is beautiful place to be sent to, especially as it is next to his mother. But it must be so hard for his sister to do that .

His sister is taking it the worst.

All they had was each other. When we were in 5th grade his mother died so his sister took him and raised him. I cant imagine what shes going through.

So very sad .

DanceWme said:

Well the funeral will be Saturday morning. I decided to sing one of our favorite songs at his funeral. Then his sister is flying his body out to Trinidad to be buried next to their mother. He would've been 25 on July 29th. I just want to Thank everyone again for ur kind words, thoughts, and prayers. It helps.

Wait...is he the guy you posted a picture of here one time?

Jesus Christ, I'm so sorry.

Sorry that your friend lost his life for being nothing less than honorable.

Sorry that you had to experience something so unfathomable to most of us.

And sorry that you and your friend were victimized by a person who has a lack of respect for life.