U guys are awesome.

It feels real good to know that I can talk to u. So again, thanks.

DanceWme said:

heybaby said:

The only thing you can do is just talk. Surround yourself with people who love you and who are open to your words, rants and tears. It won't make it go away but it will give some sort of sanity out of chaos.

I appreaciate that. Thank u!

Agreed. Being able to process and let go of the grief will help. Don't hold things in.

Lammastide said:

This is the single worst thing I've read in a long time. My deepest sympathies go out to you. How's Pepa? She must also be a mess.

[Edited 7/7/10 11:56am]

She's doing ok.

I think shes kind of blaming herself. She told me if she'd known this would happen she would have never told Drew what the guy did.

I'm trying to tell her its not her fault but shes really not trying to hear that right now.

big hugs your way Steph.

I'm so sorry.

Nothing good happens after midnight.

DanceWme said:

Lammastide said:

This is the single worst thing I've read in a long time. My deepest sympathies go out to you. How's Pepa? She must also be a mess.

[Edited 7/7/10 11:56am]

She's doing ok.

I think shes kind of blaming herself. She told me if she'd known this would happen she would have never told Drew what the guy did.

I'm trying to tell her its not her fault but shes really not trying to hear that right now.

This guy is completely out of control beating up women and killing men. He was a timebomb waiting to go off and she can't blame herself for his lunacy. She was right to say something and she couldn't have known this would have happened. I pray for her that she can move forward.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

DanceWme said:

She's doing ok.

I think shes kind of blaming herself. She told me if she'd known this would happen she would have never told Drew what the guy did.

I'm trying to tell her its not her fault but shes really not trying to hear that right now.

This guy is completely out of control beating up women and killing men. He was a timebomb waiting to go off and she can't blame herself for his lunacy. She was right to say something and she couldn't have known this would have happened. I pray for her that she can move forward.

Weird thing about it is that nobody knows who this guy is. Nobody knows how he got into the party.

Its crazy.

DanceWme said:

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

This guy is completely out of control beating up women and killing men. He was a timebomb waiting to go off and she can't blame herself for his lunacy. She was right to say something and she couldn't have known this would have happened. I pray for her that she can move forward.

Weird thing about it is that nobody knows who this guy is. Nobody knows how he got into the party.

Its crazy.

Wow...I was just thinking that. Who knew him?

This is so sad

Oh my!

You will be in my prayers.

OH NO Steph! That's horrible. Wow..... speechless

If you wanna vent talk you know how to contact me feel free to, shit....thats horrible.my prayers are with everyone (

This will leave your heart scarred for life! I just want to you and My prayers are with you and the family and friends of your dearly departed!

So dumb. So sorry you or anyone has to experience something like that.

OMG. I'm so sorry to hear that!

OMG!!!! I started crying reading this. Steph if you need anything you let me know! I am thinking of you and your friend's family!

So sorry to hear you lost a good friend, in such terrible circumstances.

DanceWme said:

Lammastide said:

This is the single worst thing I've read in a long time. My deepest sympathies go out to you. How's Pepa? She must also be a mess.

[Edited 7/7/10 11:56am]

She's doing ok.

I think shes kind of blaming herself. She told me if she'd known this would happen she would have never told Drew what the guy did.

I'm trying to tell her its not her fault but shes really not trying to hear that right now.

I can understand that. But who would ever think telling your cousin that some asshole slapped you would lead to that?? I hope she finds some way to heal and let go of that guilt.

I am so, so sorry, Steph. My heart dropped when I read the story.

I am so sorry Noone should EVER have to go through that

I'm so sorry for your loss, and for Drew's family. You are all in my prayers.

I'm so very, very sorry.

That fucking sucks. I'm so heartbroken for you. I'll say a prayer in the hopes that God will comfort you and provide you with some peace in this horribly tragic time.

Sigh. It's just horrible.

i cried when i read what happened, i'm so sorry! if you need to talk or anything i'm here

I don't even know what to say about somthing like that other than I am very sorry!

Wow, I can't imagine how going through this kind of experience must have felt for you.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I don't know you or your friend that passed, but reading this story and visualizing what you just went through got me choked up. I simply can't imagine having to witness something like that happening to anyone, much less a close friend.

I am so, so sorry for your loss.

I know it's no consolation, but at least the absolute shithead that killed your friend only took one life before they caught him.

OMFG that is shocking. I was

My sympathies to you

I'm sorry you, your friends, and families are forced to go through something so horrible...I'm not sure what more to say.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Oh my God, Steph I am so sorry this happened to you and your friends. I can't truly imagine how you must feel right now. I will keep you and your friend's family in my thoughts

that is horrifying beyond belief. i have no words....

I just wanna hug u all