Question of the day.
Wife Material


A question to all the guys and girls too,Just exactly what is wife material? Every time I date a guy, we can hit it off really good, but whenever it comes to the question of relationship, I always get "Your cool in all, but I see you more as wife material". I mean I gotta admit, Whenever a guy says that I'm wife material I often don't know how to take this.Are they words of flattery or are you trying to let me down in a nice way, or you just don't want to be bothered with a real relationship? It's quit confusing to me, I need you guys to clear this statment out ...

That might mean he doesn't find you shagable.

Anji said:

DigitalLisa said:

Wife material means no fat and no stretch marks

DigitalLisa said:

I'd NEVER say that to a date.Unless i was trying to scare them off, even then, i probably wouldn't cause it's a really bad line.Designed to confuse.

A guy doesn't want a longtermer if he resorts to saying stuff like that (early in a relationship), trust me, get rid.

DigitalLisa said:

Well, there are a couple of different ways you could take this, but I'd prefer to see it as that you are a girl of substance. You have character and integrity and you're not the type these guys can just 'hang' with and not call the next day.
I would take it as a compliment and maybe try to go out with more mature guys.

applekisses said:

and she could always ask "what do you mean exactly?"

Wouldn't hurt.

DigitalLisa said:

I would say that he thinks that you are a nice person and that he thinks that you won't be a "fuck buddy" or something.

Wife material is not something a "player" is looking for.

Maybe you are dating the wrong guys.

I always ask but never get a straight answer

IceNine said:

You know Icenine you make alot sense... sometimes
[This message was edited Fri Jan 24 14:10:41 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

I make a lot of sense when I need to.

Thanks!

DigitalLisa said:

It means that you're not the type of girl for a flirt, but one for a serious relationship.
It means that the guy is not ready for commitment, and he doesn't want to hurt you by ending it after he had his fun.

Actually what Ice said is exacty what those guys mean.

You must got what it takes then.
Just offering it to the wrong guys.

You need to find some husband material.

it's because they respect you too much Lisa...may i suggest the next time one of these insensitive bastards says something like that...you firmly grab hold of their crotch and lick their eyeball

IceNine said:

Yes. I would take it as, "You're too nice, I'll just fuck you over. Get out while you can!"