DesireeNevermind said:

JoeTyler said:

twisting a knife through the thigh of a shit dude is fun specially with those high screams

[Edited 6/25/10 9:33am]

Fuck a knife in the thigh. I would cut off his left nut while he slept.

ouch...

paintedlady said:

Come to think of it... this would work great with abusive lovers.

The father of my eldest child was a total selfish asshole, he would force himself on me from time to time. Even if I begged him not to, one time I was bawling in tears begging him to stop since I just had our son 2 weeks prior. I was still healing from my episiotomy , the stitches were running front to back.

He didn't care, he needed sex, I was "his" girl. He choked me until I opened my legs, blood was pouring out of me. After, he cried and begged for forgiveness, but that he " couldn't help himself since he loved me so much". Asshole.

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

paintedlady said:

JoeTyler said:

Let's see:

a) we're talking about rapists all over the world, they don't "normally" carry guns (specially outside the US); they usually try to overpower their victims with their bare hands or with a knife...

b) "the quickest thing you can do is run" is obviously the first choice , but in case the victim cannot escape, the next action must be to use the stun gun - or the knife- in a potentially painful and strategic place (genitalia, legs, neck, eyes, etc.); anyway, to be UNARMED is the stupidest thing possible...

c) even better if the victim knows the basic moves of aikido or other extremely defensive form of martial marts...martial arts are funny, healthy and useful...

d) every woman/girl around the world should know that, sadly, they're all a potential victim for rapists; it still floors me when some people (women, female teens or whatever) think that they'll never be raped,... you know, the "that won't happen to me... " We all have to be ready to defense ourselves when it comes to rape, specially female teens (young children are supposed to be protected by their parents 24/7...)

e) never trust a stranger, even if you have been talking to him for hours...

[Edited 6/25/10 3:32am]

When I was younger , I often worked late and on my way home I usually walked with a knife out openly (a hunting blade like the one pictured ). I wore sneakers I could run in and never had earphones in my ear, I always looked alert and was very aware of my surroundings.

One night, I was almost attacked from behind, he ran up on me but when he saw the knife in plain view and I looked like WTF, then he said "Oh um... hi." turned right around and jogged back to where he came from, just like that. It was weird.

This dude ran up on me by some bushes, I heard him running up on me at the last minute but I couldn't outrun him. So I decided to walk very fast but I gripped the knife hard and had it ready to swing. He was bigger than me and would have over powered me if it were not for me walking with a damn knife out in the open like a crazy woman.

But it worked, THANK GOD ...as a deterrent and I didn't have to use it. He just saw it and that was it, he didn't want to chance getting stabbed. So yes, I will teach my daughter (like I taught my son) to do the same when they find themselves in a vulnerable position. BTW... I try my best not to be in those situations now since rape is escalating in my area.

My postion, I rather go down fighting. Its bad enough when men you know force sex on you (this has happened to me on more than one occassion) , never mind a total stranger.

In Chicago I always carry a box cutter and a switchblade.

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

Come to think of it... this would work great with abusive lovers.

The father of my eldest child was a total selfish asshole, he would force himself on me from time to time. Even if I begged him not to, one time I was bawling in tears begging him to stop since I just had our son 2 weeks prior. I was still healing from my episiotomy , the stitches were running front to back.

He didn't care, he needed sex, I was "his" girl. He choked me until I opened my legs, blood was pouring out of me. After, he cried and begged for forgiveness, but that he " couldn't help himself since he loved me so much". Asshole.

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

seriously, wtf is wrong with some men????

JoeTyler said:

noimageatall said:

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

seriously, wtf is wrong with some men????

A question that will never be answered...

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

Come to think of it... this would work great with abusive lovers.

The father of my eldest child was a total selfish asshole, he would force himself on me from time to time. Even if I begged him not to, one time I was bawling in tears begging him to stop since I just had our son 2 weeks prior. I was still healing from my episiotomy , the stitches were running front to back.

He didn't care, he needed sex, I was "his" girl. He choked me until I opened my legs, blood was pouring out of me. After, he cried and begged for forgiveness, but that he " couldn't help himself since he loved me so much". Asshole.

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

Et tu noimmy?

My goodness. Is it that hard for a dude to wait just over a month while his woman heals from birthing his child?

I guess when you see those families that have kids who are a year or less apart in age...it's safe to assume hubby jumped on his wife before she had a chance to recover from the previous birth. You would think they'd settle for a blowjob.

DesireeNevermind said:

noimageatall said:

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

Et tu noimmy?

My goodness. Is it that hard for a dude to wait just over a month while his woman heals from birthing his child?

I guess when you see those families that have kids who are a year or less apart in age...it's safe to assume hubby jumped on his wife before she had a chance to recover from the previous birth. You would think they'd settle for a blowjob.

that's why I made "the wtf is wrong with some men" question before ... hell, I even prefer a blowjob/extended foreplay than a predictable coitus...but NOOOO, some men just have to stick their gun in a hole, otherwise they are not happy...

DesireeNevermind said:

noimageatall said:

My husband did this to me right after I had our son. Of course back then there was nothing I could do. I was dependent on him for everything. Even the elders I went to for help told me I had to give him his "due." But I'm happy about it because it taught me never to be dependent on any man...only myself.

Et tu noimmy?

My goodness. Is it that hard for a dude to wait just over a month while his woman heals from birthing his child?

I guess when you see those families that have kids who are a year or less apart in age...it's safe to assume hubby jumped on his wife before she had a chance to recover from the previous birth. You would think they'd settle for a blowjob.

Well, our religion didn't allow blow jobs, so that was not an option. Better to rape your wife, ya know...than to commit the horrible sin of oral sex.

I thank Prince for waking me up...but that was before.

noimageatall said:

DesireeNevermind said:

Et tu noimmy?

My goodness. Is it that hard for a dude to wait just over a month while his woman heals from birthing his child?

I guess when you see those families that have kids who are a year or less apart in age...it's safe to assume hubby jumped on his wife before she had a chance to recover from the previous birth. You would think they'd settle for a blowjob.

Well, our religion didn't allow blow jobs, so that was not an option. Better to rape your wife, ya know...than to commit the horrible sin of oral sex.

I thank Prince for waking me up...but that was before.

Culturally some men are taught to treat women as property as well. This was my case, and I was only 19 and so ignorant. I didn't stand up for myself and allowed foolishness from the guy who empregnated me, all in the name of "love".

I grew up in domestic violence and began to repeat the pattern of sporting bruised skin like my mother did. I woke up! Now, I broke that cycle and teach my children the warning signs of abusive partners.

Men can also be abused and raped also in their same sex relationships... this condom may be handy for more than just women.

Yes, it must be aweful to have to think...humm before I go to the market, let me insert my "teeth condom". But you know what, I have heard for many many years how high the rape rate in South Africa is. If reportedly over 20% of men admit raping a women in the last year..then HELL YEAH that device not only makes sense, but should at least be in the purse of every women, whether they use it or not. Heck you might have to quickly slip behind a building and slip it in before you walk past some thugs.

I hope that device not only works but permanently damages the weiners of those rapist. I personally think that rape is akin to murder because it murders the spirit of the victims. So if that meant that I could possibly "further anger" the rapist because now porcupine prongs are now in his penis, then I'd just take my chances with what I had to face from the perp after that. Likely he will only be able to yell and scream. He would probaby then grab towards his penis and that's when I would hit his ass with a couple of eyeballs full of mace. The Punks. Hopefully this will lead to them getting incarcerated, and let them experience rape for a few years.

Shyra said:

I don't think it's intended for round-the-clock use. I can see it being used when a woman will be exposed to danger like walking alone at night or on a date with a new man or just hanging at the club where you might end up in a "situation." The woman has to use common sense. And yes, it could backfire if the guy is in pain, but I would think that would give a woman a few extra seconds to get her shit together and run or to give two good spike heel thrusts to his eyeballs...Yeah, I know that sounds like overkill, but if a man is abusing me, I'd want to maim his ass for fuggin LIFE!

Reminds me of an incident that happended near where I work. A nurse was going to her car after he shift ended and she was attacked by a man intent on assaulting her. Well, she gave him two good swift, hard thrusts to the scrotum and ruptured it. Bastid turned around and tried to sue her! Sheeyit! Judge should have given her a key to the city!

[Edited 6/21/10 11:09am]

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa! Nothing like walking back through that very parking lot back to the hospital with a ruptured scrotum and then trying to seek medical care from that nurse's peers. Priceless!

Dauphin said:

If I'm criminal enough to be a rapist, and my cock is hurt because of this... the woman will not live.

If I'm criminal enough to be a rapist, and I know this thing is out there... I will be checking with fingers or anything else I have available.

Personally, I applaud the invention to combat a horrible problem. I just think the repurcussions would be more severe against the WOMAN.

And I'm sorry that I don't have a better soution. I wish I did.

To some women, that would not matter. At least you would have a limp dick from that day forward, and you could presumably never do that again to another woman. Perhaps one life is worth the lives of many. Now while you are trying to "insert fingers", some people would be clawing eyeballs out.

NDRU said:

not sure if this is a good idea. it won't prevent rape (though it might shorten the duration) and it will almost certainly cause more violence

but, it might catch a rapist

I just think it's an extreme preventative measure. Who goes out with expectations of rape? I hope nobody.

Perhaps nobody here in the United States, but as it has been mentioned both in the article and in the thread that rape is a SERIOUS problem in South Africa. Kinda like how car jackings and drive bys were in certain inner citiies back in the 80's in the United States.

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

I agree, I guess its a small consolation for a woman who is violated in a very painful way.

Its like shooting a lion after its eaten both your legs.

As a woman who has been raped I love this. Yes, there are pros and cons, but if both my legs were eaten I'd still want to kill the lion. I wish this device would do permanent damage because in many cases, like mine, the rapists get off with a slap on the wrist. Both my rapists were sentenced to life plus 45 years. The one who planned the whole thing spent a year and then got out on some trumped up technicality even with DNA evidence. I had to leave the state because he was stalking me at my job and my home. Maybe if his dick had been hurt he would have thought twice. Maybe not...but I would have taken a black eye or broken arm in return for knowing he was hurt or castrated.

So not only do I wish they were available to the women and young girls in patriarchal countries where men make the laws, I wish it was available here. Many times in Chicago I've had to leave work very late at night and have been followed more than once. We aren't allowed to have guns here so I would have no problem buying one of these. Is it sad that women today still have to be afraid in certain situations? Yes...but that's a sad fact of life as a female.

Wow girl, sorry that you had to experience that.

SUPRMAN said:

Revolution said:

Dude, I'm a fellow gent myself....I know how we all feel about our privates being messed with....

But, I firmly, FIRMLY believe that if castration or a death sentence were the outcome for a rape conviction or murder conviction, those rates would plummet...we've got to stop messin' around with criminals, it's the only way to stop the behavior.

Like the sig . . . .

But, as much as you FIRMLY believe that, in practice, the death penalty doesn't reduce murder convictions.

The only sure way to stop behavior is to kill the offenders. But I'm against the death penalty for any reason. Lock them away.

And with rape, are we willing to see someone executed on a false accusation, or misidentification?

What I am saying (and re-reading it, it does come off a bit confusing) is castration for rape convictions and death penalty for murderers. Not death penalty for rape convictions.

I would also be in favor of jail time to accompany that castration.

DNA makes mis-identification very unlikely in today's world.

Ultimately, my point is that we need to stiffen the laws for criminals and longer jail sentences just wind up costing the taxpayers.

paintedlady said:

Come to think of it... this would work great with abusive lovers.

The father of my eldest child was a total selfish asshole, he would force himself on me from time to time. Even if I begged him not to, one time I was bawling in tears begging him to stop since I just had our son 2 weeks prior. I was still healing from my episiotomy , the stitches were running front to back.

He didn't care, he needed sex, I was "his" girl. He choked me until I opened my legs, blood was pouring out of me. After, he cried and begged for forgiveness, but that he " couldn't help himself since he loved me so much". Asshole.

See, that's when I would have cut his fuggin dick off and flushed it down the toilet and then called the cops to come pick his sorry ass up. What you wanna bet she would have been arrested for "malicious wounding" or some nonsense by some misogynistic male judge?

Revolution said:

SUPRMAN said:

Like the sig . . . .

But, as much as you FIRMLY believe that, in practice, the death penalty doesn't reduce murder convictions.

The only sure way to stop behavior is to kill the offenders. But I'm against the death penalty for any reason. Lock them away.

And with rape, are we willing to see someone executed on a false accusation, or misidentification?

What I am saying (and re-reading it, it does come off a bit confusing) is castration for rape convictions and death penalty for murderers. Not death penalty for rape convictions.

I would also be in favor of jail time to accompany that castration.

DNA makes mis-identification very unlikely in today's world.

Ultimately, my point is that we need to stiffen the laws for criminals and longer jail sentences just wind up costing the taxpayers.

There is no way that will ever happen as long as men rule the world. Heck, even chemical castration which is 100% reversible after usage is stopped is frowned upon in the United States, so I cant imagine that taking flight in even more Machismoistic (if you will) societies.

DesireeNevermind said:

SUPRMAN said:

Like the sig . . . .

But, as much as you FIRMLY believe that, in practice, the death penalty doesn't reduce murder convictions.

The only sure way to stop behavior is to kill the offenders. But I'm against the death penalty for any reason. Lock them away.

And with rape, are we willing to see someone executed on a false accusation, or misidentification?

I'd like to know how someone can be falsely accused and misidentified several times over. Rapists like most sexual offenders, probably have several victims before they ever get caught.

All rapists and sexual offenders are not repeat offenders before they are caught.

The idea is to catch them the first time.

Obviously, a serial rapist is less likely to be executed or prosecuted on a false identification or misidentification, but in a legal system that will accept that naming a Black man as the suspect is enough for that man to be jailed, imprisoned or executed, I'd rather not rush the process . . . .

Revolution said:

SUPRMAN said:

Like the sig . . . .

But, as much as you FIRMLY believe that, in practice, the death penalty doesn't reduce murder convictions.

The only sure way to stop behavior is to kill the offenders. But I'm against the death penalty for any reason. Lock them away.

And with rape, are we willing to see someone executed on a false accusation, or misidentification?

What I am saying (and re-reading it, it does come off a bit confusing) is castration for rape convictions and death penalty for murderers. Not death penalty for rape convictions.

I would also be in favor of jail time to accompany that castration.

DNA makes mis-identification very unlikely in today's world.

Ultimately, my point is that we need to stiffen the laws for criminals and longer jail sentences just wind up costing the taxpayers.

Thanx for the clarification.

I agree with the first two points.

The last I also agree with but it sounds like an argument for the death penalty (by implication), so I only agree up to the point of advocating the death penalty.

zaza said:

Acrylic said:

Assuming the thing works, that's what the damn rapist deserve! Something clawing their dick off!

But he's going to be stucked in that thing IN your hoo-ha. That must be pretty shocking for any girl.

Once he penetrates, that thing with dig into his dick. In a panic, he will get out of her -- with the condom still attached to him.

That's how it's removed: it comes with an applicator to put in and take out.

Reel said:

NDRU said:

not sure if this is a good idea. it won't prevent rape (though it might shorten the duration) and it will almost certainly cause more violence

but, it might catch a rapist

I just think it's an extreme preventative measure. Who goes out with expectations of rape? I hope nobody.

Perhaps nobody here in the United States, but as it has been mentioned both in the article and in the thread that rape is a SERIOUS problem in South Africa. Kinda like how car jackings and drive bys were in certain inner citiies back in the 80's in the United States.

Women and girls here in the U.S have to be careful too. There've been several high-profile cases of women being raped and murdered after leaving nightclubs in NYC(like Imette St. Guillen). And then you have the nonsense going on in some schools with girls being fondled/groped by groups of boys.

uPtoWnNY said:

Reel said:

Perhaps nobody here in the United States, but as it has been mentioned both in the article and in the thread that rape is a SERIOUS problem in South Africa. Kinda like how car jackings and drive bys were in certain inner citiies back in the 80's in the United States.

Women and girls here in the U.S have to be careful too. There've been several high-profile cases of women being raped and murdered after leaving nightclubs in NYC(like Imette St. Guillen). And then you have the nonsense going on in some schools with girls being fondled/groped by groups of boys.

Most definitely. Which is why I avoid walking the streets at night at all cost. Except for when I used to live in NYC and the streets were just as busy at 2am as it is at 2pm. Aside from that, my hindparts are in de house after dark because I do expect that the risks of something bad happening is heightend after dark when there are less people on the streets. But in some places in Africa (as well as in some other countries I'm sure), the precentage of it is so high, one might just consider inserting that condom.

I mean besides it NOT HAPPENING in the first place, I would imagine that the next best thing that could happen to a rape victim is to get some automatic vengence after that happening, as well as to know that the punk will need to take a trip to the police station to "get his dick back".

paintedlady said:

Come to think of it... this would work great with abusive lovers.

The father of my eldest child was a total selfish asshole, he would force himself on me from time to time. Even if I begged him not to, one time I was bawling in tears begging him to stop since I just had our son 2 weeks prior. I was still healing from my episiotomy , the stitches were running front to back.

He didn't care, he needed sex, I was "his" girl. He choked me until I opened my legs, blood was pouring out of me. After, he cried and begged for forgiveness, but that he " couldn't help himself since he loved me so much". Asshole.

Asshole, indeed. Sorry you had to go through that.

Jeez, some sad stories on this thread.....

Reel said:

uPtoWnNY said:

Women and girls here in the U.S have to be careful too. There've been several high-profile cases of women being raped and murdered after leaving nightclubs in NYC(like Imette St. Guillen). And then you have the nonsense going on in some schools with girls being fondled/groped by groups of boys.

Most definitely. Which is why I avoid walking the streets at night at all cost. Except for when I used to live in NYC and the streets were just as busy at 2am as it is at 2pm. Aside from that, my hindparts are in de house after dark because I do expect that the risks of something bad happening is heightend after dark when there are less people on the streets. But in some places in Africa (as well as in some other countries I'm sure), the precentage of it is so high, one might just consider inserting that condom.

I mean besides it NOT HAPPENING in the first place, I would imagine that the next best thing that could happen to a rape victim is to get some automatic vengence after that happening, as well as to know that the punk will need to take a trip to the police station to "get his dick back".

When hanging out, I always walk my female friends to their apartment door. Mfers could be lurking anywhere(stairwells, elevators), and it pays to be safe.

Reel said:

uPtoWnNY said:

Women and girls here in the U.S have to be careful too. There've been several high-profile cases of women being raped and murdered after leaving nightclubs in NYC(like Imette St. Guillen). And then you have the nonsense going on in some schools with girls being fondled/groped by groups of boys.

Most definitely. Which is why I avoid walking the streets at night at all cost. Except for when I used to live in NYC and the streets were just as busy at 2am as it is at 2pm. Aside from that, my hindparts are in de house after dark because I do expect that the risks of something bad happening is heightend after dark when there are less people on the streets. But in some places in Africa (as well as in some other countries I'm sure), the precentage of it is so high, one might just consider inserting that condom.

I mean besides it NOT HAPPENING in the first place, I would imagine that the next best thing that could happen to a rape victim is to get some automatic vengence after that happening, as well as to know that the punk will need to take a trip to the police station to "get his dick back".

it's so bad out there that women everywhere should carry guns to ensure their own safety.

i mean seriously. date rape drugs proliferating so a gal can't turn her back on her drink at the bar for even a moment? can't walk home alone? can't go out at night?

wtf?

[Edited 7/2/10 5:54am]

sadly, on page B4 of the Minneapolis Star Tribune newspaper, there are no less than four stories about sexual assaults against women.

every. single. day.

I'm not sure but somebody once told me that rape is unsually high in South Africa...I dont know where they got their numbers, but I was told it was something like 1 in 4 women, and a lot of innocent people are becoming HIV positive as a result.

StillGotIt said:

I'm not sure but somebody once told me that rape is unsually high in South Africa...I dont know where they got their numbers, but I was told it was something like 1 in 4 women, and a lot of innocent people are becoming HIV positive as a result.

there is the misconception in some sub-Saharan African countries that runs rampant, that AIDS can be cured by having sex with a virgin.

http://www.scienceinafrica.co.za/2002/april/virgin.htm