TheVoid said:

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AndGodCreatedMe said:

Herman is gonna kill me if I edit now

Sorry Dan

This thread just got a thousand times more entertaining.

TheVoid said:

I'm 37. She's 24

When you're over 30 you should never be with women within that age-bracket. They're in the midst of their personality crisis and are currently trying to shape their identity. If you're an older man and get involved with women of that age you may influence their life choices too much. Once you're out of their lives they don't have the one person they may have been depending on more than they've realized. So it's either your own or 18-20.

novabrkr said:

TheVoid said:

I'm 37. She's 24

When you're over 30 you should never be with women within that age-bracket. They're in the midst of their personality crisis and are currently trying to shape their identity. If you're an older man and get involved with women of that age you may influence their life choices too much. Once you're out of their lives they don't have the one person they may have been depending on more than they've realized. So it's either your own or 18-20.

I want to disagree with this. But I find it enlightened.

MrsMdiver said:

Cradle robber.

TheVoid said:

MrsMdiver said:

Response sent. No re-response yet, but I'm kind of hoping not to get one.

We love you Auntie Dan.

Just sayin'

Breaking hearts gets easier with time. I'm the kind of person that CLEARLY cannot be in a healthy relationship. Everytime I meet someone with mutual attraction, I'm all into it, and then something happens, and I'm D-O-N-E. I've gotten breaking up down to an art form. This song came out recently; my friend told me that I need to play it for any man I meet before I even say 'Hello'.

TheVoid said:

MrsMdiver said:

Response sent. No re-response yet, but I'm kind of hoping not to get one.

NM

my funny comment doesnt work when the font gets corrected in a reply...

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Serious said:

PunkMistress said:

Thanks for answering so honestly.

I really hope things get better for you and that happiness finds you.

Thank you . I hardly remember what happiness is .

We just spoke a bit about it on the phone and he tells me I am too emotional and he is right about that. And he mentioned that my bf did not feel loved anymore when I fell in love with somebody else (him) and when I said that it wasn't true because you can love more than one person he said I would not like it if he was in love with somebody else and I admitted that he is right about that .

Lawd, I soooo understand how you feel.

I feel poisoned by my ex. When I lost him, I lost my sparkle. People don't think I'm as attractive anymore, people don't think I'm fun or sweet anymore. . . something in me died, and everybody can see it.

I broke it off with him, but I had to. Everything was so right, except that little sliver that wasn't, and it ruined everything. He wouldn't face it, so I had to.

Dan, the worst thing he could possibly do to me is try to be my friend. You're right to just cut of communication with her.

Relationships suck.

Oh damn. I know not everyone's the same, but I pretty much make a point of not being around Thai girls (by girls I mean under 25). There are exceptions, but in general I find it's easier this way. The way I am is not compatible with many of them and the way they think. I've never broken up with anyone, but I have been in 'situations' with Thai girls of that age that I had to extricate myself from that I would deal with very differently now, much more in line with your cutting off method. I hate feeling misunderstood and I hate even just knowing I can manipulate someone, whether I choose to or not. Maybe this is out of line, but Dan you seem to me to be a very self-aware person, pretty clued-up about psychology and with a sharp intuition and understanding of people in general. You could quite possibly be the last person a young Thai girl should get involved with.

Fauxie said:

Oh damn. I know not everyone's the same, but I pretty much make a point of not being around Thai girls (by girls I mean under 25). There are exceptions, but in general I find it's easier this way. The way I am is not compatible with many of them and the way they think. I've never broken up with anyone, but I have been in 'situations' with Thai girls of that age that I had to extricate myself from that I would deal with very differently now, much more in line with your cutting off method. I hate feeling misunderstood and I hate even just knowing I can manipulate someone, whether I choose to or not. Maybe this is out of line, but Dan you seem to me to be a very self-aware person, pretty clued-up about psychology and with a sharp intuition and understanding of people in general. You could quite possibly be the last person a young Thai girl should get involved with.

You're the last person who has been out of line on this thread , and I would have to say I agree with you.... IF SHE WERE THAI.

She's not Chinese Thai. She's Chinese Chinese. And I didn't know her age, and (BELIEVE ME) suspected she was on the upper end of 25 (26 or 27). Which I admit is still young.

At any rate I haven't gotten an email response from my response. And I've told myself not to check my email every hour out of curiosity to see if she responded. I'm just going to go through the motions of being newly single. ...... masturbate frequently. (my god, I love masturbating! )

tackam said:

Serious said:

Thank you . I hardly remember what happiness is .

We just spoke a bit about it on the phone and he tells me I am too emotional and he is right about that. And he mentioned that my bf did not feel loved anymore when I fell in love with somebody else (him) and when I said that it wasn't true because you can love more than one person he said I would not like it if he was in love with somebody else and I admitted that he is right about that .

Lawd, I soooo understand how you feel.

I feel poisoned by my ex. When I lost him, I lost my sparkle. People don't think I'm as attractive anymore, people don't think I'm fun or sweet anymore. . . something in me died, and everybody can see it.

I broke it off with him, but I had to. Everything was so right, except that little sliver that wasn't, and it ruined everything. He wouldn't face it, so I had to.

Dan, the worst thing he could possibly do to me is try to be my friend. You're right to just cut of communication with her.

Relationships suck.

I lost a lot of weight even though I eat all day long which in my case is not a good thing as I am really underweight now and look and feel 10 or 15 years older than I did 3 years ago . Thank God I always looked so very young that I probably still look a little younger than I am. And my friends hardly call anymore as they are tired of having to face my sadness .

TheVoid said:

Fauxie said:

Oh damn. I know not everyone's the same, but I pretty much make a point of not being around Thai girls (by girls I mean under 25). There are exceptions, but in general I find it's easier this way. The way I am is not compatible with many of them and the way they think. I've never broken up with anyone, but I have been in 'situations' with Thai girls of that age that I had to extricate myself from that I would deal with very differently now, much more in line with your cutting off method. I hate feeling misunderstood and I hate even just knowing I can manipulate someone, whether I choose to or not. Maybe this is out of line, but Dan you seem to me to be a very self-aware person, pretty clued-up about psychology and with a sharp intuition and understanding of people in general. You could quite possibly be the last person a young Thai girl should get involved with.

You're the last person who has been out of line on this thread , and I would have to say I agree with you.... IF SHE WERE THAI.

She's not Chinese Thai. She's Chinese Chinese. And I didn't know her age, and (BELIEVE ME) suspected she was on the upper end of 25 (26 or 27). Which I admit is still young.

At any rate I haven't gotten an email response from my response. And I've told myself not to check my email every hour out of curiosity to see if she responded. I'm just going to go through the motions of being newly single. ...... masturbate frequently. (my god, I love masturbating! )

I hate it. As soon as my orgasm starts I already feel so bored and sad even though it is still going on. And contrary to "real" sex I cannot come more than one time even if I was still in the mood .

TheVoid said:

Fauxie said:

Oh damn. I know not everyone's the same, but I pretty much make a point of not being around Thai girls (by girls I mean under 25). There are exceptions, but in general I find it's easier this way. The way I am is not compatible with many of them and the way they think. I've never broken up with anyone, but I have been in 'situations' with Thai girls of that age that I had to extricate myself from that I would deal with very differently now, much more in line with your cutting off method. I hate feeling misunderstood and I hate even just knowing I can manipulate someone, whether I choose to or not. Maybe this is out of line, but Dan you seem to me to be a very self-aware person, pretty clued-up about psychology and with a sharp intuition and understanding of people in general. You could quite possibly be the last person a young Thai girl should get involved with.

You're the last person who has been out of line on this thread , and I would have to say I agree with you.... IF SHE WERE THAI.

She's not Chinese Thai. She's Chinese Chinese. And I didn't know her age, and (BELIEVE ME) suspected she was on the upper end of 25 (26 or 27). Which I admit is still young.

At any rate I haven't gotten an email response from my response. And I've told myself not to check my email every hour out of curiosity to see if she responded. I'm just going to go through the motions of being newly single. ...... masturbate frequently. (my god, I love masturbating! )

Ohhh, she's Chinese Chinese. So what's she like in general? I thought you were just going to cut her off. Anyway, I just hope it turns out ok for you (and her) and that you enjoy your masturbation. I kinda miss the threads with you giggling like a schoolgirl over the noodle soup guy so maybe if this girl is out of the picture we'll see more of that again? Take care buddy

Fauxie said:

TheVoid said:

You're the last person who has been out of line on this thread , and I would have to say I agree with you.... IF SHE WERE THAI.

She's not Chinese Thai. She's Chinese Chinese. And I didn't know her age, and (BELIEVE ME) suspected she was on the upper end of 25 (26 or 27). Which I admit is still young.

At any rate I haven't gotten an email response from my response. And I've told myself not to check my email every hour out of curiosity to see if she responded. I'm just going to go through the motions of being newly single. ...... masturbate frequently. (my god, I love masturbating! )

Ohhh, she's Chinese Chinese. So what's she like in general? I thought you were just going to cut her off. Anyway, I just hope it turns out ok for you (and her) and that you enjoy your masturbation. I kinda miss the threads with you giggling like a schoolgirl over the noodle soup guy so maybe if this girl is out of the picture we'll see more of that again? Take care buddy

We went and saw a movie togehter.

But yeah, I realized it's time for me to completely nix it. I could tell there was an underlying subtext in her actions...her eyes...etc. Made it a bit uncomfortable.

The Chinese soup guy hasn't been at work for almost 2 weeks now. I think he might have gone back to China. I'm so devastated. He was gorgeous.

Oh Jeez, I'm notorious for rehashing old feelings with exes at some point in time. Me n my current bf actually just had a talk about this. He breaks off all communication with his exes the second they break up, which is so hard for me to understand.

I have such a hard time doing that, because just because it didn't work out doesnt mean you don't still care about them.

Even if it's a really bad break up, like the guy was a dousche or something, I CARED about them, and I can't just stop caring about them or how their life is going.

Gristle Adams......I still worry about him all the time. I'm so afraid he will die in his sleep one day......or do something self destructive. And his kids STILL run to me when they need something.

My Ex Husband.....Now I didn't give a flying fuck what happened to him, up until just recently, I had to stop at the house for something and he ws outside mowing, this was maybe 2 months ago, and he somehow started complaining to me about his new job and his financial problems, and I found myself offering advice and genuinly feeling sorry for him, and trying to get him to talk about his emotions and what not, because even though he was a dick, he is still human and I have a heart.

My Ex Fiance (before I married Jeremy) I did break off all communication with him when we broke up because he just would NOT take no for an answer and it was too hard. Well he has kept in touch with my mother all these years (11 to be exact) and he was diagnosed with MS about 3 or 4 yrs ago. When he found out about my divorce he tracked me down and we chatted a few times, but I also let it be because he has a girl in his life now, and I just didnt want to interfere with that.

A couple months ago I also hung out with an ex from highschool a few times, but that was only cuz I was hungry and had no money.

So yeah, I dunno. I have a hard time not talking to people I was in a relationship with........

Especially Gristle Adams right now. I know I made him out to be a dick, on here, and in all honesty, he kinda is. But he's just rough around the edges. He has a good heart, and I know he cared for me very much, and that I hurt him very deeply when I left. And I still care for him very very much. I have never had more fun or been more open or comfortable or compatible with any other man before. I don't know that I'll ever get over him.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Oh Jeez, I'm notorious for rehashing old feelings with exes at some point in time. Me n my current bf actually just had a talk about this. He breaks off all communication with his exes the second they break up, which is so hard for me to understand.

I have such a hard time doing that, because just because it didn't work out doesnt mean you don't still care about them.

Even if it's a really bad break up, like the guy was a dousche or something, I CARED about them, and I can't just stop caring about them or how their life is going.

Gristle Adams......I still worry about him all the time. I'm so afraid he will die in his sleep one day......or do something self destructive. And his kids STILL run to me when they need something.

My Ex Husband.....Now I didn't give a flying fuck what happened to him, up until just recently, I had to stop at the house for something and he ws outside mowing, this was maybe 2 months ago, and he somehow started complaining to me about his new job and his financial problems, and I found myself offering advice and genuinly feeling sorry for him, and trying to get him to talk about his emotions and what not, because even though he was a dick, he is still human and I have a heart.

My Ex Fiance (before I married Jeremy) I did break off all communication with him when we broke up because he just would NOT take no for an answer and it was too hard. Well he has kept in touch with my mother all these years (11 to be exact) and he was diagnosed with MS about 3 or 4 yrs ago. When he found out about my divorce he tracked me down and we chatted a few times, but I also let it be because he has a girl in his life now, and I just didnt want to interfere with that.

A couple months ago I also hung out with an ex from highschool a few times, but that was only cuz I was hungry and had no money.

So yeah, I dunno. I have a hard time not talking to people I was in a relationship with........

Especially Gristle Adams right now. I know I made him out to be a dick, on here, and in all honesty, he kinda is. But he's just rough around the edges. He has a good heart, and I know he cared for me very much, and that I hurt him very deeply when I left. And I still care for him very very much. I have never had more fun or been more open or comfortable or compatible with any other man before. I don't know that I'll ever get over him.

OMG, would you please stop calling that poor man, Grissley Adams!!!!

oh my stomach.

Are you going to post pictures of this girl or what?

TheVoid said:

friends with benefits = having unrequited love.

At 24 years of age, when the heart breaks, it breaks very hard. It shreds you apart, and you lose weight and sleep.

yup

novabrkr said:

TheVoid said:

I'm 37. She's 24

When you're over 30 you should never be with women within that age-bracket. They're in the midst of their personality crisis and are currently trying to shape their identity. If you're an older man and get involved with women of that age you may influence their life choices too much. Once you're out of their lives they don't have the one person they may have been depending on more than they've realized. So it's either your own or 18-20.

yup