And how will u know ur there? Please notice that I said "ideal" not "perfect".
[This message was edited Sun Feb 2 18:46:11 PST 2003 by Berry]

Much like this:


Seriously, do you have any specific questions?

Honestly I don't know...

Two people living in two different states (like Cali and N.Y) :LOL: . After my first marriage this is the only way i see it can work.

Me, LaV, a nice house and a beautiful weather.

there's no one style of an ideal marriage ..many poeples marriage is ideal..it isnt just one thing overall..its a lot of things and with each one theres soemthing different etc

theC said:

I agree and I have never been married.

It's so great at times...

It's so hard at times...

Berry said:

husband works a different shift than the wife. so far it's working for two couples i know. they agree they don't fight as much since they are only together on the weekends, and they have to pick their battles...

Actually, I was hoping to get a part in a play. I got a callback. Did the final audition and they said they would call in a couple of days...that was thursday night But that would have given my husband and I plenty of time apart...oh well...

stop capturing my posts i work hard to edit these things
[This message was edited Mon Apr 21 20:16:07 PDT 2003 by ScarLett]

the ideal marriagevwould be one where
both parties have an understanding of oneanother
and they don't have to live by THE RULES of whut
other people think should and should not be done.
they are both happy to be with one another and
live their lives loving and caring for one another
NO MATTER WHUT!!!

That's question is very subjective.

An ideal marriage is whatever makes the two people involved feel happy and fulfilled.

An even an ideal marriage has its tough times and bumps to overcome.

From the album "Skylarking"

It's your big day, your big day
So you want to tie the knot
Tie it tight, don't let it rot, the memory of this day
Are you deafened by the bells
Could be heaven, could be hell
In a cell for two
Big day come and big day go
Life goes on after the show
But will your love have the fire and glow
Like on the big day
Statistics they don't say a lot
But can you keep what you have got forever together
There's a lesson to be learnt
Many fingers have been burnt with the touch of gold
Love can come and love can go
What your chance is I don't know
But if you have love then let it show like on the big day
You're a new recruit
The big day
in your wedding suit today
Like on the big day
yes you're looking fine
The big day
sign on the dotted line
The big day
it's your wedding march today

XTC

The best way to make it work is to put the other person first and never go to bed angry. That, and tell each other how good looking the other person is, and everything else will fall into place. Any questions, see "put the other person first."