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alright so me and some dude.......lol..... We have been seeing each other for quite a while. he says he wont marry me cause of my horribel mouth. Under pressure, i have been known to snap, curse, go just off, even to my own detriment... His family is very sweet and kind, and i am not. I have respect for people most times, I'm educated, i just happened to have learned family values later in life.
I know you cant change yourself for other people, but i need to know if i can control my own anger, or if i should take classes, or am i just screwed, ..cause not only do i need it for a relationship, but my communication skills have limited me in life as well...
sincerely, boo hoo, no sincerely........lol [Edited 6/19/10 8:31am] THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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yall dont know how to counsel the ghetto fabulous i see. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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truth be told, he's a pot head, and that annoys the hell outta folks more than my cussing.. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Maybe you should smoke with him and calm down. | |
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smoke some pot and maybe you ll calm down.
Knick his pot and he ll probably start going off at you. | |
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who you cussin' at?
I get like that so......
try to stay away from your triggers, get massages, and pray!
I usually pray for folk to not work my nerve.... | |
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Eliza Doolittle? | |
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I aint lazy!!!!!! and if i smoke pot, it usually drives me crazy....in a sorta good way...i clean like crazy, but i alreay think too much,, weed just intensifies. i prolly need pills too...lololol lawd. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Meh, dump his ass. If he says he ain't gonna marry you for you, then he ain't worth it. So you curse a little bit. So what? If that's part of your nature, find yourself a guy who'll love you for who you are.
And a pothead? You can do better than that.
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Co-sign "Bring friends, bring your children and bring foot spray 'cause it's gon' be funky." ~ Prince
A kiss on the lips, is betta than a knife in the back ~ Sheila E Darkness isn't the absence of light, it's the absence of U ~ Prince | |
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Maybe he thinks he can do better than someone who cusses. | |
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he probably can. THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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save the mouth for the bedroom.....
forget the dude, you should try to use less vulgarity on the regular...for yourself. it holds you back....you seem to know that, however, you probably don't realize how much or how often. Thanks for the laughs, arguments and overall enjoyment for the last umpteen years. It's time for me to retire from Prince.org and engage in the real world...lol. Above all, I appreciated the talent Prince. You were one of a kind. | |
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I say stay crazy, it's part of your charm. Fuck that nucca, literally, you ain't gotta marry him. [Edited 6/20/10 7:48am] | |
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Any changes you make should be for yourself, not for someone who's decided you need to change.
I'm firmly planted in denial | |
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If you need any type of therapy then just do it for you, not because someone wants you to change.
Stay on the Abilfy-Zoloft like the Dr. reccomnends, otherwise... tell that man to love just the way you are dammit! | |
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And if he thinks that (which we already know he is since apparently he wants you to CHANGE before he even proposes ) then you don't need him girl. If cussing now and then (I do this myself now and then...sure I'm a little crazy too but any guy who tells me it's not acceptable to him needs to step) bothers him that damn bad then let him TRY and find a woman who's little miss calm and quiet 24/7. I say move on...if it wouldn't had been your cursing then it would be something else. Those type men are just miserable and have plenty of insecurities themselves. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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Jackie? Is that you? | |
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My husband is currently seeing a councilor about his temper…so far so good, and yes I think some people can change, but they just have to really want to do it. | |
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co-sign about everything.
But, to reiterate; the most important part of this thread is you brought up what you obviously feel is something to pay attention to, at the very least--your temper and how quickly you go off, as well as the words you use to go off.........
Like many said, if you feel the need may be to change, do it for you. So many people don't address this very thing--anger/language, and then they wonder why they don't keep a job, or get hired, or are not treated with respect...
I know a kid, got in trouble for using the word "ass". what does his relative say to me? "I am gonna whup his ass when he get home"
Whup his ass.........for saying ass?
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you can say ass, just dont call me no ass... ...no, not really.
now see, today is a different day, and i could care less about the the little insecure chump, talking about...I'll see you in a lil bit. a lil bit of what, mufukka?? THE B EST BE YOURSELF AS LONG AS YOUR SELF ISNT A DYCK[/r]
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Honestly....if you r happy with yourself you shouldn't be the one to change....maybe he should be more accepting.
Good luck hun! [Edited 6/22/10 16:29pm] | |
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