CarrieMpls said:

"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for." — Bob Marley

HamsterHuey said:

i'd have more than gladly done that had you been around to teach me then!
[Edited 5/28/10 10:54am]

Cinnie said:

That’s a really sad and beautiful quote.

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Want me to write him a response Carrie?

JerseyKRS said:

!!!!

JerseyKRS said:

YES!

HamsterHuey said:

Jersey "Horse's Head" KRS

JerseyKRS said:

oh fuck

JerseyKRS said:

omg.


I really should let you!


I deleted his note and blocked him from contacting me, on email and facebook. I think that takes care of it. At least now I won't even know if he tries.

maybe thats for alove

Maybe he realized that what he did was wrong and wanted to correct everything, that’s why he was trying to get close to you again in any possible way? I say that if what he did wasn’t horrible, then forgive.

If what he did really hurt you and it was for the first time he did that then I say, give another change, forgive again , everyone makes mistakes.

If what he did has been repeated multiple times, then do what you wanted to do, send him a message to never contact you again.

No need to contact the police, horrible idea

CarrieMpls said:

Yes it is.

One of the best things I've heard lately.

it seems to me the best course of action to take is to let your circle of friends know what's going on and that you want ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with said person.

RipTheJacker said:

especially at your next party. for some reason, people tend to think that since it is a larger number of people, then one person sneaking in is no big deal.

no no no

Cinnie said:

i hear ya.

Cinnie said:

That's a great quote!

If you're really sure you don't want this person in your life then just tell them. That may upset him but in the long run you are saving him from a lot of hurt.

CarrieMpls said:

absolute best way of erasing people from your life. especially creeps like this one!

Some folk couldn't find a clue in the game section under c in Toys'r'us

therefore you need to speak up!

Ps how can I unlike this... Reply button is a bit too close to the fb like button

BklynBabe said:

CarrieMpls said:

because we're married.

urgh, you have to wonder what those people are thinking. don't they have
any other people in their life they can go bother?

perhaps everyone else has already told them not to get in touch anymore
and you're the last one that's been (too) civil up until now.

i've actually got myself a new phone number a couple years ago just to
avoid ever having to talk to a certain acquaintance again. and yet, in
no time, they traced down my new number and started calling me one a
month leaving messages on my answerphone.

stuff like "hey how are you, just calling to see how you're doing and
aksing when we can go out for a drink again".

at one point she even left a message saying "hey there, silly, you're
never picking up the phone. and here i am, like some crazy ex girlfriend
you will never get rid of anymore, just keeping in touch. lol, we're
such good friends. call me".

in the end i just met up with her and told her, listen i just don't see
this 'friendship' going anywhere. it's not even a friendship. don't you
notice i never call you and whenever i see you i never ask you about
your life or anything. i just answer your constant questions, somewhat
reluctantly and try to go as soon as i can".

didn't stop the calling tho. she called me again just 3 days ago, and
the message is "hey sweety, just heading home from work and thinking
about you in the car. i don't think i've returned your call yet so i'm
doing it now. call me soon, let's get together".

i was like "wtf? MY call? i haven't called you in over 6 years, you
psycho".

IstenSzek said:

DAMN!

IstenSzek said:

I had to get rid of someone from high school yeaaars after high school, who called me on CHRISTMAS EVE, calling my parents' houses and shit!

We NEVER HUNG OUT, even in high school, and he would make me uncomfortable on the phone. Finally I told him "don't call me, I came home to visit my family".

Rough, but sometimes you have to make yourself clear. If he was just showing up to parties I probably wouldn't have got my point across.

whistle said:

Ba doom tis!

Does Anxiety know that you feel this way about him?

I had a friend who took a disliking to me after his wife broke up with him. He couldn't accept he'd been bad to her and their baby girl and not being able to make things go his way he decided somehow that it was my fault. It's gone down like this...

1. I try to work out why he's pissed at me and try to patch things up.
2. He says I'm dead to him and to never contact him again.
3. He sends a blank e-mail simply with the subject 'BLOCKED'.
4. He contacts me by another of my e-mail addresses to tell me to leave him alone.
5. He contacts me online on MSN, yahoo messengers etc. to tell me to leave him alone.
6. I go sometimes with my wife to see his ex-wife, who we're still friends with.
7. He contacts me saying he and his wife are together again and that they both want my wife and I to leave them alone.
8. I ask his ex-wife if they're together again and she says they're not and never will be.
9. My wife and I give his ex-wife some space (2 months not seeing her) to sort things out, to take us out of the equation and not give him more reasons to get mad.
10. He calls late at night from time to time to tell us to leave them alone. He threatens to beat me up if he sees me.

ThreadBare said:

I love that movie.

IstenSzek said:

Yikes!!

JustErin said:

i don't get it either, but don't hint at it any longer, tell him how u feel. take care of it once and for all.

It is hard i HATE confrontation as well but sometimes I have to, saves me from a lot as well.