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PrintableI was just talking to my husband about that the other day... I cant remember what brought it up but I said..."if you have to ask the question, you know the answer"
I never ask it because If "I" think I look or feel fat in something i just dont wear it... So to answer your question, I would tell them... "They dont look as nice as your other pants"..This way, your not sayin there ugly, and your not sayin there cute so hopefully they get the hint and never wear them again..  ~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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So i gotta ask you all have you been asked this question before?
by every woman I've ever dated... how do you respond? it's not the pants that makes your ass look fat, it's your ass makes your ass look fat and what is your take on this question in general? Don't ask me a question that you don't want an honest answer to and I won't you. I know my ass is large, I'm not asking about clothes that it barely fits in. They make a thing called fabric and if you want to cover a part of your body and it's large, you may need more it, no reason to ask dumb ass questions... | |
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I agree with everybody who said that they would tell that the pants are not flattering and suggest something better. I remember I and my then-bf were once asked this question by a stranger in a shop  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Slave2daGroove said: So i gotta ask you all have you been asked this question before?
by every woman I've ever dated... how do you respond? it's not the pants that makes your ass look fat, it's your ass makes your ass look fat and what is your take on this question in general? Don't ask me a question that you don't want an honest answer to and I won't you. I know my ass is large, I'm not asking about clothes that it barely fits in. They make a thing called fabric and if you want to cover a part of your body and it's large, you may need more it, no reason to ask dumb ass questions... Don't most men want their woman's ass to look big? My boyfriends always tried to talk me into pants that make my ass look big and then I hardly ever wore them because of that very reason  .With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: Slave2daGroove said: So i gotta ask you all have you been asked this question before?
by every woman I've ever dated... how do you respond? it's not the pants that makes your ass look fat, it's your ass makes your ass look fat and what is your take on this question in general? Don't ask me a question that you don't want an honest answer to and I won't you. I know my ass is large, I'm not asking about clothes that it barely fits in. They make a thing called fabric and if you want to cover a part of your body and it's large, you may need more it, no reason to ask dumb ass questions... Don't most men want their woman's ass to look big? My boyfriends always tried to talk me into pants that make my ass look big and then I hardly ever wore them because of that very reason .Clothes don't make the woman if you know what I mean. If you're hot and know how to dress, your ass is gonna look good in whatever you put it in. A sun dress, shorts, ass-less chaps, whatever... | |
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I guess all chaps are ass-less...never mind, you get the point. | |
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I'm honest with people but I try to be as polite. I wouldn't go so far as to tell them they look fat, but i'd probably say they don't suit them. | |
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ms whistle and i have an agreement: she doesn't tell me my cock is small and i don't say that her arse is fat.
ah, marriage.  everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Oops - sorry wrong thread
But i have accidentally asked a relative if she was pregnant Boy that did not go down too well - but it was a honest mistake, and i knew she wanted to have a baby.... so i try not to ask things like that. [Edited 5/18/10 3:23am] | |
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insatiable3 said: OK Im sure we have all dealt with this question before... and because i am a curvy person... I dont know how to respond to this even more so...
So I was talking to someone yesterday and they asked me Do these pants make me look fat?(mind you i hate this question in general but its even worse when it comes from close friends and family) I am such a sensitive to things like this because... like i hope you all know i am not a heart breaker or negative commenter(i prefer to keep harsh thoughts to myself).... I think everyone should enjoy life to the fullest and life is to short to tell someone they look a certain way... that might be there style and if they like it then thats fine ( as long as we dont have certain body parts hanging out in the public lol) anyway this person was wearing pleather leggings .. i mean there made to hug the legs.. soo im like no they dont...im thinking to myself if you feel fat dont wear them they are made to show off those legs...(mind you this person is like 140lbs so of course to me they look awesome) im such a sensitive to others emotions...I'll only let my opinion out when asked seriously by someone close that wants a true true opinion... I just guess because ive always been a thicker curvy girl... growing up Ive always had my family on me about my weight. they would blurt shit all the time and cause me to be lets say a little more insecure about myself.. its hard for me to answer questions asked to me like that.. because i wouldnt want to hurt there feelings like that... just as well as i wouldnt want my ego shoved.. So i gotta ask you all have you been asked this question before? how would you respond? and what is your take on this question in general? It would depend on whether the pants made her/him look fat or bad; if it is close friend I am not going to lie to them and let them go out looking foolish but I wouldn't be all 'yeah they make you look fat/bad' I would probably say 'they don't do you justice; let try these' or something. If it was someone I wasn't close to - I'd probably just lie and say of course they don't, you know you're fabulous if they got muffin-tops and all sorts hanging out - cause if they bought it they must like it. edited cause I typed in the middle of the quote, duh! [Edited 5/18/10 15:09pm] "I know that living with u baby, was sometimes hard...but I'm willing 2 give it another try.
Cause nothing compares....nothing compares 2 u!" | |
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