I've met so many interesting people on the org, I'm curious as to how a lot of you will answer these questions...

Describe your perfect ideal...

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally?
What kind of personality?
Is intelligence important?
Things you want to have in common with her/him?

And last, have you found them?

I did not start this to offend anyone or start some sort of controversy. I'm just curious.

That is all

Aaah, I meant to have a question mark instead of an exclamation point. My apologies, good people.
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What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally?
Curvy, 5 something...

What kind of personality?
Bubbly.

Is intelligence important?
Yes.

Things you want to have in common with her/him?
Must like movies, anime, cartoons, similar taste in music.

-good looking
-bubbly


well what would interest me mmmmm?
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A soulmate is a person that you easily connect with without any effort, point blank. I don't think a person could describe their soulmate because in my opinion, the "ideal" person that you have in your brain about who you would like to be with and the person whom you will connect with could come in a totally different package. The looks wouldn't matter because if the connection is strong, that in itself makes the person automatically attractive. The personality and intelligence of course would matter because of how strong of a connection you have to that person.

Black hair

Tan skin

Quiet

24 years old.

No idea, really. I'm not even sure I believe in soulmates.

Hopefully I'd know it if I saw it, though.

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally? taller than me, any race, any colour hair or eyes...just be hot, with great style
What kind of personality? confident and assertive, ambitious, funny
Is intelligence important? A must
Things you want to have in common with her/him? as long as they're not religious and enjoy the arts, I'm happy

And last, have you found them? Sure a few times, we're not romantically involved anymore but are great friends.

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally?

Physically I don't seek out a certain type or trait. I'm not into people for what they look like. I mean, I like to LOOK at hot people but thats as far as it goes. I don't find someone attractive enough to BE with unless I'm attracted to their personality. But I dig nice broad shoulders.

Emotionally? I like people that give good hugs and like to laugh. People that are caring and show that they genuinley CARE for you n wanna be there for you but not be a dpush over.

What kind of personality?

Ooops. Think I just answered that. Um, so I'll answer emotionally here. Um....Stable???

Is intelligence important?

To a point. I don't want a blooming idiot.


Things you want to have in common with her/him?

They gotta be down with my kids. I'd prefer for them not to already have their own kids tho. We don't have to have the exact same taste in music, but I want them to really really like music.

And last, have you found them?

I really really am enjoying the guy I'm with now, altho I don't believe in soul mates. We are compatable thus far tho.

missfee said:

NICE! Wise words, and I agree completely... couldn't have said it better.

Then again, I usually agree with MissFee!

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally? Nice eyes,nice smile. Cute. Tall


What kind of personality? Sweet. "The good guy" ...kind of nerdy. Sensitive. Passionate

Is intelligence important? Yes...and so is creativity

Things you want to have in common with her/him? Sense of humor..Music/Art

And last, have you found them? Yes. If I could fly I would fly around the moon and back. He makes me so happy.

I have met mine and he doesn't fulfill many of the things that would be on a list if I had written one. He is totally hot though IMO, so he fulfills the physical part which is very important for me, but we don't have anything in common at all which is even harder for me as my ex-bf and I shared so much . But he is so special to me and it feels as if I was born to be with him . I met him and it felt as if I had known him forever. As he is very different to me I wonder if he is kinda like the second half of me, the things (good and bad) that I am not.

Giovanni777 said:

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally? – I really don’t have a physical type. Certainly there are attributes I find more attractive than others but the whole package matters more than a laundry list of characteristics. I tend towards dark hair and dark eyes, but the guy I'm seeing now has blue eyes and light hair and I find him to be totally dreamy, so go figure. Emotionally? Somewhat stable, I guess. I find men prone to anger (or at least great displays of it) VERY unattractive. I prefer a mostly optimistic demeanor but I tend to date guys with a bit of sensitivity and maybe even melancholy somewhere mixed in – just so’s I know there’s something beneath the surface.

What kind of personality? – I gravitate towards geeky (music, comics, politics, art, whatever way it manifests) and bookish types that can make me giggle now and again. I find typical alpha males to be a big turn-off. This is not to say I don’t want my man to be a man, I vehemently do, I just don’t like competitive assholes.

Is intelligence important? – Very.

Things you want to have in common with her/him? - I want him to have a sense of style and aesthetic. I am attracted to men with similar or at least complimentary taste in just about everything – music, food, art, etc.

And last, have you found them? – I don’t believe in the traditional definition of soul mates – that we’re all part of a matched set and we need to find our “other half”. I don’t believe in fate or destiny.
Right now I’ve found someone who I like spending time with that makes my tummy all fluttery and he’s made it clear that he really likes me. That’s enough for now.

i don't like one thing in a guy it usually ruins it for me lol

for one i wouldn't let a guy bring his friend's their associated in my life either thats just lame. and if you don't like their friends their wit (shrug)
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What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally?

As I grew up it went from the physical to the mental connection/sense of humor

What kind of personality?

One that gets mine and is different then mine

Is intelligence important?

Essential

Things you want to have in common with her/him?

The basics, everything else is just taste

And last, have you found them?

I think so. If you take all of the faults and positives but still think the person is amazing, I think that's it. Did I know this when I was younger, hell no, I had to go through some real mental cases and emotional vampire bitches. The dick is no guide for finding the right woman, gotta use the other head, but wisdom comes with age.

I don't believe in "soul mates" anymore

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

I'm sorry, my friend. I'll pray 4 U still that you find your special someone..

SherryJackson said:

Thank u

black hair
about 5'3"
has great love of music
great seductive eyes
intensly sexy
worldly
great lover
loves the color purple
freaky/sexy
in his very early 50's
great dresser
hypnotic and erotic

oh, this is me dream/describing Prince.

lafleurdove said:

Prince is not that tall

Serious said:

I like fat ass muthafuckas that look like Biggie Smalls

His interests have to be in video games, macabre, and the history channel.

He also has to be a sadomasichist, eat bugs, soap, and wood, and drink bacterial water and battery acid.

That's the perfect soulmate for me.

There is no soulmate at this point.

looking for honesty in any soulmate...seems it's hard to find.

seeingvoices12 said:

Well, I'm a pretty honest person and if you like drinking battery acid like me... I think we can work something out.

NastradumasKid said:

SherryJackson said:

Describe yours first

Mephiles said:

Fine, Mephiles.

What do I look for physically?
Hmm...healthy. In relative good shape, I'd say. I don't like bulky guys. I'd say well developed, like a dancer's body. Height isn't a big issue for me, as long as he doesn't care how tall I am (I'm 5'7", and if I wear heels, I'm pretty damn tall! ). Nice, long hair. Clean, not greasy. A beautiful smile....soulful eyes...

emotionally?
Someone sensitive, and loves children and animals. Someone can connect with me without saying a word. Someone who loves me....


Is intelligence important? OH YES! Very!!!

Things I want to have in common with him? Well, not everything. I like a good debate/discussion. But i'd like it if we both shared the same values, same morals, same work ethic, same beliefs, same taste in music, same love for music...etc.

Have you found him? Time will tell..but I think I have...all I know is I've never felt like this before. And if God wants us to be together..it'll happen.
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SherryJackson said:

What do you look for physically, and/or emotionally?
Ahh just someone who makes themselves presentable in the best way, no matter how they are shaped. And someone who eats pretty healthy. Doesn't matter about height either. I'm 5'6 - 5'7 ish... but IF I WEAR HEELS..na im kidding

What Kind of personality
Someone kind, caring.. Easy to get along with. Easy to talk to.. Most importantly, someone who isn't molded by someone else. Like, someone who makes their own decisions. Does things because they feel its right. Good or bad..trust me Im supportive

Is Intelligence important
Of course... They don't have to be like extremely smart..just "responsible smart"



Things you want to have in common with her?
First off, I love God. They have to as well. Someone who listens to the same music as I do. Loves children and animals Like I do.. Someone who knows how to have fun and turn on/off when its time for it..

have you found them
I'll use a poem I wrote..and you tell me If I've found them..

I met a girl who makes me feel so special
She is my soul mate, someone I can't let go
Even now I miss her, tell me, is it love?
Allow me to explain and then you be the judge

I met a girl who is constantly on my mind
One I know I'll love until the very end of time
When I go to sleep at night, I can't stop dreaming about her
And I can't imagine any life for me, without her
I wonder If I scare her, with my passion and devotion
With how I feel towards her with such strong emotion
Trust me with your heart, as I trust you with mine
Though we can't make promises, I WILL promise her time
I'm willing to wait forever, my love has no expiration
Even if we aren't a couple, I'm already taken

I met a girl that I would truly die for
One when times are tough, I'll be beside for
I want to tell her to not be afraid, it's OK to love
I believe it's meant for us to be, a gift from God above
If she felt how I felt, maybe she would cry like me
Whenever I think of my love, daily, nightly
I cry because I'm happy, even now I'm fighting tears
Because I finally found something eluding me all those years
I just want her happy, smiling and having fun
To be in love like me, and be together as one
Do not be afraid, I know patience is the key
Because I'm willing to wait an eternity, for her and me
I tell her relax and enjoy, life's a parade
She smiles and replies, "and the world's a stage."

And I love her so much


lolz, la fin...

Mephiles said:

Wow....that's sweet. She's a very lucky girl...


Explain bolded text please! I'm curious what that means...