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What are the 5 main qualities U look for in a potential partner/mate? Though its commonly said "love is blind, it choosed randomly", we still have preferences when it comes to choosing a mate (besides the obvious "pretty/beautiful" thing)...
Mine : 1) Curves (I have a preference for thick girls for some reasons ) 2) Smart and well-educated/well-cultured (nuthing worse than bein with someone who lacks conversation or can't handle one...) 3) Artsy (I love creative and imaginative people) 4) Kinda snob (yeah, weird, but it adds some value and respect), yet open-minded (Im a weirdo sometimes ) 5) A chef (a bit cliché, but a woman, that can cook.. that just sexy ) What are your 5 main citeria U'd like your 'ideal' partner to have? (man/woman/sraight/gay..° (knowing we're talking about PREFERENCES, not necessary what U actual partner is like)... Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants to be themselves. | |
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i only care about intelligence. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Witty, sense of humor and compassionate.
I like him to hold his own and speak up if he doesn't agree with me. I like a man that is trusting, one that doesn't act overly possessive. An unselfish lover with just a bit of freak in him... not too freaky, I'm not going to take a crap on your chest or wear a strap-on. Last, I like him to be confident. | |
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1. Sense of humor (a MUST if you're gonna roll with me)
2. Emotionally stable (she may have to carry the both of us because I'm totally fucked up) 3. Faithful. No excuses. 4. Honest. If you screw up, admit it. If you're wrong, admit it. If you do something wrong, don't try to lie your way out to protect your own ass. 5. Affectionate. If I never held you and told you I love you, you would hurt. Guess what, that pain is a two-way street. Christopher damn! | |
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whistle said: i only care about intelligence.
riiiiight | |
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1) Curves
2) Smart /Well-educated (and I love self-taught people) 3) Strong sexual appetite 4) Spiritualism 5) Ironic, yet warm attitude | |
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1) Physical attraction
2) The willingness and ability to express herself 3) Passion for life 4) Self-respect 5) Humility | |
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xpertluva said: 1) Physical attraction
2) The willingness and ability to express herself 3) Passion for life 4) Self-respect 5) Humility Whats the meaning? no suicidal tendencies? Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants to be themselves. | |
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in this order:
compassion a sense of humor intelligence that they are a top a lack of arrogance Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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since I'm not out looking, here are the things I like in my partner:
he can spell! displays maturity loves to laugh loves to fuck (no hang-ups) practical thinks I'm great! that's 6 | |
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I usually fall in love with somebody at first sight and then that person is the one I want to be with no matter what. I usually feel attracted to men who have a cute smile, are not tall, have nice not too short hair and have something special and unique about them that immediately draws my attention. I love men who have style . If it turns out in the first 5 minutes of our conversation that they are really nice too I am lost . So I don't have to think what other qualities I might like/want/need as it is too late by then anyway . With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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1. Must be self-deprecating without it being too obvious that you're just looking for compliments or self-pitying. (I know that's weird, but it turns me on). This actually falls under the umbrella of sense of humor which is vital.
2. Must not be vehemently politically opposed to me. I could never date someone who didn't believe in reproductive rights, gay rights, and Lady Gaga. 3. Must be polite and respectful, but not wimpy and a pushover. (there's a balance) 4. Must not talk too much. That's what my friends are for. I want a lover who is like a quiet storm. 5. Must be willing to do the grocery shopping, because I hate it so much. Thanks. and : 6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling. | |
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TheVoid said: 1. Must be self-deprecating without it being too obvious that you're just looking for compliments or self-pitying. (I know that's weird, but it turns me on). This actually falls under the umbrella of sense of humor which is vital.
2. Must not be vehemently politically opposed to me. I could never date someone who didn't believe in reproductive rights, gay rights, and Lady Gaga. 3. Must be polite and respectful, but not wimpy and a pushover. (there's a balance) 4. Must not talk too much. That's what my friends are for. I want a lover who is like a quiet storm. 5. Must be willing to do the grocery shopping, because I hate it so much. Thanks. and : 6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling. | |
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FrenchGuy said: xpertluva said: 1) Physical attraction
2) The willingness and ability to express herself 3) Passion for life 4) Self-respect 5) Humility Whats the meaning? no suicidal tendencies? Not quite. I meant someone who sees outside of herself. There's so many interesting and peculiar things we encounter in life. There's always new things to do and to learn. I want to be with someone who wants to explore it all as opposed to just what's on the surface. Someone who isn't suicidal is nice too. | |
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Big balls - I like a guy who knows who he is and therefore has nothing to fear from me. | |
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I'm not sure I can answer this one. I'm not sure anymore. I always seem to end up with the same kind of guy, no matter what I say I'm looking for. It's frustrating. First and foremost: I want someone who is going to care about me and not try to take advantage of my love & kindness. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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1) Honesty
2) Maturity (I ain't got no time or tolerance for games) 3) Respect 4) Physical Attraction 5) Determination I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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Ex-Moderator | TheVoid said: 2. Must not be vehemently politically opposed to me. I could never date someone who didn't believe in reproductive rights, gay rights, and Lady Gaga. Yeah, that's on my list too. |
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JoeTyler said: whistle said: i only care about intelligence.
riiiiight the OP said 5 qualities aside from being pretty/beautiful. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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CarrieMpls said: TheVoid said: 2. Must not be vehemently politically opposed to me. I could never date someone who didn't believe in reproductive rights, gay rights, and Lady Gaga. Yeah, that's on my list too. I love your list With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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looks
intelligence humour confidence will choke me...hard | |
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FrenchGuy said: Mine :
1) Curves (I have a preference for thick girls for some reasons ) 2) Smart and well-educated/well-cultured (nuthing worse than bein with someone who lacks conversation or can't handle one...) 3) Artsy (I love creative and imaginative people) 4) Kinda snob (yeah, weird, but it adds some value and respect), yet open-minded (Im a weirdo sometimes ) 5) A chef (a bit cliché, but a woman, that can cook.. that just sexy ) I'm with you on the first 4. It doesn't matter if she can't cook. Neither can I. It'll be fun to learn together. | |
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united1878 said: FrenchGuy said: Mine :
1) Curves (I have a preference for thick girls for some reasons ) 2) Smart and well-educated/well-cultured (nuthing worse than bein with someone who lacks conversation or can't handle one...) 3) Artsy (I love creative and imaginative people) 4) Kinda snob (yeah, weird, but it adds some value and respect), yet open-minded (Im a weirdo sometimes ) 5) A chef (a bit cliché, but a woman, that can cook.. that just sexy ) I'm with you on the first 4. It doesn't matter if she can't cook. Neither can I. It'll be fun to learn together. I'm a ogre when it comes to food... Though I can cook, it's still great to have a girlfriend that can cook... Believe me, its quite hard nowadays... canned food, microwaved food, takeaway food? No thanx, anybody can do that ... So I consider cooking some kind of talent (and every woman in my family can cook, so I'd feel weird if my gf/wife cant...) Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants to be themselves. | |
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whistle said: JoeTyler said: riiiiight the OP said 5 qualities aside from being pretty/beautiful. ok then | |
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TheVoid said: 6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling. well, that pretty much eliminates everyone but illiterate hillbillies Power tends to corrupt; absolute power corrupts absolutely. - Lord Acton | |
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cborgman said: TheVoid said: 6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling. well, that pretty much eliminates everyone but illiterate hillbillies | |
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looks
common sense non-smoker doesn't nag has a J-O-B | |
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An intelligent, law-abiding, Alpha male who is loyal, faithful, gainfully employed, romantic and great in bed. | |
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