whistle said:

xpertluva said:

TheVoid said:

1. Must be self-deprecating without it being too obvious that you're just looking for compliments or self-pitying. (I know that's weird, but it turns me on). This actually falls under the umbrella of sense of humor which is vital.

2. Must not be vehemently politically opposed to me. I could never date someone who didn't believe in reproductive rights, gay rights, and Lady Gaga.

3. Must be polite and respectful, but not wimpy and a pushover. (there's a balance)

4. Must not talk too much. That's what my friends are for. I want a lover who is like a quiet storm.


5. Must be willing to do the grocery shopping, because I hate it so much. Thanks.






and :



6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling.

FrenchGuy said:

xpertluva said:

1) Physical attraction
2) The willingness and ability to express herself
3) Passion for life
4) Self-respect
5) Humility

Whats the meaning? no suicidal tendencies?

• Honesty / Trustworthy
  
• Spirituality / Believes in a Higher Power
  
• Sense of Humor / Can Make Me Laugh
  
• Aesthetically Pleasant (...to me)
  
• Ambition / Has Goals (has interests... aside from ME)
  

• super smart/intelligent/whatever
  
• makes me laugh and knows how to laugh himself
  
• compassionate and kind
  
• compatible taste in, well, most things, like music, style, food, etc. (This doesn't have to be an exact match at all, but enough alike that we compliment each other. I just don't know how I could sustain a long term relationship with someone who only listened to death metal and ate steak for every meal, for example.)
  
• loyal/devoted/monogamous-minded - I'm a one-man kinda girl, I expect him to be a one-woman kinda guy.

TheVoid said:

JoeTyler said:

whistle said:

i only care about intelligence.

riiiiight

CarrieMpls said:

CarrieMpls said:

FrenchGuy said:

Mine :
1) Curves (I have a preference for thick girls for some reasons )
2) Smart and well-educated/well-cultured (nuthing worse than bein with someone who lacks conversation or can't handle one...)
3) Artsy (I love creative and imaginative people)
4) Kinda snob (yeah, weird, but it adds some value and respect), yet open-minded (Im a weirdo sometimes )
5) A chef (a bit cliché, but a woman, that can cook.. that just sexy )

united1878 said:

FrenchGuy said:

Mine :
1) Curves (I have a preference for thick girls for some reasons )
2) Smart and well-educated/well-cultured (nuthing worse than bein with someone who lacks conversation or can't handle one...)
3) Artsy (I love creative and imaginative people)
4) Kinda snob (yeah, weird, but it adds some value and respect), yet open-minded (Im a weirdo sometimes )
5) A chef (a bit cliché, but a woman, that can cook.. that just sexy )

I'm with you on the first 4. It doesn't matter if she can't cook. Neither can I. It'll be fun to learn together.

I'm a ogre when it comes to food... Though I can cook, it's still great to have a girlfriend that can cook... Believe me, its quite hard nowadays... canned food, microwaved food, takeaway food? No thanx, anybody can do that ... So I consider cooking some kind of talent (and every woman in my family can cook, so I'd feel weird if my gf/wife cant...)

whistle said:

JoeTyler said:

riiiiight

the OP said 5 qualities aside from being pretty/beautiful.

TheVoid said:

6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling.

cborgman said:

TheVoid said:

6. 2. Must not have ANY hangups about my spelling.

well, that pretty much eliminates everyone but illiterate hillbillies