I'd rather force myself to walk around than spend the entire time getting angry at people for glaring at me or whispering to their companions.

PunkMistress said:

you need to perfect the mind yo own goddamn business side-eye!

In Brooklyn I could actually just open my mouth and say "da fuck you lookin' at" but that shit seems to intimidate people down South, so now I just stick with the side-eye.

now I just wanna ride one just to cut nosy ass folk with the side-eye....

BklynBabe said:

Ask Chris how many times I muttered under my breath "the fuck you looking at"!

meow85 said:

i never knew anyone who did that until I read this post, that annoys me, a lot of people have lost on or both of their parents, we don't use that as an excuse... true or not...sorry but she must be so sad in her own life to not try and move on and use that of all things....the nerve....ok rant over.

People who are late. "Oh traffic was horrible." Really, cuz we ALL got here in traffic, and we made it on time. It's a selfish and self-centered approach to dealing with things. What makes that person's time more valuable than mine or the time of anyone else? If you're that farkin' busy that you can't make the appointment, don't agree to come to it in the first place. We're not here to support your sense of busy-ness.

make fun of my taste in music, when they're favorite artists are wack (bitch, you listen to T Pain!)

chocolate1 said:

A couple of years ago I was at the doctor's office and this 60 plus year old woman is in there and she starts to vent as we spoke about this and that. Her grown kids were getting on her nerves, her siblings were a pain, than she got to her man/husband.

She said, I should've divorce that stupid ass motherfucker years ago.... Yeah, I called him a dumb motherfuker I can cuz he's my motherfucker.

I just smiled and nodded.

NDRU said:

I look young and healthy, too.

But I have joints similar to an arthritic senior citizen's, and severe asthma that can land me in the hospital if I simply walk more than a few hundred feet when the pollen count is high enough.

You would know neither of these things by looking at me.

I've had to use those stupid wheelchair thingies to get around the grocery store, and you should have seen the looks I got from people who obviously decided, based on my appearance, that I must be too young and healthy to be using the wheelchair. I wanted to die. Since then, I don't even use them when I need them. When I'm very sick with my asthma or Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Chris will urge me to use one, but I'd rather force myself to walk around than spend the entire time getting angry at people for glaring at me or whispering to their companions.

Just saying.

I do agree that both of the things you mentioned do get taken advantage of by reasonably healthy people, but it's like food stamps - everyone on the program gets looked at sideways because of a handful of people who abuse it.

when someone does something noone says nothing and then when u go and do the same thing everyone has suddenly something 2 say....different rules 4 different people, can't stand that shi*

jone70 said:

Or maybe you called back at a bad time.
You never got a return call an thought, "Now?! I called [however much time] ago!" ??

Tell people not to be so judgmental. You do realize, of course, that saying that to someone clearly involves judgment on [b]your part?[/b] What makes your judgment "better" than theirs?

PunkMistress said:

After my foot surgery I was supposed to use a wheelchair for two weeks, but I couldn't handle the looks my young, healthy-looking self was getting from so many people so after the second day I traded my chair in for crutches.

Serious said:

you come across as very reserved online

NDRU said:

Seriously?
I am not an attention whore at all, neither here not in RL, but I talk way too much

Serious said:

yeah, I guess it's harder to type than to talk. But there are some people who come across as very talkative here. You are more of a well-placed comment here, well-placed comment there type of orger

We'd have to have a conversation for me to believe you talk too much

Breathe ...

chocolate1 said:

If it's a bad time, I don't answer the phone.

when someone does something noone says nothing and then when u go and do the same thing everyone has suddenly something 2 say....different rules 4 different people, can't stand that shi*

THIS...as posted on a fb wall of someone I know


I voted.....did you



I just replied,... Nope...

WTF? Why would you ask something stupid like that? this is from the person who posted earlier she was taking her kids to vote because it would be a great learning experience... YOUR KID IS 2 FOR CHRISTS SAKE! If she wasnt family Id unfriend her...




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Telemarketers that call at the same time everyday....
If I didn't answer the FIRST 50 times, GIVE UP!!!!

when someone does something noone says nothing and then when u go and do the same thing everyone has suddenly something 2 say....different rules 4 different people, can't stand that shi*

Mfers who talk smack online. Real easy to do from behind a keyboard.

Mfers who talk smack online. Real easy to do from behind a keyboard.

missmad said:

Serious point of contention in my last relationship. I was all about even standards across the board, she was all about different standards for different people. But I mean...if it differs from person to person, can you really call it a standard?

But honestly we should've probably somehow met in the middle on that.