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Question for the heterosexual orgers If your male/female partner (husband/wife, or boyfriend/girlfriend) had a brief sexual relationship with a gay or a lesbian, respectively...
would you consider it as an unacceptable infidelity, or just sexual experimentation? Would you forgive him/her? Or would you even accept it, at least, for a while, as long as he/she doesn't "cheat" you with a male/female heterosexual?  | |
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JoeTyler said: heterosexual orgers
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Can the bisexual Orgers answer, or is this a straights-only deal? "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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it depends on how hot the other chick was | |
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meow85 said: Can the bisexual Orgers answer, or is this a straights-only deal?
show us your papers!!  A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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moderatorANYONE can answer of course | |
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RenHoek said: meow85 said: Can the bisexual Orgers answer, or is this a straights-only deal?
show us your papers!!  "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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It would be cheating, so I would be very hurt. However I think I would be less hurt as if it was with another woman, but not less worried about the future of our relationship. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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meow85 said: RenHoek said: show us your papers!! best of both worlds I suppose...  A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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Serious said: It would be cheating, so I would be very hurt. However I think I would be less hurt as if it was with another woman, but not less worried about the future of our relationship.
why? he just wants some experimentation, not another marriage! | |
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JoeTyler said: Serious said: It would be cheating, so I would be very hurt. However I think I would be less hurt as if it was with another woman, but not less worried about the future of our relationship.
why? he just wants some experimentation, not another marriage! This seems to be more of a "how do you feel about open relationships" angle than "how do you feel about bisexuality"  | |
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I'm not sure I'm qualified to answer this. Though bi, most of my relationships have been with males and to my knowledge no one's ever cheated on me.
I cannot tell a lie, I would probably be encouraging my fella to fool around with another guy if I was allowed to watch.  But that's not the scenario you're asking about, either.
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Cinnie said: JoeTyler said: why? he just wants some experimentation, not another marriage! This seems to be more of a "how do you feel about open relationships" angle than "how do you feel about bisexuality" No, were talking about "a straight married man has a sexual relationship with a gay man" and "a straight married woman has a sexual relantioship with a lesbian" and the feelings of the wife/husband about it... | |
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meow85 said: I would probably be encouraging my fella to fool around with another guy if I was allowed to watch.
But that's not the scenario you're asking about, either.
Feel free to talk about it if you want to  [Edited 5/2/10 12:19pm] | |
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Is your wife out of town? | |
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unique said: it depends on how hot the other chick was
if the other girl was ugly, you wouldn't mind?? | |
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Cinnie said: Is your wife out of town?
I'm a free spirit! get that paper away from me!! | |
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i wouldn't mind at all. hell, i encourage it. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Cinnie said: Is your wife out of town?
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JoeTyler said: meow85 said: I would probably be encouraging my fella to fool around with another guy if I was allowed to watch.
But that's not the scenario you're asking about, either.
Feel free to talk about it if you want to
Like a lot of guys dig seeing two or more hot girls together, I love seeing two or more men go at it. Though it's never happened, sadly, I have fantasized about seeing a guy I've been sexing with another guy. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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kimrachell said: Cinnie said: Is your wife out of town?
JoeTyler | |
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whistle said: i wouldn't mind at all. hell, i encourage it.
that's the right answer!! | |
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Cinnie said: kimrachell said:
JoeTyler I live alone...  | |
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meow85 said: JoeTyler said: Feel free to talk about it if you want to
Like a lot of guys dig seeing two or more hot girls together, I love seeing two or more men go at it. Though it's never happened, sadly, I have fantasized about seeing a guy I've been sexing with another guy. While I think 2 men making out would be hot to watch I still would not want my man have sex with anybody else but me. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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JoeTyler said: Serious said: It would be cheating, so I would be very hurt. However I think I would be less hurt as if it was with another woman, but not less worried about the future of our relationship.
why? he just wants some experimentation, not another marriage! But I want him to not have sex with anybody else but me and he knows that. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Cinnie said: JoeTyler said: why? he just wants some experimentation, not another marriage! This seems to be more of a "how do you feel about open relationships" angle than "how do you feel about bisexuality" Exactly  With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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JoeTyler said: Cinnie said:
JoeTyler I live alone... aw fuck yah  | |
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JoeTyler said: Cinnie said: This seems to be more of a "how do you feel about open relationships" angle than "how do you feel about bisexuality" No, were talking about "a straight married man has a sexual relationship with a gay man" and "a straight married woman has a sexual relantioship with a lesbian" and the feelings of the wife/husband about it... Right and my feelings are the way they are because I don't want an open relationship no matter if he cheats with another man or woman. And no matter if it is only about sex and nothing more. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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Serious said: meow85 said: Like a lot of guys dig seeing two or more hot girls together, I love seeing two or more men go at it. Though it's never happened, sadly, I have fantasized about seeing a guy I've been sexing with another guy. While I think 2 men making out would be hot to watch I still would not want my man have sex with anybody else but me. How about two OTHER men? Your guy can go make popcorn or something. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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meow85 said: Serious said: While I think 2 men making out would be hot to watch I still would not want my man have sex with anybody else but me. How about two OTHER men? Your guy can go make popcorn or something. Just watching: yes sure . Even though I guess I would have to tell my guy and ask him if it is okay for him as I would expect him to do the same if he was about to watch 2 women
Participating: no because I am in a relationship and don't want to have sex with anybody else but my man even if he might not mind With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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