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Reply #120 posted 05/07/10 7:34am

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How did the story end, by the way? Is she still on ur balls? lol

Honestly, be frank. Tell her things straight. The truth. She may cry, damn U, threaten U, but at the end of the day she'll leave U alone.

I went thru the same shit with a woman of the same kind. I was 24 she was 28 and single a single mother with a 3 year old son. We met in a bar, we exchanged digits, talked. Few days later she invited me to her place and we had some (nice) sex. .. Well she started kissing me, ask for cuddling and we both got horny and we had sex. Damn I wish this never happened.

She started sending 20 text messages a day, asking what I'm doin, where am l, how was my day, etc... At first it looks kinda cute... But the woman started telling everybody I was her boyfriend, she was buying me gifts almost daily (She bought me "Parade", "Batman" and "Lovesexy" vinyles.. im grateful 4 that though cool )..

One day I just told her the truth : I wasnt ready for a relationship, I was a happy single male. She 'agreed' of course, and we became "friends"... But man, this was only the beginning : She started asking friend requests from my female friends on facebook and questionning them like" how do u know him? Ever gone out together?", and that b@!#h even send a threatening message to my ex-girlfriend telling her she was the reason I coulnt go out with any onther chick.. I just called that woman and told her I was gonna call the police... She stopped right away...

Lesson learned : Don't believe a woman will have sex with you for the sake of "having sex" (unless she's coming out of jail or sumthing lol )... No woman ever gives the cookie for free.. Never ever ever. She'll always have some kind of expectations...

What U should do
1) Call her and tell her U want things to stop. Be firm, dont let her sugarchocolatehoney voice/cry fool you. We all know how many women are good are manipulating people with emotions (especially 'that' kind... She strives so much for love and affection she'll do ANYTHING to get U!!)

2) If she doesnt stop, threaten her to call the police (like I did) : "I got ALL your insisting messages, your calls if U dont stop I'm going to the Police and tell them U're stalking me'... Harsh but effective lol
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Reply #121 posted 05/07/10 7:39am

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FrenchGuy said:

How did the story end, by the way? Is she still on ur balls? lol

Honestly, be frank. Tell her things straight. The truth. She may cry, damn U, threaten U, but at the end of the day she'll leave U alone.

I went thru the same shit with a woman of the same kind. I was 24 she was 28 and single a single mother with a 3 year old son. We met in a bar, we exchanged digits, talked. Few days later she invited me to her place and we had some (nice) sex. .. Well she started kissing me, ask for cuddling and we both got horny and we had sex. Damn I wish this never happened.

She started sending 20 text messages a day, asking what I'm doin, where am l, how was my day, etc... At first it looks kinda cute... But the woman started telling everybody I was her boyfriend, she was buying me gifts almost daily (She bought me "Parade", "Batman" and "Lovesexy" vinyles.. im grateful 4 that though cool )..

One day I just told her the truth : I wasnt ready for a relationship, I was a happy single male. She 'agreed' of course, and we became "friends"... But man, this was only the beginning : She started asking friend requests from my female friends on facebook and questionning them like" how do u know him? Ever gone out together?", and that b@!#h even send a threatening message to my ex-girlfriend telling her she was the reason I coulnt go out with any onther chick.. I just called that woman and told her I was gonna call the police... She stopped right away...

Lesson learned : Don't believe a woman will have sex with you for the sake of "having sex" (unless she's coming out of jail or sumthing lol )... No woman ever gives the cookie for free.. Never ever ever. She'll always have some kind of expectations...

What U should do
1) Call her and tell her U want things to stop. Be firm, dont let her sugarchocolatehoney voice/cry fool you. We all know how many women are good are manipulating people with emotions (especially 'that' kind... She strives so much for love and affection she'll do ANYTHING to get U!!)

2) If she doesnt stop, threaten her to call the police (like I did) : "I got ALL your insisting messages, your calls if U dont stop I'm going to the Police and tell them U're stalking me'... Harsh but effective lol


Please. You totally stole that story line from I Could Never Take the Place of Your Man. hmph!
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Reply #122 posted 05/07/10 7:44am

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Genesia said:[quote]

FrenchGuy said:

I was 24 she was 28 and single a single mother with a 3 year old son. We met in a bar, we exchanged digits, talked. Few days later she invited me to her place and we had some (nice) sex. .. Well she started kissing me, ask for cuddling and we both got horny and we had sex. Damn I wish this never happened.

Please. You totally stole that story line from I Could Never Take the Place of Your Man. hmph!


lol lol ?? what?? I swear I didnt. It really happened to me.
Gonna check those lyrics though (unless my subconsciousness is playing tricks confused )
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Reply #123 posted 05/07/10 7:46am

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FrenchGuy said:


Lesson learned : Don't believe a woman will have sex with you for the sake of "having sex" (unless she's coming out of jail or sumthing lol )... No woman ever gives the cookie for free.. Never ever ever. She'll always have some kind of expectations...


Wrong. Very wrong. Although most women may be like this, it's certainly not all. So it's not "never ever ever".

Believe it or not, some women actually just enjoy sex with no strings like some men do and have no other expectations other than getting off and having a good time.
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Reply #124 posted 05/07/10 7:51am

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eek Actually you're right!! Its a song I can relate to! lol
At least the girl in the song was rather honest. That woman I messed with was quite smart. She agreed being "just a friend", but she acted differently: What's up with theatening my ex?? (still wondering how she found her name!!) making my friends hers? Making up stories about "us"??
I'm kinda paranoid now whenever I interact with a girl confused
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Reply #125 posted 05/07/10 7:55am

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JustErin said:

FrenchGuy said:


Lesson learned : Don't believe a woman will have sex with you for the sake of "having sex" (unless she's coming out of jail or sumthing lol )... No woman ever gives the cookie for free.. Never ever ever. She'll always have some kind of expectations...


Wrong. Very wrong. Although most women may be like this, it's certainly not all. So it's not "never ever ever".

Believe it or not, some women actually just enjoy sex with no strings like some men do and have no other expectations other than getting off and having a good time.


Yeh, maybe the 'never ever ever' was bit too much, but nevertheless, that's not the majority.. Or I'm not lucky when it comes to having one-night stands: The girls I've met always wanted more (Im not talking about sex lol , just more time together, becoming quite intrusive and possessive too.. I'm like... eek ... So how do one-night stands work?? confused )
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Reply #126 posted 05/07/10 8:01am

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FrenchGuy said:

JustErin said:



Wrong. Very wrong. Although most women may be like this, it's certainly not all. So it's not "never ever ever".

Believe it or not, some women actually just enjoy sex with no strings like some men do and have no other expectations other than getting off and having a good time.


Yeh, maybe the 'never ever ever' was bit too much, but nevertheless, that's not the majority.. Or I'm not lucky when it comes to having one-night stands: The girls I've met always wanted more (Im not talking about sex lol , just more time together, becoming quite intrusive and possessive too.. I'm like... eek ... So how do one-night stands work?? confused )


Don't do one night stands then. I don't - ever. Even though I am in a situation with no strings (it's been almost 10 years now - whenever we are both single) I know the person very, very well and did before this all started.
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Reply #127 posted 05/07/10 8:07am

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JustErin said:

FrenchGuy said:



Yeh, maybe the 'never ever ever' was bit too much, but nevertheless, that's not the majority.. Or I'm not lucky when it comes to having one-night stands: The girls I've met always wanted more (Im not talking about sex lol , just more time together, becoming quite intrusive and possessive too.. I'm like... eek ... So how do one-night stands work?? confused )


Don't do one night stands then. I don't - ever. Even though I am in a situation with no strings (it's been almost 10 years now - whenever we are both single) I know the person very, very well and did before this all started.


sad No more one-night stands?? Thats a hell of a dilemma : I enjoy some sex (and affection tto) every now and then like everybody does, but I don't want the commitment... Such a shame sexuality is now emprisoned by the ideology of monogamy ... Whatever happens to flirting?? sad

So i guess I'll have to choose between wanking etrnally or.. hookers? confused
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Reply #128 posted 05/07/10 8:12am

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FrenchGuy said:

JustErin said:



Don't do one night stands then. I don't - ever. Even though I am in a situation with no strings (it's been almost 10 years now - whenever we are both single) I know the person very, very well and did before this all started.


sad No more one-night stands?? Thats a hell of a dilemma : I enjoy some sex (and affection tto) every now and then like everybody does, but I don't want the commitment... Such a shame sexuality is now emprisoned by the ideology of monogamy ... Whatever happens to flirting?? sad

So i guess I'll have to choose between wanking etrnally or.. hookers? confused


You do know that flirting and sex aren't the same thing...right?
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Reply #129 posted 05/07/10 8:21am

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Genesia said:

FrenchGuy said:



sad No more one-night stands?? Thats a hell of a dilemma : I enjoy some sex (and affection tto) every now and then like everybody does, but I don't want the commitment... Such a shame sexuality is now emprisoned by the ideology of monogamy ... Whatever happens to flirting?? sad

So i guess I'll have to choose between wanking etrnally or.. hookers? confused


You do know that flirting and sex aren't the same thing...right?

... Apparently not confused ... Maybe we have a diffrent definition in France : here, flirting is more like "sex-friend" than "platonic relationship"...
And personnally, I mean 'flirting' à la French razz
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Reply #130 posted 05/07/10 8:29am

booty

ya i made the mistake of giving the wrong folx my number and now suffer with the same thing. just take it as a lesson lol


men and women can't communicate
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Reply #131 posted 05/07/10 9:23am

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FrenchGuy said:

JustErin said:



Don't do one night stands then. I don't - ever. Even though I am in a situation with no strings (it's been almost 10 years now - whenever we are both single) I know the person very, very well and did before this all started.


sad No more one-night stands?? Thats a hell of a dilemma : I enjoy some sex (and affection tto) every now and then like everybody does, but I don't want the commitment... Such a shame sexuality is now emprisoned by the ideology of monogamy ... Whatever happens to flirting?? sad

So i guess I'll have to choose between wanking etrnally or.. hookers? confused


Huh? Did you not read what I said? Not having one nighters doesn't mean you only have monogamous relationships. It's definitely not jsut one or the other.
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Reply #132 posted 05/07/10 4:50pm

booty

check it out:
so i met a guy didn't like his neighbors hanging out and shit.
i end up saying im leaving then he starts talking all this crap about how i should give him a week to proove himself which he's just acting a fool the more i hang out with this guy. but all the dramma with begging to stay/ ear hussleing is lame and guys act so stupid sometimes i don't know lol
on the side of that i had dramma at home my key was tooken from me, then it was giving back, what? LOL. Being away from home can change things sometimes
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Reply #133 posted 05/07/10 6:03pm

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Yeah, but Fury -- you're the one with the big dick, right?
Who posted the picture? THAT'S WHY SHE'S POSSESSIVE. lol
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Reply #134 posted 05/07/10 6:39pm

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FrenchGuy said:

JustErin said:



Wrong. Very wrong. Although most women may be like this, it's certainly not all. So it's not "never ever ever".

Believe it or not, some women actually just enjoy sex with no strings like some men do and have no other expectations other than getting off and having a good time.


Yeh, maybe the 'never ever ever' was bit too much, but nevertheless, that's not the majority.. Or I'm not lucky when it comes to having one-night stands: The girls I've met always wanted more (Im not talking about sex lol , just more time together, becoming quite intrusive and possessive too.. I'm like... eek ... So how do one-night stands work?? confused )

eek Damn, what kind of psycho's are y'all attracting or better yet what kind of dick slang y'all putting on these women? lol
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Reply #135 posted 05/11/10 5:06pm

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KidaDynamite said:

FrenchGuy said:



Yeh, maybe the 'never ever ever' was bit too much, but nevertheless, that's not the majority.. Or I'm not lucky when it comes to having one-night stands: The girls I've met always wanted more (Im not talking about sex lol , just more time together, becoming quite intrusive and possessive too.. I'm like... eek ... So how do one-night stands work?? confused )

eek Damn, what kind of psycho's are y'all attracting or better yet what kind of dick slang y'all putting on these women? lol


lol lol

.... Hey Fury... No more update?? smile
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Reply #136 posted 05/11/10 5:09pm

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FrenchGuy said:

KidaDynamite said:


eek Damn, what kind of psycho's are y'all attracting or better yet what kind of dick slang y'all putting on these women? lol


lol lol

.... Hey Fury... No more update?? smile

funny you should ask...i have not called her...but she hit me up for some sex. i haven't responded back... lol
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Reply #137 posted 05/11/10 5:29pm

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Fury said:

FrenchGuy said:



lol lol

.... Hey Fury... No more update?? smile

funny you should ask...i have not called her...but she hit me up for some sex. i haven't responded back... lol


You liar! lol lol
Men (males) are weak they say.. They say... lol
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Reply #138 posted 05/11/10 5:41pm

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FrenchGuy said:

Fury said:


funny you should ask...i have not called her...but she hit me up for some sex. i haven't responded back... lol


You liar! lol lol
Men (males) are weak they say.. They say... lol

no really...i haven't.
lol

it was good...but not good enough to be all hemmed up. i'm fairly certain i'm gonna pass on the free poonanny....she scared me eek
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Reply #139 posted 05/11/10 5:50pm

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Fury said:

FrenchGuy said:



You liar! lol lol
Men (males) are weak they say.. They say... lol

no really...i haven't.
lol

it was good...but not good enough to be all hemmed up. i'm fairly certain i'm gonna pass on the free poonanny....she scared me eek


Talkin' about a psycho?? Here's the next episode of your story : lol lol lol

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Reply #140 posted 05/11/10 6:19pm

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Fury said:

went on a casual/blind date on thursday night. attractive, nice job, nice penthouse apt...awesome sex. i declined the offer to stay over, but we agreed to maybe see each other the next day. she had out of town plans saturday/sunday and i had to work, so no biggie. sunday she called (i missed the call) which then resulted in a text message 2 hours later "u not gonna call me back?" so i call back, leave a message...and she calls back but i'm taking a nap from the heat an hour later. i get another text: "i guess ur not going to answer me"

something just doesn't seem right with this one--seems a little possessive of my time/whereabouts after one date. or am i just reading too much into this?
[Edited 5/3/10 0:04am]


Sounds needy, son!
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Reply #141 posted 05/12/10 12:05am

Ottensen

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NMuzakNSoul said:



You showed her the dick swing, didn't you. DIDN'T YOU??!! Now's shes all over you. lol

Seems a little weird, I'd take it easy with this one.

lol and yeahthat



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Reply #142 posted 05/12/10 12:07am

Ottensen

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WTF???!! did she just call me at 7:20 AM? mad
the only place i call at 7:20 is my job to say i'm not coming. mad



falloff
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Reply #143 posted 05/12/10 12:17am

Ottensen

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KidaDynamite said:


And watch out if she offers you any food with red pasta sauce. lol

Why are these Manicottis tied up with string?


Oh my damn falloff falloff falloff
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Reply #144 posted 05/12/10 12:28am

Ottensen

FrenchGuy said:

Fury said:


no really...i haven't.
lol

it was good...but not good enough to be all hemmed up. i'm fairly certain i'm gonna pass on the free poonanny....she scared me eek


Talkin' about a psycho?? Here's the next episode of your story : lol lol lol



This should be up for the 2010 nomination of tops threads of the year,I love it lol . Still, I hope it works out for you alright, Fury lol
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Reply #145 posted 05/12/10 12:31am

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She gave up the pussy to a BLIND DATE?!
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Reply #146 posted 05/12/10 12:32am

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DanceWme said:

Fury said:

she kept my damn drawers!!!! (like the ones i have on in my profile pic)...she said it would give me a reason to come back. i thought it was sexy at first...but now... boxed

falloff


she got them hangin in her closet where she plans on makin a shrine of all ur shit

she's gonna use the scent to hunt him down. She's buying Bloodhounds....or Nuthounds lol
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Reply #147 posted 05/12/10 7:14am

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bboy87 said:

She gave up the pussy to a BLIND DATE?!

lol lol
... Not really. Everyones dick is one-eyed...
No matter how hard U want a pussy, believe me, U gotta be careful... From experience, sooo many people out there are inhibited psychos just waiting 4 the 'right' person to mess with... lol AND it's not writen on their face confused
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Reply #148 posted 05/13/10 6:37pm

hokie

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You hit the pussy before tapping into her mind no no no!


lol


dang that sux dude



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Reply #149 posted 05/14/10 12:17am

booty

FrenchGuy said:

bboy87 said:

She gave up the pussy to a BLIND DATE?!

lol lol
... Not really. Everyones dick is one-eyed...
No matter how hard U want a pussy, believe me, U gotta be careful... From experience, sooo many people out there are inhibited psychos just waiting 4 the 'right' person to mess with... lol AND it's not writen on their face confused



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