Fury said:

BklynBabe said:

i was gonna call before she got all haywire and shit. let me miss the kitty for a minute

1) you shouldn't have slept with her on a blind date

2) once she texted u "u not going to call me back"? You shouldn't have answered and just let her go from that point on.

If she doesn't give you ample time to return her call (ahem, 24 hours at the very least) then she is pressed and possessed and needs to repossessed.

Is the mutual friend male or female?

Fury said:

better reply to my post in 30 min, muhfugga!

ThreadCula said:

platonic female...she just figured we'd have mutual interests..which we do

Fury said:

...which aren't food, convo, movies

BklynBabe said:

lol... i really like doing fun stuff in the summer--concerts on the water, theme parks, short trips--nothing to heavy. i used to do this stuff with my sister and godsister, until they both got boo-ed up. my platonic co-worker is dating somebody now, so i can't take her. i just hate the drama that dating/getting to know somebody usually brings. i'm really too set in my ways to be trying to figure this "what women want" stuff. i need a chick who is happy in her own skin, not looking for anything heavy and just wants to have a good time (not necessarily in bed)

damn man.

That's what you get for sleeping with her on the first date!

Fury said:

Unless you find the rare woman who doesn't mind being treated like a piece of ass, sex always makes it heavy.

Next time, take her to a concert on the water or a theme park - the things you say you like to do - and leave the sex for later. Or, if you want no commitment, leave sex alone completely until you get a clear signal that she's up for that kind of relationship.

Fury said:

too bad you aren't in NC, I'd let you buy me dinner and whatnot!
and I wouldn't even call the next day!

Fury said:

does she know this? Hmmmmm?

i don't think it's your fault, she gave up the sex right away on the first date, and she didn't have to do that. but she did, so she must of wanted it that way. and after she called and sent you a text you did leave her a message too. so she should chill and allow you some time to return her call. 7 calls in that short of time is too much IMO! the sex must of been really, really good, maybe she's addicted?? be careful some woman are nuts!

kimrachell said:

obviously he just slanged that dick in those 10 dollar draws and it was on and poppin'

Fury said:

Get rid of her. Tell her it's over and runnnnn!!!!

She sounds possessive and controlling

DanceWme said:

I was gonna post the EXACT same comment!!! Except I was gonna say it like this: It wasn't just a date. You had sex with this woman/stranger. Ever seen the movie "Thin Line Between Love And Hate?"

Why the sex even happened is beyond my comprehension, but since it did, she obviously feels entitled to attention from you because of it, and must like you as well, but thinks you're now ignoring her. I wouldn't call that being possessive. It's just a product of a bad decision (the sex), and bad timing (with the phone calls). If you hadn't slept with her (and if she had some restraint herself to decline having sex ), she most likely wouldn't sound so annoyed from not being able to contact you.

JustErin said:

Thank her for the piece of ass and be DONE WITH HER!

JustErin said:

OK, call her.....

TD3 said:

I love it. Make her responsible for her ridiculousness!

Fury said:

Oh lawd, haven't you listened to Richard Pryor? Once she bury yo' draws in the yard, your're done!

Seriously though, its not unusual for a lady to expect a follow up call once she gives up the poon. She's probably wondering if she made a mistake and wants some reassurance, but that doesn't excuse her acting like a love sick puppy.

I thought that in this day and age, grown folks, (people over 40), pretty much lay their cards on the table before they get busy? I have to know some background info and dude's expectations before they even get invited over, much less knockin' boots. Too many nuts around these days,

Call her already and clear the air. Level with her about your intentions and find out what she expected, then decide if this is somebody you really want to be bothered with.

I used to see this dude who would call me at home at 6:30.
Problem was I worked until 7:00
Once he started leaving me messages like why hadn't I called him, all desire dried up like the Sahara.

Shyra said:

And watch out if she offers you any food with red pasta sauce.

KidaDynamite said:

Why are these Manicottis tied up with string?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

KidaDynamite said:

I misspelled Maniclotti

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

That works for the sauce, though.