Fury said:

I dont know her....but maybe she feels she needs to be loved. Thats why she wanted to do it. It was casual for u,not for her

Thats why its best not to do it too soon...you have to get things out in the open first
[Edited 5/3/10 7:19am]

She's clingy it seems. A first date, sex and she wants you to stay for breakfast?
I bet she would have let you stay for lunch and dinner all week if you wanted too.

Call her now, tell her its over because she's all clingy. She broke the rule, call once then let him call back. A woman should never call twice and not before 9:00am. She allowed you to hurt her feelings, and its wayyyyy to soon for all that stuff that she's saying.

Run, hard and fast.

....or maybe she's calling because you have her undies and she wants em back

paintedlady said:

Oh fuck those stupid rules. The day I live by stupid dating rules is the day I want to be shot in the head.

Just do what you want, but be prepared for any and all consequences that come your way.

she kept my damn drawers!!!! (like the ones i have on in my profile pic)...she said it would give me a reason to come back. i thought it was sexy at first...but now...

Fury said:

she got them hangin in her closet where she plans on makin a shrine of all ur shit

DanceWme said:

No, shes WEARING them!

You're 42 years old and you don't know that having sex with a woman (for a lot of women, anyway) results in "expectations" on their part?

Dude - get a clue.

tinaz said:

you guys are no help

them fuckers were $9.99 each. i should have gone over there with some holey ass tidy-whitey's on.

Fury said:

tinaz said:

co

JustErin said:

Yeah, but some women NEED those rules of etiquette because they lack the confidence to handle a one night stand or a FB. Shit that beats staring at a clock counting the minutes waiting for a call... and I bet she's getting angrier by the minute too.

Genesia said:

You know damn well he knows that, but men always hope to hit and quit in these situations, so her expectations are her problem not his.

Genesia said:

it's not my fault. we didn't have dinner-- or even watch a movie. i could see if i took her out and expected something out of it. i'm thinking maybe she said meet at her place because i would be impressed (and i was, actually). i probably would still be interested if she actually gave me a friggin chance to call --on my own time-- and not seem like i was all pressed to knock it again. i would have called and said let's do lunch--it's not as expectation heavy as dinner or a "date"

tinaz said:

Yeah...you should have.

You wouldnt be in the mess you're in now.

Your dick is gonna fall off

Fury said:

Wait a minute. You went to her place and hopped right in the sack?

Wow. Okay, that's dumb enough that you deserve whatever you get.

paintedlady said:

Really? I'd say this thread is proof that her expectations are his problem, at the moment.

Genesia said:

well..yeah i guess. we have a mutual friend that kind of hooked us up. we talked on the phone a few times that day and exhanged pics over the phone (face)..the convo was sexy but not dirty. the sex really wasn't supposed to happen. she invited me over and i said i'd let her know how i felt after i got home and showered. i wasn't feeling drained after my 20 mile drive home, so i went on over. it all just kind of happened. did i KNOW it was gonna pop off?? no...did i THINK it was gonna pop off--yeah i guess.

i thought women wanted the same things that men want? a good roll in the hay and show u the damn door?

Fury said:

nevermind...
[Edited 5/3/10 7:49am]

Genesia said:

I stand thoroughly corrected. Fury's gonna get someone doing a voodoo chant on his man panties.

paintedlady said:

After she brews them in water and drinks the "tea"

Fury said:

Depends on the woman. In this case, clearly not.

And with that "we talked on the phone a few times that day," you established that it was okay to talk on the phone a few times a day. So now she's a psycho for continuing something that was okay before?

I think we have a pretty clear picture now. Live and learn.

paintedlady said:

Richard Pryor(from 'Is it Something I Said?'):

"I told him to leave that heffa alone, see?...cuz I know she KNOWS somethin'! What she did was put a HEX on his ass...made that n***a sick!"

Maybe she keeps calling because she wants to fuck some more.

phunkdaddy said:

If that were the case....she would have said so in a text or voicemail.

She's mad cuz her chocha was used and abandoned.

I just hope HE brought the condom... It didnt come from her dresser did it?

tinaz said:

Genesia said:

by a few times i mean it was the initial call, the follow up call because i was at work, and then one more after that...all totaling maybe 30 minutes. it's not the frequency of the phone calls so much as the expectation of when a missed call is supposed to be returned. i don't call anybody 7 times in two days...like i said, it could be her, it could be me...that's why i'm asking.

tinaz said:

i ALWAYS take my own jimmies...call me old fashioned and responsible. like i said i'm not trying to have no kids (or STD's) at my age---kids fuck up your vacation plans (cuz u can't afford them anymore)

JustErin said:

co signed!

ps ladies it is 2010, you laid out chocha and didn't even let dude spring for a KFC bucket? OMG At least get a free meal out of it, go see a matinee, something You can expect let him hit it that easy, he may be in no rush to call or text yo dumb ass.....
[Edited 5/3/10 8:11am]