it's a silly question--obviously it should last until everybody gets off, but at what point does it get tedious?

can sex that ends in under 5 minutes be 'great'? 10 minutes?

I don't thing there's some "standards" when it comes to hw long sex shoud last.. depends on both the 'giver' and 'receiver' :
Many dudes think pounding a vagina for 2hours à la porn star is the way to go, while many women think it gets boring, tiresome (hey, it probably aint no fun having ur legs spread for 50 minutes !!) and painful (boredom + being tired = no more horny, so the coochie dries up and the friction and the strokes become unbearable )
On the other hand, some dudes think spitting the yogurt after a few minutes (seconds? ) is okay, as long as they're having fun... And some girls wish it could last longer..

So its quite hard for both partners to cum at the same time : Actually most people would agree that the perfect duration is when sexual partner cum/reach their climax at the same time... Good luck!! It happens quite rarely, from what I know (and been told)...

I don't wanna sound sexist or 'selfish', but its not essential for a woman to have an orgasm during sexual intercourse. yeah i said it.. As long as she is enjoying having GOOD sex with her partner, thats ok. she should reach orgasm every now and then, but guyz, pleeeaaase stop being obsessed with "making a girl" cum.. It aint that easy, unless U r a comfortably settled couple who know each other well or u r that girl's #1 fantasy

The answer that popped into my head was "...Until your spouse pulls into the driveway."

Lord, please forgive me. I've clearly been hanging out among these GD Forum types too much of late.

Lammastide said:

minneapolisgenius said:

I think he should hang here more often.

HamsterHuey said:

Me too.

minneapolisgenius said:

Even MORE?

Jeeeez. You already practically LIVE here...

HamsterHuey said:

No, I live on facebook. I have my own cot set up in back there.

minneapolisgenius said:

I love on some other sites as well..

HamsterHuey said:

Undoubtedly.

minneapolisgenius said:

LIVE
Damnit. I can't type today.

Well, there's love involved on some of them. Hot sweaty sexy love.

Coming from you and all.

FrenchGuy said:

Have you lost your mind ?! If I don't get off it's not good sex, my man better obsess about breaking me off some. What women like or what makes us cum differs, but I have no problem showing or telling you. ( i read your other post below too)


I'm not into the marathon sex..... shorter sessions multiply times. Throw in a quicky ever so often.




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whistle said:

An hour is good enough for me. Then leave please...like tonight, which was perfect. Come over, a little chit chat, an hour of a whole lot of filth and then bye bye...all that's left is the smell of his great whatever he was wearing on me now, just enough to remind me of what happened earlier and now it's time to go to sleep.

JustErin said:

Tremolina said:

That was almost...romantic.

Tremolina said:

That was almost...romantic.

PunkMistress said:

Geez, it makes me wonder how JustErin would pillow talk to her man in the afterglow:

"Oooh baby, you were so awesome tonight. I love the way you felt inside me, and you totally rocked my body. I can't wait for you to cum inside me next time. Until then, get the fuck outta my house!"

Tremolina said:

That was almost...romantic.

TD3 said:

phunkdaddy said:

I. LOVE. QUICKIES.

Just squeezing them in on a quick lunch break or right before you have to somewhere...they're exciting and give you the naughty feeling like you're getting away with something

The answer that popped into my head was "...Until your spouse pulls into the driveway."

Lord, please forgive me. I've clearly been hanging out among these GD Forum types too much of late.

An hour is good enough for me. Then leave please...like tonight, which was perfect. Come over, a little chit chat, an hour of a whole lot of filth and then bye bye...all that's left is the smell of his great whatever he was wearing on me now, just enough to remind me of what happened earlier and now it's time to go to sleep.

JustErin said:

Exactly...none of that cuddling shit.