JoeTyler said:

i might get jealous and wanna join in if the other girl was hot

Serious said:

Fair enough.

Hey, we can watch together! Tell your fella I like lots of butter on my popcorn.

my wife sleeping with another woman just doesn't hurt my ego. that's probably stupid and sexist on my part--i'm sure your average lesbian could curl ms. whistle's toes in ways i've never dreamt of--but i expect a woman to be able to do that. it just wouldn't bother me.

meow85 said:

I will . I am just afraid he would be much more interested in fucking you and me than making popcorn for us .

Serious said:

I'm just here for the show.

As long as i could watch, with the option of joining in...then go girl fill ya boots
But as she says Im a filthy swine, therefore my answer is so predictable
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Serious said:

Just watching or ..ehem...something else...?

meow85 said:

Perfect

JoeTyler said:

I don't know. It would depend on the situation and how I feel in that moment and on what I talked to my bf about it before.

Good question. My wife recently fell kinda hard for a girl she knows. Young 20 year old, cute girl, it's not like I can lie and say certain things didn't cross my mind, but really I'm not cool with it the same way I wouldn't be if it were a guy. It was more of an emotional thing anyway, rather than sexual. In the end the missus was just at a bit of a low ebb and needed to think some things through. She didn't cheat, but she felt like she had strong feelings for the girl. I wasn't mad at her.

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Cheating is cheating, regardless of the gender.

And that doesn't work for me.

I think, I would think that if it didn't bother me a lot, that I don't care about him enough.

JoeTyler said:

but what if mrs whistle fell in love and ran away with a lady!

On night, drunk at a bar in Brooklyn, me and the master did have this very discussion. I have the green light. Except I don't think he has thought ahead far enough about any emotional ties that might arise.

ZombieKitten said:

I said brief sexual relationship

ZombieKitten said:

Yeah, it's not sexy or hot if your wife leaves you for a woman for good.

JoeTyler said:

like you can tell your heart to hold it's horses just like that!! It's always going to be a risk, unless you choose someone you don't like to

Fauxie said:

that would be embarassing

ZombieKitten said:

Well, I wouldn't say embarrassing, but potentially painful certainly.

ZombieKitten said:

many people can have sexual relationships (cheating or not) without falling in love, just for the lust of it...

ZombieKitten said:

then she was never really mine anyway...

if you have to lie and cheat for any reason, I'm gonna have a problem with you!

JoeTyler said:

many but not me

my thought is infidelity is infidelity is infidelity.

the gender is beside the point in my eyes.

HOWEVER, if my theoretical boyfriend was gay and had an urge to see how the straight folk live, and it was discussed with boundaries set beforehand, i would not be against it in a way that i would iff he just wanted to fuck another boy.

but if he was already established as bi, i would be a little less open to it, but not closed off.

if he could justify to me that it is something he wants or needs, then i think i would be open to it. experimentation i am open to, and if a woman can give him something i can't...

BklynBabe said:

I don't lie, I don't cheat...

ZombieKitten said:

not even when U were a 17 years old??
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cborgman said:

JoeTyler said:

are you kidding me?!?!?! ESPECIALLY not then I was going around falling in love painfully all over the place back then

Cheating is cheating, no matter what sex the person is.

If my woman cheated on me with another woman, than maybe she doesn't need to be with a man.

I would hope that she would tell me that she had bisexual tendencies before it got to that point.