ZombieKitten said:

what

ZombieKitten said:

OOH can I rub his hairy man-titties and make 2 wishes???

JoeTyler said:

I get what you're sayin. I have to say tho for me, I'd prefer that someone be persistent because they actually are under the wrong impression than just because they think they can get you to do something with them in spite of your preferences. I've experienced this and seen more than a few straight men and women do this to others.

In the end everyone just wants to get laid is all I guess.

JoeTyler said:

Totally agree with your comment. I think you handle it the right way. I'm lucky to have friends that feel the same way.

^^ Thank you both

But I also wanted to say that many, many, many gay men that I've known somehow knew from the beginning if I was straight or gay; it makes me think if the famous gaydar actually exists

JoeTyler said:

Gaydar is just a fun word for instinct and instincts can be wrong.

johnart said:

And God, my gaydar is off all the bloody time

MacDaddy said:

The instinct I'm talkin about is supposed to happen in the head above your shoulders.

johnart said:

johnart said:

No wonder I get beaten up all the time

cborgman said:

Thank you. I'm no great shakes, really. I know I'm alright and that's cool. I've never been seriously hit on by a gay guy away from the net, or by too many women come to think of it It's not like I can walk down the street and a guy will say "you're ultra-cute" then as I pass a bus stop a girl drools, a guy bats his eyelids and another girl sticks her tongue out at me. We've gotten to know each other here so we show our affection towards each other, but we're not objective. It's not to say it's all completely disingenuous but we stroke each others' egos around here and many of the compliments are very much about affection or plain good ol' fun.

Fauxie said:

Actually, you're much better looking than you give yourself credit for.
I didn't hit on you because I don't hit on men generally, you're married, Mon has a history of beating you in public, and flirting in this oppressive heat risks heat stroke.

TheVoid said:

Thanks. I just tend to base how good looking I think I am on my experiences of the level of attention I've received. It hasn't been all that much, is all. It could be down to shyness though, I know. Being under the radar perhaps. When I'm feeling really happy and sociable and get talking to people I do seem to be able to hold their attention so I think I must have something cool to offer. Most of the time I'd call myself really rather dull but if I'm feeling comfortable and happy I've noticed I seem to get more child-like and some women seem to dig this? Just appears to me they do because it's the only time I've felt like I was anything close to captivating. I'm not sure it would 'work' if I were single and actually looking to hook up though, rather than just making conversation with new people. I think if I have some kind of charm like that it depends to a great deal on my being in a relationship, feeling free and saying whatever the hell I want without anything riding on it.

Fauxie said:

You're not dull at all.
You're insecure, and emotional basket case, and extremely cynical. It's very British and I think that's hot.

TheVoid said:

Am I a basket case? Really? I'd like to think I'm not that extreme. 'Eccentric' sounds so much more flattering.

I'm not cynical though, not really. Only when I'm being facetious, which granted is most of the time, but my brain isn't thinking what my mouth is saying half of the time. My sunshiney nice side is far closer to how I really feel. The cynicism is for kicks.

Anyway, let's get this back on topic.

Or a slightly different one.

Dan, have you had any experiences of being chased by ladyboys? Like, physically chased.

Dave1992 said:

Try pulling your finger out of your arse.

Fauxie said:

No!

Remember that one time I met the European tourists and went out for a night on the town that ended up in some seedy go-go boy club where they had these body-building butch (surprisingly) men on stage boffing the crap out of each other to Paula Abdul songs (people, I am just not clever enough to make this stuff up).

Well at that club one of the hosts was a ladyboy who took a keen liking to me, and sat and rubbed my leg. Now, I'm no prude, but I hate body contact and don't like to be touched--I fucking despise cuddling after sex. ... well, she eventually got the hint, but that is as close as I came to being chased by a ladyboy. She wasn't a passable ladyboy either--more of a ladyboy who also dressed in men's clothes. Thailand has an abundance of variation!

TheVoid said:

vivid said:

But you'd never know it when I pretend to adore it.

TheVoid said:

You gonna pretend for our entire life together?

vivid said:

I'll do anything to make something work, except go to Janet Jackson concerts with you. I have to draw the line somewhere.

Oh, and I don't like to shop. .... ever.

If you can't get it, its not worth chasing.

TheVoid said:

I wish I'd seen that. The whole thing just sounds bloody hilarious.

First time I came out here I was equally scared by women and ladyboys stroking my leg and not leaving me alone.

TheVoid said:

I did Janet circa 1814

TheVoid said:

You are a liar!!

Every time you used to call me you were on your way to or from Starbucks and then the Mac store or some other store.

Or waffle house.

Or vegan raw scientology restaurants.

CarrieMpls said:

Those are less like shopping and more like Communion.

TheVoid said:

You were forever going to Borders for a while too.

Or was it Barnes and Noble?

Some bookstore. STORE being the operative word.

Just sayin'.

vivid said:

he just hasnt met the right girl... or boy... when he does he'll be a cuddling MOFO!

tinaz said:

I try to tell myself that - really I do, but I just don't know!