HamsterHuey said:

How come you know what I'm talking about?

If he can be caught, then he ain't really straight.

vainandy said:

That gif

Dave1992 said:

It was my gay radar. It honked when you posted.

HamsterHuey said:

connorhawke said:

I have one

Chasing straight guys would be completely useless.

Chasing bisexual guys whom identify as being straight - yeah, I'm doing that right now.

I hate this concept because I see gay dudes pull this off and I get the wrath even though I don't chase straight dudes because I don't want to get my ass kicked

GirlBrother said:

You know he goes both ways?!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Well, yes and no.

He was being super-flirty the other week... I was filing some stuff away and he came up to me and said, "You look really nice today." Well, my friend, Rachel, was stood next to me and she was pretty much agog.

Later that same day, I was sat next to Rachel and he came over to me to chat. Rachel (rather untactfully) said to him, "What's going on with you two? Are you on the turn?" Well, he smiled at us both, then looked me straight in the eyes and said, "Never say never!"

We spent all day Saturday in the office, singing. We duetted on 'Endless Love' - I did the Diana Ross parts.

Every morning for the last week or so, I've had an email from him, saying:

GOOD MORNING!!!



...and then I send him a smiley back.

I am completely in love with him.

vainandy said:

i can be caught.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

So what was the dream with me in it about then?

Fauxie said:

I can kick the ass of a dude who is holding a baby

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

GirlBrother said:

yes please re-title thread name, it's all wrong

ZombieKitten said:

NO! It ruins the fantasy!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Yeah, it wouldn't be nearly as interesting. I mean, it could be 'GAY MEN - Chasing closeted gay men' but that would get 0 views.

Anyway. I had a deep conversation with the straight flirter on Saturday about anal sex ("Does it make your bum wider and leak?"), whether or not I'd ever want kids and just how great I am in general.

My friend Nafisa was sat two desks down, listening to this all and was emailing me frantically with a running commentary.

Oh - and he sang 'I'm Coming Out' too. In a falsetto.

I'm surprised at how open a lot of straight guys are to a gay man being flirtatious with them, as long as no one else is around. I've been doing it for years and most of them are very flattered by it. They would never admit it to anyone, however.

As far as intimacy is concerned, I prefer it with straight guys. The sex is WAY better with a straight dude. They seem to be more sure of themselves and very eager to please. I have never had a sexual experience that I enjoyed with a guy who identified himself as gay. Just my personal experience.

kitbradley said:

IT's in your mind, this disatisfaction with sex with gay men.

can i use this thread to rant about how much i loathe straight girls who are only bi/gay as far as making out, and nothing further?

ScarletScandal said:

MacDaddy said:

Sure. Honestly, while I have experienced some flirting, I can't say that I ever had a gay guy chase me. Friends who are gay might joke about it from time to time, but strangers don't seem to waste the time. They may flirt for a while, but are gone as soon as better prospects show up.

Bitches.

Stax said:

You sound like a prospective Photo Whore® looking for some action...

What's stopping you from stepping into the limelight?

whistle said:

See you in London mister

HamsterHuey said:

Hear, hear!

I think this thread is as weird as the "tops vs. bottoms"-thread on here; people seem so boxed in on the whole. You have to be this or that, labelled and tagged.

I have had my 'straight encounters', it's always been a problem to me, as I am often not attracted to effeminate guys. And that gets me to the place where you indeed are attracted to straight guys. I used to have long infatuations with colleagues, like GirlBrother, but I found that these kind of crushes close your mind to the people that are actually available.

Sure, I flirt back, but I do not harbour any hopes that I can turn these guys. It's just for fun, like I would stare at any woman that looks at me until she melts. It's for the fun of flirting.

I've had some experience with experimenting straight (or bisexual) dudes over the years, though. Some colleagues (DON'T go there) and some friends, but it was always just for the experience for them. They felt comfortable enough around me to admit to and act upon these fantasies, but never followed up on it with messages of everlasting love.

Any gay man that thinks he has turned a straight man, had something with a person that was bisexual to start with.

But, to come back to my original remark; there is a lot of 'boxing' going on here; while I think that most people are boxed in most ways, I think that at certain times in their lives these peeps are more willing to jump out of their box just cuz they can. Or are drunk.

So "Just fun, nothing ethereal"

Stax said:

bitch, i chatted you up ALL night.