So my husband and I are watching 100,000 Lovers on BBC... This women had that many men most becuz she was a prostitute and now is a sex addict... So we got into a discussion of.. why would a man pay for a hand job? I understand paying for sex and a blow job but a hand job? you all got hands and thats free!

He couldnt explain it very well to me, but the jist of it is I just dont understand men...

Someone explain to me please..

tinaz said:

1. He doesn't have to do it. End of story. A man can make himself a sandwich too, but why do it when your woman can do it for you?

2. This thread isn't NSFW. You owe me porn!

PunkMistress said:

Hold on, let me dig up something!

www.redtube.com


A porn schmorgasbord!!

I guess I just cant understand paying money for stuff I can get free...

tinaz said:

You're not a man!

PunkMistress said:

Thats what he keeps telling me!!

PunkMistress said:

The best way I can describe it is it's like fanning yourself. The amount of energy you exert doing it works against the pleasure you get from it. It's always best to sit there like a bump on a log and be serviced.

Paying for one makes about as much sense as buying bottled water.

sextonseven said:

I do that

but I get what your saying...

I don't pay for hand jobs, blow jobs, or sex of any kind, but I presume that men will pay for a woman to give them a hand job because they want to feel a physical sexual connection with a woman to satiate their desire. Sure they can jack themselves off while fantasizing about some supermodel or Playmate or watching some porn, but they won't get the same feeling that they would with a live woman.

this is so cute... it's like Tinaz is PunkMistress' apprentice...

Tinaz and Erin

men are lazy.

Stax said:

That's what I was trying to say in a nice way.

So is Tina, btw, everybody knows about redtube!

PunkMistress said:

I think for most people the appeal of sexual activity with another person (vs., say, yourself) is experience, not just physical pleasure. It's the difference between microwaving a can of ravioli at home and going out for ravioli at an Italian restaurant. And still for others the appeal of multiple partners is the novelty of experience. It's the difference between going out to the Italian joint you've been to 20 times and going out to some intriguing new restaurant you've never before visited.
[Edited 4/17/10 7:11am]

Stax said:

PunkMistress said:

tinaz said:

OK, I was listening to a radio show and a guy called in to admit that he would paint his fingernails on his hand with red nail polish then jerk off in front of a mirror focused on the hand with the painted nails to pretend like a girl was doing it to him!

tinaz said:

Wow that show sounds sad. Anyway...remember that the sensitivity from someone else's touch is often better than your own. Sure a man can give himself a hand job but it probably feels better when someone else does it. Plus there's that whole carpal tunnel thing.

DesireeNevermind said:

And we have a winner!! You hit the nail on the head.

PunkMistress said:

God, I feel like such a porn virgin!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

RenHoek said:

No im not...

Paying for sex is something i'll never understand.
I don't get what's so hard to understand about the concept of handjobs.
Getting a massage is great because it feels good having someone else touch you, right?

So how is a handjob that different?

tinaz said:

Tina, don't front We've seen your fall from grace right before our very eyes

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

some of my favorite org moments...