I took a trip down memory lane today.... my client wanted to know the story about how I met my husband. to make a long story short .. I told her I new I was meant to be with him because I had met him when I was six months into my very first long term relationship.. and at the time thought he was sweet and cute but was so into my first love I never really looked into it. needless to say after that I never saw him again till 4yrs later... when I got invited to a party and he was the host.. we both had just gotten out of long term relationships within the last 5 months.. that night we reminisced about the first time we met and I knew from that moment on that we would be inseparable and he was the one for me... now I have been with him for 5 years and married a year and I couldn't imagine life without him by my side . he is everything anyone could hope for in a person! hes my husband, my lover ,my best friend...

So now since I told my sappy love story to you all....

I wanted to ask you romantics and non-romantics

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Do you believe in soul mates?

have you ever experienced something like my story?

if you have and if you wanna share tell me about it...

No, don't believe in soul mates.....anymore

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

aww why not?

My sweetie and I fell in love at first sight.

Genesia said:

insatiable3 said:

Had a bad heartbreak last year with somebody I THOUGHT was my soul mate...turns out he wasn't

No.

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

aww that someone is out there and im sorry to hear about that those are hard and very painful

insatiable3 said:

Thank u

Nah.

Soul Mate is a made up term, and I still don't know what it's supposed to mean.

I've been waiting for mine since high school...shit! Where are you my king????

peacenlovealways said:

That's just the thing with life.. you can't "wait" on fate to bring "your king" to you.

Don't "wait"; get looking! And while you're looking, you will find that actually you're compatible with more than just (The) One.

I believe in "Wanna Fuck" at first sight. Not Love.
That comes with knowing a person.

I believe we have several soulmates, and a fraction of those involve sexual feelings towards each other.


I consider many of my closest friends soulmates. Hell, I have soulmates I'e met here on the org.


But if the specific context of "the one perfect person" for you, I don't really believe that--I believe there are many...perhaps thousands of 'perfect' people for you. And I believe that sometimes you have the perfect person but the timing is just not right---it's a crap shoot, but I'm starting to see it as quite beautiful.

TheVoid said:

I have to agree on some of that...

johnart said:

I believe in Love, then 1000 questions of getting to know you. Then wedding.

peacenlovealways said:

insatiable3 said:

GuRRRL, you will NOT believe how über intelligent I really am. Don't let this clown act on the org fool ya---in real life, I bum rush motherfuckers with intellect.

Cinnie said:

I have like a description of him in my head...it's pretty sad really. His body type, height, back ground, clothing style, hair color, facial features. His personality...no wonder I'm single.

TheVoid said:

I have always thought you were very intelligent. i can just tell with all of you in depth threads and you have a wonderful funny personality to go with it

peacenlovealways said:

So it will be "love at first sight" should you meet someone who looks closest to your vision?

TheVoid said:

Well,I've heard psychics say we have several soulmates...people we feel close with.

Cinnie said:

Yes, but I want them to feel attracted to me too. I also like shy, respectful and sweet guys.

insatiable3 said:

oh

holy


fucking


shit.



You're my new boo!!!

insatiable3 said:

I agree..all those amazing threads he comes up with.

Wasn't theVoid the one who came up with that abusive family story..I was about to shed some tears, then at the end he said he made it up?

TheVoid said:

oh your too damn sweet

and just so you know I always read your threads i rather enjoy them

insatiable3 said:

1) No. In most cases, the "love"/attraction you (not you specifically, but people in general) feel for a person "at first sight" will not be reciprocated by that person, or vice-versa. Your experience in particular, insatiable3, is rare.
2) No.
3) Nope. And most likely won't.

peacenlovealways said:

I'm not wired that way.