There was a guy that shot himself...he didn't succeed in killing himself, his face was split open, but now he's a speaker...he helps people. Some people are in abusive relationships..spouse or parents. Some are living on the streets. i thought about it too. Hang in there.

peacenlovealways said:

It looks like I'm stronger and I can see everything from a different (better) side of view

zaza said:

Good, so how do you feel about bridesmaid outfits? You might pull a fancy lesbian

zaza, killing yourself is NOT an option. I believe it is never an option. If for no other reason, think of the loved ones you would leave behind. You don't like to hurt them now, do you? Imagine how you would hurt them and the grief you would cause them by killing yourself. They would be scarred for life. And for what? Because of a girl? You're better than that. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Keep your chin up, my friend.

Poiple said:

It's not just because of that girl, I was simply under pressure..you know, surrounded by people who are fake, school, etc.. I know that suicide is not solution. I was just thinking about it yesterday for five minutes..and I'm glad it's gone now

zaza said:

So, about the dresss...

All I can offer is a

I'm goin thru some stuff myself that have given me thoughts of suicide....but I just keep prayin about it and take it day by day.

vivid said:

If some beautiful (but blind) lesbians were invited, I'm all for it

vivid said:

And there we have it. Again.

zaza said:

Sounds like we have the potential for on hell of a party going on here

endymion said:

endymion said:

johnart said:

Thank you, John

Yep, gotta look for the positives, hang in there and just keep on keeping on until things are better. You'll be alright. I'm sure you've got more going for you than you're giving yourself credit for or can see right now. You're an open, honest, nice guy, for one. You'll be alright.

Fauxie said:

I just hope it won't be even worse.

zaza said:

Look at it this way. It is better to get to know the fake people sooner than later.

As for the school, remember this Mark Twain quote "I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened."

dag said:

zaza said:

It might be, but that's life. There's too much beauty in it to do anything other than at least try to be as positive as possible and try to feel better. Time marches on and at some point you'll be feeling better and looking back on this time, maybe not glad for the experience, but stronger for having come through it.

Fauxie said:

if you want a free trip to thailand Im sure Imago would love to show you around.

I don't have time to read the thread as my life is s very stressfull right now in so many ways , but I just wanted to give you a and tell you that I am very happy that you are staying strong . And I'd love to meet you if you can really make it to Vienna .

Serious said:

Everyone's gonna go there before me!

dag said:

Good one

vivid said:

Yeah... That's what I said, just in much more words!

Aelis said:

Awww I wish you could come soon .

I've never been in this kind of situation (break-up) but I just want to say this:

just chin up, you need to have a more devil-may-care attitude; remember, there is no one like you in this world, you are the most important someone for you in your life, yes?, so get out there and enjoy your life, every minute of it...ENJOY YOURSELF!

Serious said:

So do I...

JoeTyler said:

great advice.

ADVICE: Get on a plane, come to the US, and I will let you stick your face in my cleavage.
It will make everything better. Trustttt meee.