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Printabletackam said: My mother is pretty lovie that way. The rest of my family, not so much.
I'm very affectionate. I'll totally give a nice-to-meet-you hug. My friends are mostly pretty cuddly people too, and I dig that. In a romantic relationship, I basically can't get enough touch, and I like to let people know that I love them. I try to rein it in around people I don't know so well. But I wish I didn't have to. . . I wish random acts of cuddling were more socially acceptable. 
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tackam said: I try to rein it in around people I don't know so well. But I wish I didn't have to. . . I wish random acts of cuddling were more socially acceptable.
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were you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?
No. Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect. Nuh-uh. Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it? I can leave it. Like, way leave it. does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? Just keep your damn, dirty ape paws offa me and everything's gonna be alright.  | |
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Ace said: does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? Just keep your damn, dirty ape paws offa me and everything's gonna be alright. Awwww, come hereeeee... 
Haha, I hate random people huggin' up on me too. ACRYLIC
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Unfortunately i was not raised in a loving environment,
But because of this i am the opposite, especially with my kids, we are always showing love and affection and this is one of the reasons why we are so close. Everything i missed out on with my parents - i’ve felt a zillion times from my kids.  | |
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PunkMistress said: tackam said: My mother is pretty lovie that way. The rest of my family, not so much.
I'm very affectionate. I'll totally give a nice-to-meet-you hug. My friends are mostly pretty cuddly people too, and I dig that. In a romantic relationship, I basically can't get enough touch, and I like to let people know that I love them. I try to rein it in around people I don't know so well. But I wish I didn't have to. . . I wish random acts of cuddling were more socially acceptable.
YES! Right? "And I think to myself, what a wonderful world. . ." "What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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Cinnie said: tackam said: I try to rein it in around people I don't know so well. But I wish I didn't have to. . . I wish random acts of cuddling were more socially acceptable.
"What's 'non-sequitur' mean? Do I look it up in a Fag-to-English dictionary?" | |
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tackam said: Cinnie said:  ! | |
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insatiable3 said: So my question to you all is.. were you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person? Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect. Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it? does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? I was raised to be a considerate and polite by my parents. As far as caring, loving, or affectionate goes...I learned that on my own. I just have love to give, and I'm willing to share it with people who are worth it. I'm not touchy feely. I respect people's personal space. People who are close to me, like family or friends, give me hugs at times and I allow it and enjoy it. It's nice, but I don't hug complete strangers. 
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were you raised to be a lovie/affectionate person?
not really but was raised to be nice, polite and kind Are you touchy feely to the ones you care about Friends/family/ect. no, cause isn't really many people i care about, and the ones I do care about aren't touchy feely. Or is it not a big part of your life and you can take it or leave it? personally i love hugs and signs of affection, cuddles etc etc but don't have that in my life. does it bother you when someone who is not a family member gives you a hug? no i cherish it cause i feel it is the only sign of affection i get. | |
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For a Finnish person I hug people a lot. In a formal manner though and I do that to men too. I don't hug my best male friends, but perhaps those that I've been together in a band with etc. I also learned to use such words as "dear" or "love" while staying in the UK when I was 19-20, but for some reason Finnish women look really puzzled when you use similar expressions.
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of course, i'm an spaniard | |
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 I love to hug.
I love to hug and kiss people that people that I love  MICHAEL JACKSON
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mods! Do what's right!  | |
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